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  • - [Voiceover] When somebody shares

  • your intimate image or video without your consent

  • to humiliate or punish you,

  • that is a form of online abuse.

  • - Alex and I, we went to school together.

  • We were mates for many years.

  • We hung out all the time,

  • and we practically knew everything about each other.

  • One night, we kissed.

  • I didn't think much of it.

  • It was just a fun night out

  • that went a bit too far, I guess.

  • I mean, I liked Alex.

  • I just didn't want to ruin our friendship,

  • and I just thought we were both on the same page.

  • He called and text me a couple of times that week,

  • but that wasn't out of the norm.

  • However, the next week,

  • we met up again with all of our friends.

  • My friend noticed Alex was just staring at me,

  • but I laughed it off.

  • It was the night after our final exams,

  • so I did have a few drinks just to celebrate.

  • Alex and I stupidly kissed again.

  • Then we went back to his house, and well,

  • you know, one thing led to another.

  • I really regretted it.

  • I knew straight away that

  • I didn't want it to go any further.

  • I just didn't want to date him or anything.

  • I knew I didn't feel the same way about him.

  • He started calling and messaging me

  • an insane amount of times over the following weekend.

  • I ended up calling him,

  • because his messages were just getting too weird.

  • I told him that we needed to meet up.

  • I told him that he was just a good friend,

  • that we should just stay mates, you know?

  • He didn't try to argue with me.

  • He just looked confused and upset.

  • That night I went out with a few friends for girls night

  • and a couple of our male schoolmates were there too,

  • so, my friend Kate, she actually tagged us all

  • in a group photo to get Lara in.

  • Later that night, Alex actually sent me a text message

  • calling me a slut.

  • He also posted photos of me from our night together.

  • I don't even remember them being taken.

  • I'm topless in one, and completely naked in others,

  • and there's just some other ones

  • that I don't even want to mention.

  • I couldn't believe what he had done.

  • All my friends and family, they saw the photos.

  • I was hysterical and I sent him messages

  • asking him to take everything down.

  • I begged, but he stopped answering my calls or my messages.

  • My friends helped me report all the images to the website,

  • and after a day or so, they did get removed,

  • but you know, by then, everyone had seen them,

  • even total strangers had commented on them

  • and shared them around.

  • We reported it to Google,

  • and they helped block the images in Search results.

  • It made me feel a little bit better,

  • but then, Alex posted my name and my mobile number,

  • and I started getting abusive and threatening messages

  • from all kinds of creeps.

  • I kept reporting them, but I also had to take screenshots,

  • and things like that, just in case,

  • I decided to go to the police.

  • I ended up blocking Alex from my mobile,

  • and every single stranger that tried

  • to message or call me,

  • I have to hide my caller ID.

  • I also totally blocked Alex online,

  • deleted him from any group,

  • and my friends made sure that everyone we knew

  • had blocked and deleted him as well.

  • It all stopped eventually,

  • but it took me a really long time

  • to stop blaming myself.

  • I've learned that there are things that you can do

  • to take the power away from the abuser,

  • and gain back control.

  • - [Voiceover] Find out more,

  • at eSafety for women.

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