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Are you spending the night in watching this video, because you don't have any plan?
I know what that's like, and I'm here to let you know that you aren't alone.
Thousands of people watching this probably wish they were sitting next to someone like you.
Being socially awkward might seem like it's a big part of who you are, but here's a small secret.
It's only big because it's what you focus on. In reality, there's more to you than what you give yourself credit for.
Here are five ways to make friends when you're socially awkward.
Why show up at a bar you never go to, when you can use your everyday settings?
If you study in school full-time and work on the weekends, you can make friends with your classmates and co-workers.
Cliques often prevent people from getting to know each other, but there are ways to overcome these social walls. It starts with an open mind.
Judge someone for the content of their character, not based on the music they listen to, nor what they wear.
When you start with something familiar, you'll all feel comfortable, and maybe strike up a conversation about a common interest.
If you're worried about being out of place,
don't be. People don't admit this a lot, but the truth is: life can be incredibly boring, seeing and hearing the same things every day.
Maybe you're exactly what someone needs to spice things up.
Different interests come in handy when others can learn a thing or two from you, and vice versa.
An erupts people of happiness and open doors.
Instead, practice vulnerability. I know how hard it can be when rejection is feared.
But you never know until you try. In fact, you can never succeed if you don't try.
Telling yourself you're not good enough to talk to someone will only prevent you from building connections with others.
Make a list of all of your strengths and talents, and tape it to your mirror.
Each day before you leave for school or work, read it to remind yourself that you're special.
Sounds like a no-brainer, right? But etiquette is timeless, classy, and makes you an approachable person.
People are usually turned off by selfish, self-absorbed individuals, who only talk about themselves.
If you're shy, you might be scared to lend a helping hand or comfort someone, when you see that they're having a bad day.
But compassion is a way to someone's heart. So the next time the person who sits next to you in chemistry
fails a test you aced, take the leap and offer help. It's hard for people to resist light, during dark times.
Overnight success is a myth, and so is the whole scenario of meeting someone who just gets it.
If it were always that easy, we wouldn't have room to grow. Know that the best friendships take time.
It's okay to move slow, and don't compare the friendships you're forming with someone else's.
Everyone's story unfolds differently. Instead of stressing out about why you haven't made matching bracelets or had sleepovers yet,
embrace the present for what it is, and practice vulnerability.
Expect yourself to make mistakes, you're only human after all.
Remember, people don't need perfection. They only need to feel understood and loved, in order to make connections.
See the best in others, and be encouraging of their dreams.
But have the guts to let someone see you fall down sometimes. Tell them about the fears that keep you up at night.
They'll be relieved because, chances are, they have them too. Good friendships always add value for both parties.
Accept that the both of you have strengths and weaknesses, but when you come together, a special bond is formed.
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不擅長社交的你,可以用這五種方式交朋友!(5 Ways to Make Friends When You're Socially Awkward)

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Samuel 發佈於 2018 年 10 月 29 日    B.Y.l 翻譯    Evangeline 審核
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