Well if you get an epidural it feels like you're pooping

如果妳做無痛分娩，它感覺就像在大便

but in a really weird position

不過是以一種很怪異的姿勢

'cause they make you put your legs up and hold them.

因為他們要求妳抬起雙腿並維持同一個姿勢。

(springy music)

(輕快的音樂)

Hi my name's Maddie, nice to meet you.

嗨，我叫 Maddie，很高興見到妳。

Hi I'm Davina.

嗨，我是 Davina。

Do you know why you're here?

妳知道為什麼妳在這裡嗎？

Yeah because you're a teen mom.

知道啊，因為妳是一個少女媽媽。

Okay, how old do you think I am? Do you know yet?

那麼妳認為我幾歲？妳已經知道了嗎？

17

17

I'm 15.

我 15 歲。

Yeah.

是的

I had my baby when I was 14

我在 14 歲的時候生小孩

and I had just turned 14 when I got pregnant.

當我懷孕的時候我才剛滿 14 歲。

How old are you?

妳幾歲了？

I'm 12.

我 12 歲。

I remember when I was 12.

我記得我 12 歲的時候。

Boys would always like send pictures and stuff.

男孩總是寄照片和一些有的沒的。

I'm like what was that weird looking worm?

我在想那看起來像蟲的怪東西是什麼？

(laughs)

(笑聲)

They don't do that anymore here?

他們現在不這麼做了嗎？

Oh well I got one Snapchat about it and was just like

哦，我在 Snapchat 裡收過一張，然後我想

just gonna delete.

就把它刪除吧！

It's really bad.

這真的很糟糕。

So I kind of got exposed to that early.

所以我有點太早接觸到了。

Then when I got a boyfriend, he wanted to have sex.

然後當我交了男朋友，他想要發生性行為。

I didn't really want to but.

我當時不是很想，不過

Tell him to do it himself.

叫他自己 DIY。

(Both laughing)

(一起笑)

I kinda thought, I love him. This is what he wants.

我那時想，我愛他。這是他想要的。

So if want to keep him, this is what I have to do.

所以如果我要留住他，這就是我必須要做的。

Which, is not the case. So never..

然而，其實不是這樣的。所以永遠...

Yeah.

是啊。

Think that, but we ended up having sex and I got pregnant.

不要這樣想，不過我們最後還是發生了性行為而我懷孕了。

Did you guys use protection?

你們沒有用保險套嗎？

No.

沒有。

Well!

噢！

Yeah, but in Texas they don't really teach you

沒錯，不過在德州的學校他們並沒有真正

about that in school.

的教導你這些。

What would you think if you got pregnant?

假使妳懷孕妳會怎麼想？

Oh I feel like I'd get killed.

哦，我覺得我會被殺死。

(Maddie Gasps)

(Maddie 喘氣)

My parents would be like.

我的父母會像是這樣。

No. Yeah.That's what I thought too.

不。對啊，我當時也是這樣想的。

Luckily my parents were supportive,

很幸運的是我的父母很支持我

but with some people, like, it's not the case for them.

但是對於某些人來說，情況並非如此。

And it's really sad.

那真的很令人難過。

How did you know if you were pregnant?

妳是如何知道妳懷孕了？

I lost a lot of weight 'cause of morning sickness.

因為孕吐的關係我瘦了很多。

Didn't your mom take you to the doctor?

妳媽媽有帶妳去看醫生嗎？

Yeah. She thought I was sick.

有。她以為我生病了。

So when I went to the doctor, one of the nurses,

當我去看醫生的時候，其中一位護士

she was a teen mom, so she just had this gut feeling.

她也是個少女媽媽，所以她有這個直覺。

Like I did not say anything. Well she did a pregnancy test,

我當時並沒有說什麼。她替我驗孕

and it turns out I was, I think, 12/14 weeks pregnant.

結果當時我想我已經懷孕 12/14 週。

Whoa.

哇。

So I found out pretty far along.

所以我發現得很晚。

Oh wow.

哇。

So yeah. Me and her dad had already broken up.

沒錯。那時我和她的爸爸已經分手。

I ended up telling him. How do you think he reacted?

我最後告訴他。妳認為他的反應是什麼？

I don't think he'd want to keep the baby.

我不覺得他會想要這個孩子。

Yeah. His initial thought was abortion.

沒錯。他最初的想法是墮胎。

At three months pregnant, abortion wasn't really

懷孕 3 個月，墮胎並不是

something that I thought I should go through with.

