it's so beautiful. It really is exquisite.

我的天啊 真的好美好精緻

I still can't believe you're engaged

我還是不敢相信妳訂婚了

I know mom. He's really, he's so perfect.

媽 我也不敢相信 他真的非常很完美

But it all happened so fast.

這一切真是太突然了

We don't even know anything about this lucky guy, what is he do?

我們甚至不知道這個幸運兒是誰 他是做什麼工作的

Well his name is Eric, and he's a doctor.

他的名字叫Eric 他是一個醫生

Ooh! I'm thinking country club.

我覺得婚禮可以辦在鄉村俱樂部

They seem genuinely happy for her, until...

他們看起來真的很替她開心 直到....

Uh.. is the a friend of yours?

痾....這是妳朋友嗎?

Dad, this is my fiancee Eric!

爸 這是我的未婚夫Eric

Pleasure to meet you Sir.

很高興認識你 先生

It's not the surprise Dad was expecting, and he makes his displeasure known.

這不是爸爸所期望的驚喜 他看起來非常不悅

Your fiancee? This is a joke, right?

你的未婚夫? 這是一個玩笑吧

No no no no, this is not gonna work.

不不不 這不可能有結果的

if you over heard these parents

如果你聽到這對父母

you could say sayonara to the country club.

你可以跟鄉村俱樂部說莎呦哪啦(日文:再見)

spewing racist and hateful comments to their daughter's fiance

對他們女兒的未婚夫 說出這些充滿歧視和攻擊的話語

Maddie, we raised you better than this.

Maddie 我們對妳的期望比這個高

Mom! Dad! please!

媽 ! 爸! 拜託

Marriage is hard enough without this interracial problem.

婚姻已經夠難經營了 現在還要加上人種的問題

What would you do?

你會怎麼做?

Our hidden cameras are rolling at Bernard's Cafe in Bernerdsville, New Jersey

我們在Bernardsville, New Jersey的一家叫Bernard's咖啡廳裡裝了針孔攝影機

this first customer is also newly engaged

第一個顧客剛得知隔壁桌

in what's happening at the next table

女兒訂婚的消息

how will he react when the parents disapprove

當他看到父母反對女兒的未婚夫時

of their daughter's fiance

他會怎麼做?

Hi, Hi.

嗨

Is this a friend of yours? No, Dad this is Eric, my fiance!

這是妳的朋友嗎? (女兒:不是 爸 這是Eric 我的未婚夫)

So nice to finally meet you guys.

很開心終於見到你們

this is your fiance? Yeah!

這是妳的未婚夫? (女兒:對啊)

uhhh not what we were expecting

痾....跟我們期待的不一樣

I dont' get it. A second ago you were planning my wedding, your happy, and now your

我不懂 一秒前你們還很開心地在計劃我的婚禮

being weird. Aaron, I'm sure you're a really nice person

現在你們表現得很奇怪 (媽媽:Aaron 我相信你是一個很好的人)

and it's really nothing against you

這不是針對你

We just want you to marry someone who looks more like us

我們只是希望妳可以嫁給一個看起來跟我們一樣的人

As our parents storm away

在爸媽憤怒離開後

this gentlemen calmly waves the couple over

這位男士向這對情侶釋出善意

Come over, pal. Have a seat.

過來 坐下吧

I feel bad for you guys. I appreciate that.

我替妳們感到難過 我懂那個感覺

I got an older daughter, 26. Let's face it.

我有一個26歲的女兒

My daughter has brought home some people that were--like eh, alright, whatever

她帶了一個男人回家 那個男人...痾...算了...隨便啦

but

但是

you don't treat people like that

你不能這樣對待人

do you think we should postpone the wedding?

你覺得我們應該把婚禮延期嗎?

If it--your gonna make it happen, you have to follow your heart.

如果你們希望可以繼續走下去 你們要跟隨自己的心

you have to follow your heart, that's you two.

你們要聆聽自己的想法 那是你們兩個的婚姻

you're not going to get anywhere

你們不應該被影響

living somebody else's life

活在其他人的期望裡

heartfelt advice from a loving father to the young couple

慈愛父親給這對年輕情侶衷心建議

but will be as compassionate with the parents

但他會對女兒的父母一樣有同情心嗎?

it was a little bit of a shock for us

這對我們來說滿驚訝的

this guy's asian

他是亞洲人

so you think we're wrong

所以你覺得我們錯了?

we roll again

我們繼續測試

you bring us here in a public place

妳把我們帶到這裡

to break this kind of news

卻沒有事先告訴我們

without telling us this. What do you mean? what kind of news? what kind of news?

妳要宣布這種消息 (女兒:你是什麼意思?)

look at this guy!

