Name: 【MarieTV】當你要辭職時，該如何面對上司的不理解與身份轉換的過渡期？ (How to Manage Change When You're Quitting Your Job)
Uploaded: 2025-01-05T21:01:30.000Z
Duration: 4 min 54 s

過去簡單式

This is Q & A Tuesday. This is the dance that Jay-Z did when I saw him on the dance floor.

這是周二的問答時間。這是我在舞池裡看到 Jay-Z 時跳的舞蹈。

Today, the question is from Gemma and Gemma writes:

今天，問題來自 Gemma，她寫道：

"I recently told my boss that I'm leaving my job to start my own business in four months.

「我最近告訴老闆，四個月後我將辭去工作，開始自己的事業。

There's been some disappointment and anger that I'm leaving.

我的離開讓老闆有些失望和憤怒。

I feel like a snake that has partly through shedding a skin.

我覺得自己就像一條已經部分蛻皮的蛇。

On one hand, I'm deeply committed to doing an outstanding job in my last four months." Good job, girl.

一方面，我堅定地致力於在最後四個月裡出色地完成工作。」你很棒，女孩。

"On the other, I'm deeply excited about my new business and I'm growing and changing constantly with each little action I take to get my business ready.

「另一方面，我對我的新事業深感興奮，並且透過我為新事業做好準備而採取的每一個小行動，我不斷成長和改變。

My new self doesn't seem to match my old organization and I'm finding it quite tiring and at times frustrating.

我的新自我似乎與我的舊公司不匹配，我發現它很累，有時甚至令人沮喪。

Do you have any advice for managing the transition and for staying patient and energized when I felt like I've outgrown my job?"

當我覺得自己已經無法勝任工作時，你對管理過渡以及保持耐心和精力有什麼建議嗎？」

That's a juicy one, girl. Juicy, juicy! Juicy!

Now first off, before I answer your question, Gemma, I need to know this: are you any relation to the Jem?

首先，在我回答你的問題之前，Gemma，我需要知道這一點：你和 Jem 有關係嗎？

(Jem is truly outrageous, truly, truly, truly outrageous! Jem, the music's contagious, outrageous)

（Jem真是驚人，真的，真的，真的驚人！Jem，音樂具有感染力，真驚人）

Jem is my name no one else is the same! Jem is my name - Jem!

Jem 是我的名字，沒有人是一樣的！Jem是我的名字 - Jem！

But seriously, managing transitions can be really tough, but thankfully, there's some steps you could take to have it feel less icky as you say and it could be a lot more enjoyable.

但說真的，管理轉變可能真的很困難，但值得慶幸的是，你可以採取一些步驟，讓它感覺不像你所說的那樣令人討厭，而且可能會更愉快。

The first thing I want you to do is put yourself in their shoes.

我希望你做的第一件事就是設身處地為他們著想。

It's really natural that you are disappointed about losing you because you are really a valuable asset to the company.

公司對失去你感到失望是很自然的，因為你確實是公司的寶貴資產。

Remembering how essential and valuable you are is a cool tool to help you renew your enthusiasm for your time on the job while you are still there.

記住你的重要性和價值是一個很酷的工具，可以幫助你在你還在工作的時候重新燃起對工作的熱情。

They love you Gemma because you're truly, truly, truly outrageous!

他們愛你，Gemma，因為你真的、真的、真的很驚人！

You really have to focus on that rather than their anger about you moving.

你真的必須注意這一點，而不是關注他們對你離開的憤怒。

After all, no one's upset when a slacker decides to quit.

畢竟，當一個懶鬼決定離職時，沒有人會感到沮喪。

If I were you, I will focus my time and energy on setting this company up to win when you walk out the door.

如果我是你，我會集中時間和精力讓這家公司在你走出去時贏得勝利。

You want to make sure that your colleagues and your boss have everything they need to keep growing when you leave.

