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  • God, I love your lips, Angelina.

    天啊,安潔莉娜,我愛妳的嘴唇

  • Hi. James from engVid.

    Hi,我是 engVid 的 James

  • I was just thinking to myself, Well, I know it's very difficult to practice English because

    我在想:我知道練習英文非常困難,因為

  • you don't get a lot of practice with English speakers, but if there were a way I could

    你沒有很多機會與英文母語者練習,但如果我能夠教你一種方法

  • teach you how to get past "Hello" to make the conversation grow and perhaps have the

    讓你不只能夠開口說「你好」,還可以延伸對話,甚至讓其他人

  • other person come back and talk to you, that would be a great value.

    回頭和你聊天,那就值得了

  • So this lesson is about how to get past "Hello" and make a beautiful conversation flow.

    因此,本課程是關於如何不只說「你好」,更使一段美好的對話得以延續

  • All right?

    好嗎?

  • I'm going to use Angelina to help me later on when I do an example, but for now I will

    我將在之後的舉例當中以安潔莉娜做為示範,不過現在先讓我

  • tell you more.

    多說一些

  • See? He's like, "Tell me more. Hmm. I'm interested."

    看,他在想:「說多點,我很感興趣」

  • And so am I.

    而我也是

  • All right, so let's go to the board, shall we?

    好的,讓我們來看白板

  • I'm going to give you five conversation openers.

    我將告訴你 5 種對話開場白

  • You've said, "Hello", where do you go?

    你已經說了「你好」,那接下來呢?

  • Personally I hate this because I teach and I hear people say,

    我個人討厭這個,因為我教英文而當我聽到人們說:

  • "Hello. My name is James. I am from Japan, Tokyo."

    「你好,我的名字是 James,我來自日本東京」

  • The conversation is essentially dead.

    這個對話基本上已經結束了

  • Dunh-dunh-dunh-dunh.

    登-登-登-登

  • Don't know if that's the wedding theme or the theme from Star Wars.

    我不確定這是婚禮進行曲還是星際大戰的主題曲

  • Doesn't matter. You understand.

    那不重要,你知道我的意思

  • It's killed.

    對話被扼殺了

  • Nobody cares.

    沒有人在乎

  • You've said everything that they need to know and then they're done.

    你已經把所有別人需要知道的說完了,他們對你也沒有興趣了

  • So why don't we do something that actually gets them to open up and want to tell you information?

    所以我們為何不說一些會讓他們感興趣的話題,而讓他們想告訴我們更多的訊息呢?

  • Okay?

    懂嗎?

  • So the first one we're going to do is this one.

    第一種方式我們要做的是

  • I like this one.

    我喜歡這個方式

  • It's so easy, it's so true.

    它很簡單,也真的有效

  • Look for something that someone is wearing or has that you actually like.

    那就是找出某人身上穿的,或是擁有的,那個是你喜歡的東西

  • You're not going to steal it, so don't think about that.

    你沒有要偷它,所以別想到哪裡去

  • But what I mean is you like.

    我的意思是你欣賞的

  • You like the t-shirt, you like the jeans, the ear rings or something, you're like, "Cool",

    你喜歡的T恤、牛仔褲、耳環或是其他的東西,你覺得:「酷」

  • because that would be sincere.

    因為那是出於真誠

  • "Sincere" means that you really mean it and the person can feel that from you, so they'll

    「真誠」意味著你真心那麼想,而對方可以感受到,所以他們會

  • want to share with you because you're being honest with them.

    想要和你分享,因為你誠實以待

  • All right?

    懂嗎?

  • So we look here, number one, walk up and say...

    我們看這裡,第一,走過去說

  • So it's like, "Hello. Love your __________ (jacket, t-shirt). That is so cool."

    像這樣:「哈囉,我喜歡你的__________ (夾克,T恤)它看起來很酷」

  • Yeah?

    懂嗎?

  • "Where did you get them?" or "Where did you get it?"

    「你從哪得到它們的?」或是 「你從哪弄到它的?」

  • Notice I didn't say, "Where did you buy it?" because some of the coolest things someone's

    請注意我沒有說:「你從哪裡買的?」因為某人穿戴最酷的東西

  • going to be wearing won't be from this country.

    不會來自這個國家

  • It might be, "Hey, I was in India and I picked up these beads.

    可能是:「嘿,我在印度時買了這些串珠

  • Yeah, it was really cool.

