Name: 12件立即毀掉第一印象的事 (12 Things That Ruin a First Impression Immediately)
Uploaded: 2021-01-14T07:38:50.000Z
Duration: 10 min 9 s

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Twelve things that ruin a first impression immediately.

十二件事立刻破壞你的第一印象

Scientists have proven that we form our first impression about someone within the first seven seconds of meeting them,

科學證實我們對一個人的第一印象在見面後七秒就已經建立

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and there are definitely certain factors that can instantly make or break it.

而其中絕對有些因素會幫助或搞砸它

Are you ready to find out what you should and shouldn't do in order to leave a good first impression on other people ?

你準備好了解要留給別人良好第一印象，哪些是應該做、哪些是不該做了嗎？

But before we start, don't forget to subscribe to our channel and turn on notifications

但在我們開始之前，別忘了訂閱我們頻道和打開通知

so that you'll always be the first to see all our new videos.

你才能隨時第一個看到我們所有最新的影片

This point couldn't be more important for anyone with an upcoming job interview.

這點對於即將要工作面試的人來說是極重要的

A flimsy handshake can be a real first impression killer.

無力的握手可以說是第一印象的殺手

In his research, psychologist William F. Chaplin

在心理學家 William F. Chaplin 的研究，

That's definitely not how you want others to see you, is it?

你絕對不希望別人如此看待你，對吧？

If you're gonna give the right impression of confidence AND capability,

如果你想留下有自信和有能力的正面印象，

remember to grip the other person's hand firmly,

Keeping your hands in the wrong position.

If you're ever sitting in front of a group of people,

you've got to be mindful of where you keep your hands...

because this gives the impression that you're hiding something.

因為這樣給人的印象是你有所隱瞞

This makes people feel like you want to control them!

Also, don't forget about the role that culture plays here.

while gently folding your hands on the table is totally okay in the Western world,

在西方，將雙手輕輕扣在一起放在桌上是沒問題的，

this position is considered rude in Japan and India.

但這個動作在日本和印度是無禮的

Do your research on the customs and culture before you visit another country.

在你前往別的國家之前，好好調查當地的習俗跟文化

This will help you avoid any uncomfortable situations.

這麼做能幫助你避免不愉快的情況發生

You've got to admit that it's incredibly annoying,

So don't even think about it for a job interview.

not your indifference towards your potential employer!

不是你對潛在雇主的漠不關心！

a new study has found that in casual situations,

一項最新研究指出在非正式的場合

people chewing gum are usually perceived as more friendly and approachable.

人們嚼口香糖會被視為更友善和平易近人，

Eye contact has an unbelievably powerful influence

showed that people who maintain eye contact during a conversation,

顯示在對話時保持眼神接觸的人

it doesn't mean you have to stare people down like a creep,

這不代表你要像個怪咖一樣盯著別人

Just don't be afraid to lock eyes with another person from time to time,

別害怕時不時的把視線放在對方身上，

Especially when you meet them for the first time.

Statistics show that women touch their hair up to 18 times a day!

統計顯示女人一天會摸她們的頭髮高達 18 次！

That's fine, if you're fixing it in the mirror.

如果你在鏡子前整理頭髮是沒問題的

But if you play with your hair while talking to someone,

但如果你是在與別人說話時撥頭髮，

you could be sending them the wrong message.

First off: they might think you're flirting with them !

第一：他們可能會以為你再調情！

a person who toys with their hair during a conversation,

And when playing with your hair becomes excessively repetitive,

If you tend to do this when you're nervous,

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