你希望確保你的同事和老闆在你離開時擁有繼續成長所需的一切。

And here are four action steps to take to move it along:

為了推動這項進程，需要採取以下四個行動步驟：

First thing you want to do is just have an honest talk with your boss and let him or her know that you understand how difficult transitions can be and that you are fully committed to doing everything in your power to set the new employee up for great success.

你要做的第一件事就是與你的老闆進行誠實的交談，讓他或她知道你了解過渡期有多麼困難，並且你完全致力於盡一切努力幫助新員工取得巨大成功。

Number two, create a comprehensive list of everything you do and everything you are responsible for and you want to review this with your boss to make sure that everybody is on the same page.

第二，建立一個全面的清單，列出你所做的一切和你所負責的一切，並且你想與你的老闆一起審查它，以確保每個人都在同一頁上。

Next, make a process map or a little how-to guide of every single one of your tasks and responsibilities.

接下來，為你的每項任務和職責製作一張流程圖或一個小操作指南。

You really want to set this next person up of everything they need to know to succeed.

你真的想讓下一個人了解他們成功所需的一切。

Really do your best to think of every detail or question the new you is going to have.

盡你最大的努力去思考你將要遇到的新的每一個細節或問題。

Side benefit, making these process maps will really help you in your own business.

附帶的好處是，製作這些流程圖將真正幫助你開展自己的事業。

After all, you are going to have to create new systems and procedures to train your own employees.

畢竟，你將必須創建新的系統和程序來培訓你自己的員工。

Fourth and most importantly, practice staying engaged with where you are rather than being off thinking about what you are going to do next.

第四，也是最重要的一點，練習專注於自己所處的位置，而不是去思考下一步要做什麼。

I can't stress enough how important this habit is.

我怎麼強調這個習慣的重要性都不為過。

Especially for your own businesses' success.

特別是為了你自己事業的成功。

See when you get in your own business, there's inevitably going to be clients, tasks and projects that aren't your favorite, that you really don't want to do and you are going to practice being really there and really engaged in order to get it done.

當你開始自己的事業時，不可避免地會有一些客戶、任務和專案不是你最喜歡的，你真的不想做，你要練習真正在那裡並真正投入，以便完成它。

Really engaging instead of thinking about what you wish you were doing is a key habit for success and satisfaction.

真正投入而不是思考你希望做什麼是成功和滿足的關鍵習慣。

So, there you have it Gemma. Some truly, truly, truly outrageous, awesome ways to manage the transition from your old job to your new business. Hope you enjoyed it.

所以，Gemma就這樣了。一些真正、真正、真正令人震驚、很棒的方法來管理從舊工作到新事業的過渡期。希望你喜歡它。

Now here's what I want to know from you. What's your number one strategy for managing transitions like this from an old job to a new business?

現在這就是我想從你那裡了解的情況。對於管理從舊工作到新業務的過渡，您的首要策略是什麼？

Maybe you are a boss whose had employees who have gone through these and you have some dos and donts to share.

也許你是一位老闆，你的員工都經歷過這些，你有一些該做和不該做的事情可以分享。

I want to hear about it. Leave a comment or even better yet leave me a video response.

我想聽聽。留下評論，或者更好的是給我留下影片回覆。

If you like this video, like it by clicking the like button right here on YouTube and of course share it with your friends all around the interwebs. Thank you so much!

如果您喜歡這個視頻，請點擊 YouTube 上的“讚”按鈕來喜歡它，當然也可以與互聯網上的朋友分享。太感謝了！

If you never want to miss another episode of MarieTV, come on over to marieforleo.com, put your name and your e-mail on the upper right-hand corner of the site and I will give you lot,  lots more free tips about your business and just some other cool stuff.

如果你不想錯過 MarieTV 的另一集，請訪問 marieforleo.com，將你的姓名和電子郵件放在網站的右上角，我將為您提供很多很多關於你的事業的免費撇步和很多酷東西。

Thank you so much for watching and I'll catch you next time.