    對啊,真的很酷

  • I was outside this ashram and..."

    我當時一個靜修院外,而且...」

  • And now you've got a conversation you didn't even know.

    現在你有了一個意想不到的對話

  • Or it might be, "Oh, I was in the downtown in the hippie section, you know, and it was really cool, there was all this art."

    或者也可能是:「哦,我在市中心的嬉皮區,你知道嗎,真的很酷,那裡充滿了這些藝術品」

  • You've started a conversation.

    你開始一段對話

  • If you say, "...buy them?"

    假使你說:「... 買到這些?」

  • "At the gap."

    「在Gap。」

  • Finished.

    結束

  • So, "Hey. Where did you get them?"

    所以:「嘿,你在哪裡得到它們?」

  • Let them say "buy". Don't bring that up.

    讓對方告訴你是「買」的,你別主動提起

  • Okay?

    懂了嗎?

  • Follow that up with right away...

    接著馬上說...

  • As soon as you say, "Where did you buy them...?"

    當你問:「你在哪裡得到它們?」

  • It's true...

    這是很真誠的...

  • It might not be true right now, but it could be true, you say,

    現在聽起來或許不真實,但是當你說:

  • "Because I really have to get a cool present",

    「因為我真的需要買一份很酷的禮物」,

  • or, "...an interesting gift for my nephew/my brother/my sister/my friend."

    或者:「...是給我侄子/兄弟/姐妹/朋友一個有趣的禮物」

  • Right? Or girlfriend, whatever, or your wife.

    好嗎?或是女朋友,無論是誰,或是你老婆

  • By saying that you're saying, well, one thing, you have other friends.

    藉由這種說法,你表達了一件事,你有其他的朋友

  • But number two, you're giving them, "Cool".

    再者,你誇獎他們很「酷」

  • You're saying whatever they're wearing is interesting, cool, different enough that it

    你在說無論他們穿戴的是什麼都是有趣的、酷的、與眾不同到

  • stopped you to talk to them.

    讓你不由得停下腳步和他們談話

  • By example or by extension, that means added on you're saying,

    通過例子或是對話的延伸,代表你更進一步的說:

  • "You're kind of cool, too, because you're wearing it

    「你蠻酷的,因為我覺得你穿的

  • and I think it's cool, so it's got to be cool and only a cool person would buy it."

    很酷,也只有酷又有個性的人才會買這個」

  • Right?

    對嗎?

  • This is why it works, you've given them two compliments.

    這就是為什麼這個方法有效,因為你讚美他們兩次

  • Who doesn't want to be complimented?

    誰不喜歡得到稱讚呢?

  • First you're saying I'm wearing something cool, then you're saying,

    首先你說我穿戴的東西很酷,再來又說:

  • "I need to get something cool, and clearly what you have is cool."

    「我需要買一些酷的東西,而很明顯的你有的東西就是我需要的。」

  • I'm probably going to talk to you and go, "Well, you know, thanks for saying that.

    我或許會過去和你說:「呃,謝謝你的誇獎

  • I liked it because..."

    我喜歡它是因為...」

  • And conversation started, and now you have an opportunity to maybe later on talk more,

    接著對話就開始了,而你現在有機會接下去聊更多,

  • and that's how you get your practice.

    這就是你如何得到練習英文的機會

  • Number two, how about this one?

    第二種方式,這個如何?

  • "Wow, you are __________ (tall)"

    「哇,你好 __________ (高)

  • or, "You have __________ (really bright eyes)",

    或是:「你有 __________ (非常明亮的眼睛),

  • or something that has to do with the physical body.

    或是和身體有關的東西

  • The first one was about things. Physical.

    第一種是關於外在物品方面

  • Now we want to talk about physical.

    現在我們要談論的是身體

  • And you followed that up with, "What do you do?"

    然後你接著問:「你是怎麼做到的?」

  • Huh?

    什麼?

  • Example, you see someone, you go,

    例如,你見到某人,你說:

  • "Wow, you have amazing skin. What do you do to make it so clear?"

    「哇,你的膚質真棒,你是如何讓它看起來這麼晶瑩剔透?」

  • Okay?

    懂嗎?

  • Hmm.

  • Or, "Wow, you're tall. What do you do?

    或者:「哇,你好高哦,你是做什麼的」

  • Do you play sports or anything like that?"

