We might put extra deodorant, make sure there's nothing stuck in between our teeth, and wear our best clothes.

可能噴點除臭劑，確保沒有東西塞牙縫，或穿最好看的服裝

But what happens when your crush is an introvert?

但倘若對方是內向的人呢?

They might not even notice you when they got their head buried in their book.

他們在專心看書時可能根本沒發覺你

Your path's rarely crossed when it seems like the two of you have different interests.

興趣不同讓你們的生活幾乎是平行線

And yet, it only took one time for you to notice how special they are.

但只需要一次就讓你發現他們的特別

Here are five helpful tips when your crush is an introvert.

這裡是5個小撇步給那些當你喜歡的人是內向的人

One: Just because they're still reserved around you doesn't mean they always will be.

第一：他們看似情感含蓄，但不代表一直都會是這樣

Patience is the way to an introvert's heart.

耐心是唯一道路通往他們的心

It takes time for introverts to open up.

讓他們打開心胸或許很花時間

It might seem like they're not into you if they're emotionally reserved,

情感含蓄的情況下，可能會讓你誤以為他們對你沒興趣

but this doesn't mean they don't want to get any closer to you.

但不代表他們不想要再靠近你一點點

I thought my boyfriend wasn't into me on our first date when he was closed off.

在我第一次約會時，我男友那時比較內斂讓我以為他對我沒興趣

But boy was I wrong, give them time and don't be discouraged or intimidated.

但我是錯的，給他們一點時間並且不要喪氣或被嚇倒

Instead, see it as an opportunity to work up your charm.

相反的，把這看做是一個機會去建立你的魅力

Two: When making plans, choose less crowded places that are comfy and casual.

第二：當做決策時，在少人的團體內他們能比較自在

Introverts prefer comfy, low-key settings over loud, hectic areas.

內向的人比較傾向自在.低調，而不是吵雜的環境

This doesn't mean they never go to big events or parties,

但不代表他們從不參加活動和派對

but they prefer to do it in small doses.

他們比較傾向去一會兒

When choosing activities to do together,

當選擇一起參加活動時

be considerate and pick fun things the both of you can enjoy without stressing your crush out.

表現體貼，並做點你們兩人都能享受其中的事

Going to the beach when it's not so busy,

在離峰時段去海灘

Watching a movie on rainy days,

在雨天看一場電影

and visiting the art museum are all some options to keep in mind.

還有去看美術博物館，這些都是很好的選項

My boyfriend's personal favorite is going to quiet places with me where he can get great shots on his camera.

我男朋友最喜歡和我去安靜的地方並用他的相機拍好看的照片

Three: Don't take it personally if your crush needs some alone time.

第三：如果他需要靜一靜，給他一點時間

You probably want to spend as much time with them as possible.

你可能會想花很多時間和他在一起

That's understandable, who doesn't enjoy hanging out with their crush.

這很合理，誰不想要和自己喜歡的人多相處一點

But, introverts can get overwhelmed after a long day,

但對內向的人來說，相處一整天會感到壓力很大

even extroverts need to recharge.

連外向的人都需要充電了

Be supportive and allow them time to unwind.

支持他們，並給他們時間放鬆

It just means they're preparing for the next time you guys hang out.

給他們一點時間去準備你們下一次的約會

Bonus points if you leave them a cute note or encouraging text.

如果你給他們留下一個可愛的紙條或鼓勵的話語會有加分的幫助哦

Four: Speaking of texts, find out the best way they prefer to communicate.

第四：講到紙條或訊息，請找到他們喜歡的方式去溝通

Some introverts, especially shy ones

內向的人，尤其是很害羞的那一個

feel more comfortable texting instead of talking in person when you first meet them.

會覺得打字比當面講還輕鬆

Whereas others hate texting all the time and prefer to make plans to hang out in person.

而其他的人可能會是相反

Find out what their communication patterns are and contact them accordingly.

找到他們的溝通模式並從而溝通

My boyfriend hates talking on the phone unless it's an emergency,

我男朋友討厭在電話上講事情，除非很緊急

so we stick to face-to-face conversations and text messages.

所以我們專於面對面討論或傳簡訊

It might be hard to get the ball rolling initially,

一開始可能有點困難

but introverts like to feel connected to the people they talked to,

但他們會喜歡保持聯絡

so skip the small talk and dive deep.

所以跳過一些寒暄並聊點深入的吧

Five: You don't have to be introverted to make a good impression.

第五：不需要跟他一樣當個內向的人來博取信任

Yes, birds of a feather flock together but opposites also attract.

羽毛一群很好看，但相反的，一根也很吸引人

Just because your crush is an introvert

只因為對方內向

doesn't mean they're expecting their ideal lover to be one too.

不代表他們也要找一個內的的人

If you're an extrovert,

如果你很外向

Be mindful of their space and always ask before assuming they like going to the same exciting places as you.

銘記他們喜歡的地方，並常問他們是否喜歡此處

Introverts know how to have fun too, but some activities, events and settings can be too much for them.

他們也會尋求歡樂，但一些活動對他們來說可能太過頭

It's not about changing who you are, but meeting somewhere in the middle.

不需要改變你自己，只需要各退一步

Introverts can be hard to read,

內向的人內心不好摸透

so we hope these tips come in handy.

所以這些撇步應該可以派上用場吧

What are some challenges you face with your introverted crush?

你愛上內向的人時遇到什麼困難嗎

Please share your thoughts with us below.

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