Placeholder Image

字幕列表 影片播放

  • So, you want to know psychologically the best way to flirt?

    你想知道心理學上最好的調情方式嗎?

  • here are some tips

    這裡有一些小技巧

  • Number one

    第一

  • Touch them

    與他們產生肢體接觸

  • Much research has demonstrated that touching a person can increase their complience to completing wide variety of requests

    許多研究顯示,肢體接觸可以使人們傾向於順服

  • and this may extend to the world of flirtation

    這也可以適用在調情方面

  • so it may be a good tip to touch the person you desire

    所以與你喜歡的人產生肢體接觸可能是好方法

  • No

  • Not like that

    別像那樣

  • Studies have found that when a young man in a nightclub asks a woman to dance with him

    研究發現當一個年輕男人在夜店邀請女人跳舞

  • his request was more likely to be followed if he touched her forearm for one or two seconds

    如果他觸碰她的前臂一到兩秒,他的邀請更有可能被接受

  • This may be because tactile contact is associated with dominance

    這可能是因為肢體接觸跟主導權有關連

  • as later when the women were asked to complete a survey

    因為之後女性被邀請去做調查

  • a high score of dominance was associated with tactile contact

    發現主導權跟肢體接觸是有高度關連的

  • Number two

    第二

  • Smooth talk

    順暢的談話

  • Words can do a lot when it comes to flirting

    談到調情,話語很有用

  • It can certainly do you good to suitily communicate your affection with the person you like

    它絕對可以幫助你適當地跟你喜歡的人表達自己的情感

  • Ok no, that would never work

    這種的不行,永遠不會有用

  • Pitch and tone actually have a lot more to do with flirting than one may believe

    音準、語調對調情的影響,比一般人想像的大

  • Research from MIT suggests that men are more attracted to women that vary the tone in which they speak

    麻省理工學院的研究指出,男人比較喜歡說話語調有起伏的女人

  • Those whose voice went up and down in frequency more often

    比起那些語氣平淡的人,語調起伏較大的人

  • received more romantic interest from men than those who spoke with a flatter tone

    通常會得到更多異性的好感

  • This study also found that women were more attracted to men who interjected when they were speaking with phrases

    研究也發現,女人比較喜歡常講語助詞的男人

  • such as yep

    像是「是啊」

  • OK and I see

    「好啊」還有「我知道了」

  • This not only suggests dominance which is an evolutionary trait women find appealing

    這些語助詞讓男人產生吸引女人的特質-主導權

  • but also understanding

    也代表理解

  • Number three

    第三

  • Mirror body language

    鏡像肢體語言

  • Mirror, mirror on the wall

    魔鏡啊魔鏡

  • who is the fairest of them all?

    誰是世界人最美的人?

  • In this case

    在這情況下

  • you'll act as the mirror

    你就是魔鏡

  • 55% of attraction communication is made through body language

    人與人的曖昧有55%是透過肢體語言互動

  • and one of the most subtle

    而其中一個最微妙

  • yet most effective methods of flirting with someone is to mirror their actions

    但最有效的調情技巧就是去模仿他們的動作

  • This is because we unconsciously copy those we are attracted to as a sign that we are interested in what they are saying

    這是因為我們會不自覺地模仿那些吸引我們的人,作為一個我們對他們有興趣的暗示

  • Mirroring someone not only demonstrates that we have good communication skills

    模仿別人不只代表我們有良好的溝通技巧

  • but also, that we're invested in their thoughts and feelings

    也會讓我們更深入了解他們的想法與感受

  • This is also a surefire way of whether knowing someone is interested in you

    這也是一個確認對方對你是否有意思的方法

  • as if they copy your mirroring they just may reciprocate your feelings

    當他們也模仿你的行為時,也許是在回應你的示好

  • Number four

    第四

  • Wear red

    穿紅色的衣服

  • Not that Red

    不是那個 Red (註:Red 為美國喜劇 That 70s show 裡的角色之一)

  • Not only an eye catching color that flatters many skin tones

    不只是一個使人開心的吸睛色調

  • red is also a symbol of lust and sexuality

    紅色也是一個慾望和性慾的象徵

  • and studies have shown that when both men and women wear red

    研究顯示當男人與女人同時穿著紅色時

  • they appear more attractive to the opposite sex

    更容易吸引異性

  • This may be due to the social expectation surrounding the color

    這可能是因為顏色的社會期待

  • However, psychologist Adam Pazda suggests

    然而,心理學家 Adam Pazda 說

  • that instead our attraction to red may be a hangover from human's evolutionary past as animals

    人類會受到紅色吸引,可能是從動物演化的殘留跡象

  • such as female baboons display patches of bright red skin to indicate they are ready to mate

    就像雌性狒狒準備交配時,會露出紅色的皮膚

  • However, it may be good advice to keep it subtle and classy

    然而,維持神秘感和外表還是很重要的

  • Number five

    第五

  • Eye contact

    眼神交流

  • Often viewed as the number one sign of attraction

    這通常是有好感的首要表現

  • eye contact is key when it comes to demonstrating your attraction towards another person

    當你想表達對他人的好感時,眼神交流是很重要的

  • when we make eye contact with a prospective mate

    當你和曖昧伴侶眼神交流時

  • we're in fact searching for evidence of their attraction to us through their physiological response of pupil dilation

    事實上也在透過瞳孔擴大,尋找他們對自己有好感的證據

  • and this is why staring into one another's eyes feels so intimate

    這就是為什麼直視他人的眼睛感覺如此親密

  • Therefore, the best way to let someone know you're interested in them is to gaze into their eyes

    所以要讓別人知道你對他們有感覺,最好的方式就是直視他們的眼睛

  • Just make sure you're smiling and that you don't over do it.

    但要確保一邊微笑,要不然會太壓迫

  • Follow these tips

    跟著這些技巧

  • we wish you luck

    我們祝你好運

  • So, how'd it go?

    所以,一切如何?

  • Leave a comment down below and please don't forget to like and subscribe to our channel

    在底下留言,請別忘了按讚還有訂閱我們的頻道

  • You can also check us out on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter.

    你也可以追蹤我們的 Instagram, Facebook 和 Twitter

So, you want to know psychologically the best way to flirt?

你想知道心理學上最好的調情方式嗎?

字幕與單字

影片操作 你可以在這邊進行「影片」的調整,以及「字幕」的顯示

B1 中級 中文 美國腔 肢體 魔鏡 接觸 紅色 女人 技巧

五大調情技巧 (5 Psychological Flirting Tips)

  • 1543 202
    Judy Huang 發佈於 2018 年 01 月 15 日
影片單字