    「你是運動員還是之類的嗎?」

  • Okay?

    懂嗎?

  • You follow it up.

    你延續話題

  • This is the follow up, as I said, "What do you do?"

    當我說:「你是如何辦到的」,就是延續話題

  • But why does this work?

    但是這方法為什麼管用?

  • Now, notice this is green and I have green up here.

    現在請注意綠色的部分,上面這邊也有綠色的字

  • You probably noticed it but didn't understand why I skipped it.

    你或許有看到,但是不了解為什麼我跳過它

  • I live in North America and basically I could say this is true for a lot of Western society.

    我居住在北美,但基本上這在西方社會都成立

  • We prefer you give compliments on positive things.

    我們喜歡你正面的誇讚

  • Being tall is a positive thing in our society.

    身材高挑在我們的社會上就是一件正面的事

  • Alex, if you've ever seen him, he's a giant, but I wouldn't call him a giant because that's

    Alex,如果你曾見過他,他是一個巨人,不過我不會這樣叫他因為那

  • not necessarily positive.

    不給人很正面的感覺

  • But saying he's very tall, he'll be,

    不過說他很高挑,他會:

  • "Yes, I am. I'm very tall."

    「是的,我是啊,我的確很高」

  • Saying, like, "You're this big huge thing", not good.

    當你說:「你真是個巨大的東西。」,就不好

  • So don't talk about things that might be negative.

    因此不要以負面的說法談論事情

  • If someone is very big in weight, but not muscle, fat, you can't say that.

    假使某人的體重很重,但沒有肌肉,很肥,你不能夠直接說

  • They won't like it.

    他們不會喜歡

  • Even if you think it's delicious, they won't like it.

    就算你覺得那樣挺好的,他們還是不喜歡

  • If you think they're too short, like, "Wow, are you ever small.

    如果你覺得他們太矮小,你說:「哇,你好小巧玲瓏哦

  • you are so small I could..."

    你好小一隻我可以...」

  • Not a compliment.

    不是讚美

  • Okay? So tall is good, bright eyes, good skin, lovely teeth, great hair.

    懂了嗎?所以高是好的,明亮的眼睛、好膚質、好看的牙齒、漂亮的頭髮

  • You know? All these things.

    你知道的,所有這些東西

  • Now, this is physical.

    這些都是有關身體的

  • Because this is a compliment about someone's style, number one; number two is a compliment

    因為第一,這是對於一個人風格的讚美;第二,是對於他們

  • about them personally.

    個人的讚美

  • Now, the reason we don't say negative is you can't do things...

    我們不說負面的原因是你不能做...

  • If you've got a negative feature in your life, like you're not tall or you're fat, you maybe

    假使你有一個負面的特徵,像是你並不高挑或是你很胖,你或許

  • can't do anything about it, so that's not nice to talk about.

    無法改變它,所以這不是一個好的談論話題

  • But positive stuff-I know, your parents make you tall, but people don't think of that-it's

    但正面的東西 - 我知道,你的父母讓你有高挑的身材,但人們不會想到這一點 - 這

  • always good.

    總是好的話題

  • Or good skin, right?

    或是好膚質,對嗎?

  • Or nice hair style.

    或是漂亮的髮型

  • Okay?

    懂了嗎?

  • Why it works, because you've complimented the person, which is good.

    為什麼這行得通,因為你稱讚人,那是好的

  • You've said, "Look, physically, there's something beautiful about you."

    你已經說:「看,你身體的某個部份是美麗的」

  • But you've also, by saying, "What do you do?" if you talk about their skin, you're saying,

    同時你也說了:「你是怎麼做到的?」如果你談論的是他們的皮膚,你在說:

  • "You have a talent" or, "You have a skill".

    「你有才能。」或 「你有技巧。」

  • Or if they're tall, you say, "You've got to be playing sports or something."

    如果他們很高,你說:「你一定有在運動還是什麼的。」

  • So you're actually saying, "You have actually worked on something."

    所以你實際上在說:「你一定有在做些什麼。」

  • So you're not just saying, "You're beautiful", you're saying,

    因此你並不只是講:「你很美麗。」,你是說:

  • "You're beautiful and you've worked on something."

    「你很美麗而你有所付出。」

  • That is good.

    那是好的

  • Okay?

    懂了嗎?

  • So let's go over here, number three.