我認為該經歷的苦難。

So, I ended up keeping her. Obviously.

所以，我最後留下她。顯然地。

But she is the little light of my life.

但是她是我人生中的光芒。

Obviously, you should not be having sex at 14.

很清楚地是，你不應該在 14 歲時有性行為。

Well yeah.

是啊。

Yeah, but I mean stuff happens.

但是我的意思是說有些事情就是會發生。

I can't go back and change it, you know.

你知道我不能回到過去並改變它。

And even if I could, I wouldn't because I love my daughter.

而就算我可以，我也不會這麼做因為我愛我的女兒。

But it's obviously not something I recommend.

不過這並不是一件我會建議去做的事情。

I don't recommend it at all.

我完全不建議大家這麼做。

Did people feel bad for you being pregnant at 14?

人們會因為妳在 14 歲懷孕而替妳感到難過嗎？

Like yes. They also kinda feel like

會啊。他們好像也會因為

I'm a bad person because of it.

這樣而認為我是一個不好的人。

I don't think you're a bad person.

我不覺得妳是一個不好的人。

- Thank you. - Just made a

- 謝謝妳。- 只不過做了一個

- Bad choice. - Yeah.

- 不好的選擇。- 是的。

I agree with that. I took the consequences of my actions

我同意。我為我的行為負責任

and I made it into a beautiful thing.

並且將它變成一件美好的事。

Do you still keep in contact with her dad?

妳還有和她的生父聯絡嗎？

Um, I do now but that just happened.

嗯，我現在有，不過這是才發生的事。

He recently started seeing her

他最近開始和她見面

and I mean he's been really nice.

而且他表現得很好。

I really didn't expect that kindness from him,

我實在沒有期待能從他身上得到任何的善意

but I'm really happy that she gets to have a father

但是我感到很開心，她能夠在她的生命中擁有一個父親

in her life because even though I'm a young mom,

因為即使我是一個少女媽媽

I wanna try to make her life as normal as possible,

我還是想要讓她盡可能擁有一個正常

and as good as possible. Do you wanna meet her?

美好的人生。妳想見她嗎？

Yeah

想

She's so cute. This is Everly. Everly, this is Davina.

她很可愛。這是 Everly。Everly，這是 Davina。

Ah she's so cute. I love babies.

啊，她實在是很可愛。我最喜歡嬰兒。

Do you want to try to hold her?

妳想要抱她嗎？

I'm scared. I think she is gonna yell.

我害怕。我覺得她會大叫。

You can shake hands. Everly shake hands.

妳可以握手。Everly 握手。

Oh wrong hand. Okay. Okay. Oh she's so warm.

哦，錯手了。好的。好的。哦，她好溫暖。

(giggling)

(咯咯笑)

What's your favorite part about

妳最喜歡哪一個部份

Just the bond.

親密的關係。

My mom would always talk about it.

我媽媽總是談論這個。

I was just kinda like oh yeah so its basically a bond

我當時想哦這不就像是

you would have with a sibling, but it's

和姊妹間的關係嗎，不過它

so much more than that. It's just like.

不只是那樣。它就像。

I don't have a good bond with my sibling.

我和我的姊妹關係不怎麼樣。

(everyone laughs)

(大家都笑了)

She's just like "go away". I'm like, "I'm in the hallway".

她會說「走開」。我會回答，「我在走廊上」。

(laughs)

(笑聲)

High five. Oh nope. Not with that hand.

擊掌。哦不是。不是那隻手。

(laughs)

(笑聲)

Bye it was so nice to meet you.

再見，真高興和妳見面。

Bye.

再見。

Everly you want to shake hands too?

Everly 妳也想要握手嗎？

Oh it's the slobber hand.

哦，這隻是口水手。

Oh that's okay. It's a cute slobber hand.

哦沒關係。這是可愛的口水手。

Okay bye.

拜拜。

(Clapping)

(拍手)

Okay. She's happy. I'm gone.

好的。她很開心。我要走了。

Thank you for watching Kids Meet A Teen Mom.

感謝你們收看 Kids Meet A Tenn Mom。

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如果你想要訂閱我們 YouTube 頻道

Follow our journey. There's a link down below.

追蹤我們的旅程，下方有連結。

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不要忘了也訂閱 Hiho Kids

and watch more Kids Meet videos.

並觀看更多 Kids Meet 影片。

(baby babbling)

(嬰兒牙牙學語聲)

Oh my gosh.

哦我的天啊。

Bye.

拜。

(Laughs)

(笑聲)