So today, I wanna talk about the top 12 turn-ons for a woman.

今天就要教大家 12 招成功擄獲女人心。

Now, before we begin, I wanna just point out that on this list, you are not gonna find attractiveness, because yes, obviously it's something women like and would want, but it's definitely not a requirement.

在我們開始之前，我想先強調：你可能長得不夠帥，而女人又會被帥的吸引，但長得帥不是一切。

When I was talking with all of my girlfriends and my sisters, we all agreed on this point, that there are other things that can make up for a lack of attractiveness.

和姊妹們聊天的時候，我們一致認為：有些特質可以彌補長相不夠帥這件事。

All right, so let's get into the top 12 turn-ons for a woman.

廢話不多說，我們進入正題吧！

So these are in no particular order, but first up is, we love a man who is decisive.

這 12 個特點並沒有特別排列順序，第一點：我們愛果斷的男人。

So a man that is just gonna make a choice.

男人要有能力做決定。

If we're going out to dinner, he knows exactly where he wants to go.

如果我們要出去吃飯，他早就有些想法。

It's not like, uh, what do you want, what are you in the mood for?

而不是：呃 ... 你想吃什麼？你有什麼口袋名單嗎？

No, we want a man that takes control and is decisive.

我們喜歡行事果決的男人。

The second turn-on is when you are prompt and punctual.

第二點：準時以及守時。

Now, this just shows a woman that you care and that you're respectful towards her.

讓女人覺得你在乎而且尊重她。

That's always gonna be something that turns us on.

這絕對會吸引到我們。

Now, it may not be a turn-on that we necessarily notice, but we're definitely going to notice if you're always late, because that is a huge instant turn-off for us.

也許我們不見得會注意到這點，但如果你每次都遲到，那就直接謝謝不用再聯絡了。

The third turn-on is a well-mannered gentleman.

第三招：行為舉止像個紳士。

So that is someone that holds the door open for a woman, and knows not to eat before she's served as well, and you know, just someone that's polite to others.

比如說為女士開門，或者是用餐時也要等到女方的餐點送來時才一起享用，對每個人都彬彬有禮。

Now, you'd be really surprised how uncommon it is to find a well-mannered gentleman.

你現在知道當個紳士有多麼不容易了吧？

The fourth turn-on is when you smile a lot.

第四招就是要面帶笑容。

Because that just shows you're really friendly, and you're lighthearted.

讓人覺得你好親近，而且隨興好相處。

Nobody wants someone that's super serious all the time.

沒人想跟不苟言笑的人在一起啊。

Smile more!

多多微笑啊！

Number five, this is a given a great sense of humor is gonna be an instant turn-on.

第五點，我們都知道幽默感會讓好感度大增。

Now, this is for a woman, as well as just for your friends in general, and people around you.

不管是對女生，還是對你的一般朋友和你身邊的人。

Everyone likes someone that has a great sense of humor.

大家都很喜歡跟有幽默感的人相處。

Now, does that mean you have to be the life of the party?

這是指你一定要在社交場合扮演活絡氣氛的角色嗎？

No, but a nice well-placed joke here and there goes a long way, and it's something that we all enjoy, and we wanna be around.

當然不是這個意思，但適時地來點幽默會對你在這方面有很大的幫助，我們都喜歡這樣的生活，也都喜歡這樣的氛圍吧！

The sixth turn-on is when you can maintain a fun and easy-going conversation.

第六點：永遠有趣又聊不完的話題。

This is what attracts people to someone, when they are able to just have a really fun, lighthearted conversation, rather than someone that just kinda stands there, and is serious.

話題投機，自然能吸引到對方，當他們聊得非常、非常起勁的時候，而不是像個木頭杵在那兒。

The seventh turn-on, which is related to the last point, is something that was on every single one of my girlfriends' lists, and that is someone that is a good, attentive listener.

第七點和第六點有點關聯，這幾乎是每位姊妹們的條件：當一個稱職的聽眾。

This was a big deal, guys.

各位男士這要畫星星做記號啊！

So just please give us the respect of listening to us, because it's a huge turn-on, and something we definitely notice.

傾聽是一種對我們的尊重，這很重要，女人們肯定會因此傾心。

The next turn-on is when a man has indicators of stability.

第八點就是，男人得有一個穩定的生活。

So what I mean by that is when a man has great relationships with his friends and family, and he has a great career, or at least is on the right path towards a great career.

不僅家庭關係要好，還要有良好的人際關係，有份好工作，或者是個有前途的人。

The reason why all of these things are important is because it just shows that you potentially will be a great partner in life.

這些特點會這麼重要的原因是因為，擁有以上特點的人才有可能會是個終生的好伴侶。

The ninth turn-on, and I think this should go without saying but I'm gonna say it, is a man who is confident.

第九點我覺得不用多說，但還是得提一下，男人要有自信。

Not only in himself, but in the things that he does.

除了要對自己有信心，做事也得有自信。

The tenth turn-on is when a man constantly wants to learn and expand his horizons.

第十點就是，要做個好學且喜歡增廣見聞的人。

This is always gonna be a very sexy feature of a man.

這樣的男人最有魅力了。

Always just having that thirst, that thirst for more knowledge is a huge turn-on.

懂得對知識充滿渴望並充實自己，才能吸引女生的目光。

And the next turn-on for a woman is a man who takes care of himself.

第十一點：讓自己隨時處在最佳狀態。

Now, I'm not talking about, you know, late at night, when you're taking care of yourself.

不是要你在夜裡「保養自己」的那件事。

I'm talking about when someone has really great grooming habits.

我的意思是要時時注意個人的衣著。

When you lead a healthy lifestyle.

有個健康的生活。

And if you're watching this channel, you know I've stressed this before, when you are well-dressed.

如果你有在看這個頻道，就知道我強調過這點多少次了。

The twelfth and final turn-on for women is a man who's ambitious and passionate about his career.

最後一點：男人要對事業有抱負與熱忱。

A woman is always going to love a man who loves what he does, and is excited by it.

女人總是會被全心投入工作的男人所吸引。

So those are the top 12 turn-ons for women.

抓住這 12 點，告別單身！

I hope you guys enjoyed it.

希望大家喜歡這支影片。

I left a question in the comments section below, I'd love to hear your answers about that.

我在留言區提了一個問題，想知道大家的看法。

And remember, if you like this video, give it a thumbs-up, and subscribe to this channel for more videos like this for more videos like this.

別忘了，如果你喜歡這支影片，記得給我們一個讚，如果你喜歡這樣的內容，也記得訂閱我們的頻道哦。

All right, have a wonderful day, I'll see you in the next one.

祝你有個美好的一天，我們下支影片見囉！