Ooh. Not to lie.

哦，不騙你不要說謊。

Even if it hurts, you have to be honest.

即使很痛，也要誠實。

I've lied a couple of times, and I don't feel right about that.

我撒過幾次謊，我覺得不妥。

The most important lesson, for me, has been not to place too much value in other people's opinions.

對我來說，最重要的教訓就是不要太看重別人的意見。

Chances are no one is thinking about you as much as you think they are.

機會是沒有人像你認為的那樣想你。

Don't hit the brakes in a Ford Probe going about 80 miles an hour when it turns from pavement to gravel.

當福特探界者從人行道轉到砂石路時，不要踩剎車，時速約80英里。

Take it easy.

放鬆點

Not to get so overwhelmed. Not to stress.

不至於如此不知所措。不要有壓力。

I think that it's very unhealthy to hang on to things that are bothering you.

我認為，把煩惱的事情掛在嘴邊是很不健康的。

To treat others as you want to be treated.

要像對待自己想要的那樣對待別人。

To not fight anymore.

為了不打了。

I can understand, like, defending yourself, but there's literally no reason you should ever try to hurt somebody.

我可以理解，像，保護自己， 但有字面上沒有理由 你應該永遠嘗試傷害別人。

Probably forgiveness is the most important thing that you can do.

也許寬恕是你能做的最重要的事情。

No matter what they've done, forgive, so that you're not holding that hurt or the hatred.

不管他們做了什麼，都要原諒，這樣你就不會再抱著那份傷痛和仇恨。

You can't just, like, be like "F" you.

你不能只是，喜歡，是像 "F "你。

You got to be like, bless you, and move on.

你得像，祝福你，並繼續前進。

I feel like I judge people too much sometimes.

我覺得自己有時候對人的評價太高了。

So, I'd like to not do that.

所以，我希望不要這樣做。

You don't know what's going on in everyone's life.

你不知道每個人的生活中都發生了什麼。

Maybe they're not having a great day.

也許他們今天過得不是很好。

Don't judge all the time.

不要總是判斷。

Accept everyone, where they are for who they are, starting with yourself.

接受每一個人，他們在哪裡，他們是誰，從自己開始。

Not hating yourself for the things that you've done.

不恨自己做過的事情。

Learn from your mistakes.

從錯誤中學習。

Try to have only one wife.

儘量只娶一個老婆。

Keep your family as close as you can.

讓你的家人儘可能的靠近你。

The most important lesson I learned was from my mom, who, at 67, after retiring, was taking another nursing test.

我最重要的經驗是媽媽給我的，她67歲退休後，又要參加護理考試。

If you're not learning, you're dying.

如果你不學習，你就會死。

So, keep learning.

所以，要繼續學習。

We just simply don't know the answers.

我們只是根本不知道答案。

As you get older, you realize how absolutely clueless you truly are.

隨著年齡的增長，你會意識到自己到底有多無能。

And that's okay.

這也沒什麼。

Listen to you heart.

聽聽你的心聲。

If something really feels right, just kind of go with it.

如果真有什麼感覺，就有點順其自然吧。

Don't ever stop what you're doing. Just --

永遠不要停止你正在做的事情。只是...

Invest in yourself. Do what you love.

投資於自己。做你喜歡的事。

Really put your heart into everything that you do and to things that you deem important.

真正用心去做每一件事，去做自己認為重要的事情。

At the end of the day, you're the only person that's with you 24/7, and why not do what you want to do?

到最後，只有你一個人24小時陪著你，為什麼不做自己想做的事呢？

You got to be who you are.

你要做你自己

Appreciate yourself, like yourself.

欣賞自己，喜歡自己。

How to love myself so that I can love others.

如何愛自己，才能愛別人。

That is an amazingly powerful thing.

這是一種驚人的力量。

It's better to have loved and lost than never loved.

愛過又失去，總比從未愛過要好。

Just to be present.

只是為了在場。

You get more out of your life by living it now.

通過現在的生活，你可以獲得更多的人生。

Finding a way to care about other people.

找到一種關心別人的方式。

Not stop giving.

不停止付出。

Always hope for a better life for everyone.

永遠希望大家的生活更美好。

Seeing how grateful people are when you help them goes a long way.

當你幫助別人的時候，看到別人的感激之情，就會有很大的幫助。