什麼意思? 你看看這個人

Mom and Dad continue to put down Madison's fiance

媽媽和爸爸持續言語攻擊Madison的未婚夫

and these two women

而這兩位女士

can't bear to watch

無法承受她們所看到的

I know this might come as a shock

我知道這個消息很突然

I'm not trying to ambush you

我不是故意要讓你們感到衝擊

but I really love your daughter

但是我真的很愛你們的女兒

you seem like a nice guy and everything

你看起來是各方面都很好的人

but this is never going to work, I--I think

但是這不可能有結果的

I think we gotta go

我覺得我們該走了

with the parents gone

在父母離開之後

the women try and do what grandmas' do best

這兩位女士做了慈祥老奶奶會做的事

comfort

安慰

and

和

inspire

鼓勵

Hi!

嗨

I'm John Quiñones

我是John Quiñones

and this is part of a tv show. It's called

這是電視節目的一部分

Oh stop it!

喔 天啊

it's What Would You Do?

這個節目叫 "你會怎麼做?"

oh my god!

我的天啊

How dare you?

你好大的膽子

that is absolute cruel

真是太過分了

Was it hard to listen to the parents?

聽到父母那樣說 妳很難受嗎

yes it was.

對

I think today, life is very different

我覺得跟我那個年代比

from when I was growing up

現在的社會很不一樣了

young adults, now, have a better chance

年輕人現在有更好的機會

with this

可以

enjoying life, together.

一起享受生活

without being

在某種程度上

shunned, in a sense

不用再迴避這些話題

it's a lesson these parents say they learned

這對父母從她們女兒身上學到一課

when their daughter

當他們的女兒

fell in love

墜入愛河的時候

this last couple

最後一對夫妻

Carol and Martin

Carol和Martin

have been married

已經結婚

for nearly 60 years

接近60年

you're engaged?! That's an engagement ring?

妳訂婚了?! 那是訂婚戒指?

you got engaged?

妳訂婚了?

yeah!

對

Well honey--we--

天啊 親愛的

We haven't even seen a picture of him

我們都還沒看過他的照片

and the thought of new love

聽到這個充滿愛的消息

has 'em all excited

大家都很興奮

sorry!

不好意思

congratulations!

恭喜妳

oh thank you!

謝謝妳

but when the fiance arrives

但是 當未婚夫出現以後

the mood

氣氛

changes

改變了

it's nothing about you, Eric

這不是針對你 Eric

but we were expecting somebody different

但是你跟我們期望的不一樣

somebody...

我們期望...

a little bit more like us

比較像我們的人

ten minutes ago you were

十分鐘前

so excited

你們還很高興

no offense

無意冒犯

but

但是

and now you're being

結果現在你卻...

this gentlemen's asian

這個人是亞洲人

I can't believe that your--

我真不敢相信

Is this why you had this here instead of at our house?

這是為什麼妳選在這裡跟我們說 而不是在家裡嗎?

you're being so ignorant about this

你真的太無知了

no we're not being ignorant

我們並不無知

well

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you are

我們是實際

we're being realistic

走

come on

走吧 出去冷靜一下

come on, let's cool you down

你們會回來嗎?

are you gonna come back?

休息一下

take a break, yeah

會 我們會回來

yes, we're coming back

走吧

come on

謝謝你們

thank you!

祝你們好運

good luck!

謝謝

thank you!

父母回來以後

when our parents return

Carol Eisenburg沒有教訓他們

Carol Eisenburg doesn't scold them

她反而用平靜的方式

instead she calmly

提醒他們

reminds them of all the good

未婚夫的

their daughter's fiance

所有優點

has to offer

對我和我太太而言

well it's not easy

真的很難接受

for me

他是亞洲人

and my wife to accept that he's asian

現在輪到我們上場

now it's our turn

來了解

to get to know

這對

this

充滿愛的夫妻

loving couple

嗨

Hi!

你好嗎?

How are you?

嗨

Hi!

我的名字是John Quiñones

My name is John Quiñones

你在開玩笑吧

oh you're kidding.

他們都是演員

they're all actors

所有人都是演員?

everybody were actors?

是的

yes!

妳剛剛在想什麼?

what was going through your mind?

我不敢相信

I couldn't believe that

我不認為

I don't think

這會發生在現實生活

if it was a real situation

我不相信他們會這樣對待人

I don't think they would have handled it that way

我不...妳不相信

I don't--you don't know

妳的媽媽

your mom

不想要妳跟我

didn't want you dating

約會

me

如果我是天主教徒的話

if I was a Roman Catholic

那些條件都沒什麼意義 你知道的

that's, that's nothing anymore, any of that you know so

你們也真的幸福美滿了

and it worked out.

還不確定喔

we're not sure, yet