    讓我們來看第三種方式

  • So we got the compliment, we got, you know...

    所以我們讚美了別人,我們...

  • We're suggesting you got a talent or a skill.

    我們在說你有才能或技巧

  • Number three, "I'm loving the cold/the rain/the sun."

    第三種方式:「我喜歡寒冷/下雨/晴天」

  • Duh, James that's the weather, everybody does that.

    呃,James 那是天氣,大家都會談論

  • You're right.

    沒錯

  • Everybody talks about the weather.

    每個人都會討論天氣

  • I'm asking you to say something different, especially if you're waiting for a bus or

    我請你說一些不同的話,特別當你在等待巴士或

  • in an elevator.

    在電梯裡時

  • When you say the opposite...

    當你說相反的話...

  • Huh? The opposite of what you would think.

    什麼?與你想像的相反

  • It's a bright, sunny summer-okay?-but the last two days, three days it's been raining.

    這是個陽光燦爛,明亮的夏天-好嗎?不過前兩、三天都在下雨

  • Nobody wants rain in the summer, but you say, "How you loving the rain? I'm loving it."

    沒有人喜歡夏天時下雨,但是你說:「你喜歡下雨嗎?我喜歡」

  • They're going to go, "Ugh, I wish it was sunny."

    他們會說:「呃,我希望是晴天」

  • You go, "Not me.

    你回答:「我可不要

  • I'm a gardener.

    我是一個園丁

  • I have a garden, and I need the rain.

    我有個花園,所以我需要雨

  • My garden is beautiful."

    我的花園很漂亮。」

  • They're like, "Gardener?"

    他們說:「園丁?」

  • You're like, "Yeah, I've got roses..."

    你回答:「是啊,我的花園裡有玫瑰...」

  • Conversation started.

    對話就開始了

  • You've brought in the unexpected.

    你帶來了意想不到的話題

  • In the winter, people don't like the cold.

    在冬天,人們不喜歡寒冷

  • Right?

    對嗎?

  • But you go, "Oh, I can't wait, so much snow."

    可是你說:「哦,我等不及了,好多的雪。」

  • They go, "Snow, it's so bad to work in."

    他們會說:「雪讓生活很不方便。」

  • You go, "I ski, man, I love to ski and I love going downhill.

    你回答:「老兄,我滑雪,我愛滑雪,特別是下坡的部分」

  • It's amazing for me. I love skiing."

    「對我來說太棒了,我愛滑雪。」

  • So by suggesting the opposite about the weather, how good bad weather is.

    所以藉由對天氣提出相反的建議,提出壞天氣可以有多好。

  • Huh?

    什麼?

  • How good bad weather can be, you will find that it makes people go, "What?"

    壞天氣是如何的好,你會發現那讓人有:「什麼?」的反應

  • They're curious, and then you get to tell them.

    他們感到好奇,而你就可以告訴他們原因

  • Now, why it works here is you're sharing something.

    為什麼這行得通,因為你在分享事情

  • When we share with each other, we open up to each other.

    當我們彼此分享,我們彼此敞開心胸

  • You're telling me something about yourself that isn't:

    你在告訴我一些有關於你的事情,而不只是:

  • "Hi. My name's James. I'm from Japan."

    「你好,我叫 James,我來自日本」

  • It's like: "Hi.

    那就像是:「你好

  • I ski."

    我滑雪。」

  • Woo, that's cool.

    哇,那很酷

  • But if you just said to me: "Hi. I ski."

    但是如果你只是告訴我:「你好,我滑雪。」

  • I'd go: "Get away from me, weirdo.

    我會說:「離我遠一點,怪咖

  • Don't talk to me."

    不要和我說話。」

  • But by saying something about the weird, I'm like...

    不過藉由說些奇怪的事

  • The weather, which is just weird, I'm like: -"Why would you say this is good weather?"

    天氣,就很奇怪,我會說:「你怎麼會認為這是好的天氣呢?」

  • -"Well, I'm a skier."

    「因為我是滑雪的人啊。」

  • -"Oh, you ski."

    「哦,你滑雪。」

  • -"Yeah, I love to ski and this is the perfect weather."

    「對啊,我愛滑雪,而這是最適合不過的天氣了。」

  • Now I've told you I've got a good personality, I'm positive, and I do things.

    現在,我已經告訴你我的個性很好,我積極正面,以及我做的事情

  • I've shared information and I can ask you to do the same.

