My name is Tyler Oakley and today I wanted to give you

我是Tyler Oakley 今天我想告訴你們

a little piece of advice that I was once given

一些在我覺得自己像個輸家的時候

that helped me through a time in my life

給我很多幫助的

when I just felt like a loser.

小建議

And, whatever way you might feel like a loser,

而不管你是在怎樣的情形下覺得自己像個輸家

if you ever do feel like a loser,

或者你是不是曾經覺得自己像個輸家

people don't get it.

事實上其他人就是不懂

It's like when I feel like this,

當我這樣覺得的時候

it's because I feel like I'm not accomplishing

是因為我覺得我沒辦法達成

what I want to accomplish.

我想要達成的目標

Or, other people are doing better than me,

或是其他人做得比我更好

or I'm just like not necessarily

或只是因為我覺得自己好像不是

where I want to be in life,

我想成為的樣子

or whatever it is, I just feel like

或是其他什麼的，我就是覺得

people wont get it, I'm going through my own thing,

其他人都不懂，只有我自己了解

I just feel like shit.

我就是覺得很糟

That's it.

就這樣

And a lot of that has to do

而這很大一部份是因為

with comparing yourself to others,

你在跟別人比較

which I know is just part of being competitive,

在我看來也就是你在某種程度上很熱衷競爭

I'm pretty competitive, but whether or not you're

我也很熱衷競爭，但不論你是不是

competitive, you will eventually

熱衷競爭，終究還是會

compare yourself to others

把自己拿來跟別人比較

because they'll get a part you want in a play,

也許是因為他們得到了你想要的戲劇角色

or they'll get the spot that you want,

或是你想要的位置

or the solo you want, or a job you want,

或你想要的solo機會或工作

or a college admission that you want,

或是他們進了你想進的大學

and if you spend your life comparing yourself

但如果你把生命花在拿你自己

to everyone around you, you will never be happy.

和別人比較，你永遠都不會快樂的

There's always going to be somebody

總是會有某個人

whose killing it in some way that you will

在某方面厲害得

maybe not ever be able to.

你永遠都比不上

But, the good thing is you are going to be killing it

但好消息是，總會有件事

in your own ways.

是你擅長的

If you feel like a loser,

如果你覺得自己像個輸家

I guess the most important thing is

我想最重要的就是

if there were a contest to being who you are,

如果有一個看誰最會做你這個人的比賽

there will never be anybody in the world

世界上不會有人

who will beat you.

做得比你更好

That's one way you will always win.

這是一個你總是會贏的比賽

You will always be the number one version of you.

你一定會是最好的自己

You will always win that!

你永遠都會贏

So, if you every feel like you're down and out,

所以如果你覺得很沮喪

and you suck in every way,

或覺得自己什麼都做不好

I guess, have happiness in the fact

我想你該為

that nobody will every be a better you than you!

沒人比你更會做你自己而高興

Even Meryl Streep, one of the best actresses of all time,

就算是像梅莉史翠普這樣厲害的演員

will never be able to pull off

也沒有辦法

being you, as well as you can be you.

比你更會做你自己

And I think there's something to be said for that.

而我想有人該告訴你這件事

So, yeah.

所以

I hope that helps.

我希望這對你有幫助

I hope you feel less shitty

希望你會覺得

about the situation that you're in,

沒那麼糟了

if you're in a shitty situation.

如果你現在覺得很糟的話

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如果你喜歡這個影片，記得要按喜歡

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如果你想看我最新的影片

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就按那裡

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要聽我最新的廣播就按那裡

If you want to be my person of the week, click right there!

想成為我的每週之星就按那裡

And I will see you guys next time.

下次見

OK, later!

拜拜!