    我分享訊息而我也要求你這樣做

  • Cool?

    好嗎?

  • Well, if that's all you think...

    如果這是你所想的...

  • If you're like impressed by this, we've got two more.

    如果你對這留下了很深的印象,我們還有兩種方法

  • Are you ready?

    準備好了嗎?

  • [Snaps]

    [彈手聲]

  • Well, so we were at three.

    所以我們剛才在看第三種

  • Let's do four and five.

    現在我們來看第四和第五種

  • Are you ready?

    準備好了沒有?

  • Oh, but before I do I just want to add a little aside.

    哦,在開始前我想先補充一些題外話

  • An aside is a comment that's not directly related to the topic, but in this case it

    所謂的題外話就是和話題沒有直接關係,不過在這個狀況當中

  • has something to do with it.

    則是有某些關聯

  • There are two parts of conversation, speaking and listening.

    一段對話中有兩個部分,分別是說和聽

  • I was giving you...

    我剛才給你...

  • Or I am giving you some hints or tips on how to be better at conversation.

    或我正給你一些提示和訣竅讓你能做更好的交談

  • But if you're really good at the talking and not the listening, it will die quickly.

    但是如果你十分擅於說話卻不懂聆聽,對話很快就會停止了

  • So what we really want to do is emphasize: You're learning English, so you want to learn

    因此我們真正想做的是強調:你在學習英文,所以你要學習

  • how to listen.

    如何傾聽

  • And here's a couple reasons why.

    這裡告訴你幾個原因

  • You start the conversation, but you should listen more to get a better understanding of English.

    你開始一個話題,不過你應該多聽,才能夠更理解英文

  • Because we may not...

    因為我們可能不會...

  • Well, we don't.

    我們不會

  • We don't speak like the grammar or the vocabulary books that are out there.

    我們不會像一本文法書或辭典一樣的說話

  • So for you to listen to English speakers, you start getting on how we're thinking and

    所以當你在聽英文母語者說話時,你會開始了解我們如何思考和

  • how you should present the information to people.

    你應該如何傳達訊息給對方

  • Okay?

    懂了嗎?

  • So you'll get a better understanding of English.

    這樣一來你能夠更加的理解英文

  • So when it's coming in because you're hearing, you go: "Oh, they don't say that.

    所以當你聽到的時候,你會說:「哦,原來他們不這麼說

  • They say other things, like: 'Whatda ya'", and there's a video I got on that

    他們說其他的,像是:「Whatda ya」,我有一部影片在介紹這個

  • so check that out.

    你們可以去看

  • "Whatda ya mean? Whatda ya say?" Okay?

    「你是什麼意思?你說什麼?」好嗎?

  • The other thing is to catch the other person's interest and

    另一個原因是去瞭解別人的興趣

  • have the other person be able to have another conversation.

    讓對方能開啟另一個話題

  • If you do all the talking, I'm going to think I've heard all I need to hear and I don't

    假使你一直說,我會認為我已經聽到我所需要知道的,而不

  • need to talk to you anymore.

    需要再繼續聊下去了

  • You told me everything.

    你已經告訴我所有的事情

  • But if you're actively listening to me and asking questions because you're listening

    不過如果你正在聽我說話,並且因此能提出

  • that have to do with the information I'm giving you, I'll probably say:

    有關於我給你的訊息的問題,我可能會說:

  • "Hey. This was really cool.

    「嘿,和你聊天真的很棒

  • Let's have coffee later or let's meet up another time."

    改天再喝咖啡或是見個面。」

  • Right?

    懂嗎?

  • And that's what we want to do.

    這就是我們想要做的

  • So we're here: Have...

    所以我們在這裡:有...

  • Okay, have another conversation, ask questions, listen more than you speak.

    再多聊一些,提出問題,多聆聽,少說點

  • Listening more than you speak is a skill most of us don't have.

    「多聽少說」這項技能大部分的人都沒有

  • I'm guilty of it.

    我承認我就沒有

  • But if you actually get this skill you can become actually a better conversationalist

    但如果你真正的掌握了這個技能,你可以成為一個更好的對話者

  • and learn a lot more.

    並且學習到更多

  • Right?

    懂了嗎?

  • Cool, so I've just given my little speech for listening.

    所以對於聆聽這件事,我已經小小的發表意見

  • Now let's go back to what you really came here for, conversation.

    現在讓我們回到主題,對話

  • Right?

    好嗎?

  • Number four, you can walk up and say:

    第四種方式,你可以走過去說:

  • "Hmm. Hi.

    「呃,你好

  • Tell me: How would you finish this phrase? I want to be the very best..."

    告訴我:你會如何完成這句話?我想要成為最棒的...」

  • Now, a friend of mine said: "Okay, dude, that's really, really corny." "Corny" means not cool.

    我的一個朋友告訴我:「老兄,這真的很老土耶。」「老土」就是不酷

  • "Nobody's going to do that."

    「沒有人會這麼做。」

  • I went: "Ah-ha, but the surprise..."

    我說:「啊哈,不過這讓人感到意外。」

  • See? Surprise.

    看吧,驚喜

  • No one does it, so when you do it, you can say anything after that, like:

    沒有人這麼做,所以當你這樣做之後,你可以說任何的事情,像是:

  • "Oh, I've got to do an interview for work", or what have you.

    「哦,我有一個工作的面試」,或者什麼其他的

  • You can follow up with that, but the whole thing is somebody asking you that question

    你接著繼續聊,但整件事情是有人問你這個問題

  • is like: "I want your opinion."

    像:「我想要你的意見。」

  • I didn't write it here...

    我沒有寫在這裡...

  • Oh, I did. Good. Surprise, but I didn't write the second part.

    哦,我有,很好,驚喜,但是我沒有寫下第二個部份

  • By saying: "I want your opinion", I'm saying you are valuable and I think you would be

    藉由說:「我想要你的意見。」,我要表達的是你是有價值的,而我認為你是一個能夠

  • a person who would give me good information.

    給予我寶貴意見的人

  • So that's going to make you go: "Well, I want to be the very best at...

    所以這會讓你說:「我想成為最棒的...

  • Yes, let me think about..."

    是的,讓我思考一下...」

  • Ah, think.

    啊,思考

  • If you make a person think, they think you're intelligent.

    如果你讓人去思考,他們會認為你很聰明

  • It's just how it goes.

    這就是這麼一回事

  • Because if I have the answer and it's obvious, it was a dumb question.

    如果我能夠輕易的回答你,那麼這肯定是個愚蠢的問題

  • When I don't have it, I have to think, I'm like:

    當我無法馬上回答你,我必須思考,我會說:

  • "Oo, that was cool, I'll remember that for the future myself."

    「哦,這蠻酷的,我在未來也會記得這個問題。」

  • Okay?

    懂了嗎?

  • So the element of surprise is why it works.

    所以驚喜的元素就是這方法行得通的原因

  • Nobody would ask it, so when you do you're the first person and you're original.

    沒有人會這樣問,因此當你這麼做的時候你就是第一人,你是有獨創性的

  • Surprise.

    驚喜

  • Okay.

  • Now, number five, this is my favourite.

    第五種方式,這是我個人的最愛

  • "Hey. Did you hear about the goat and the chicken that went on the airplane?"

    「嘿,你聽說過山羊和雞上了飛機的事嗎?」

  • What?

    什麼?

  • Think about it.

    想想看

  • That's just weird for somebody to walk up and tell you some weird thing from nowhere.

    一個人莫名其妙過來,告訴你一些怪事是多麼詭異啊

  • After they say: "Hi. Hey. Hi." Whatever, ho.

    在他們說:「哈囉,你好」之類的話之後

  • But it works, because, and this is why I write it here, it causes arousal.

    但這行得通,因為,這也是為什麼我寫在這裡,它讓人感到興奮

  • Arousal is when you want to get up and move your body, you want to do something, you're aroused.

    Arousal 就是當你想要起身移動身體,你想要做些什麼,你被喚醒了

  • It means you're interested, you feel alive, curious.

    這表示你有興趣,你充滿活力,好奇

  • And this kind of a thing, that's what it does.

    這種事情就會喚醒你

  • Because something's weird, you're like: "Huh?

    因為某些奇怪的事,你會說:「啥?

  • What?"

    什麼?」

  • You might even ask a question...

    你甚至會問問題...

  • They. Sorry, they may ask you a question right away.

    他們,不好意思,他們或許會馬上反問你

  • "Chicken and a goat on a plane flying to Texas?

    「雞和山羊搭乘飛機到德州?

  • What?

    什麼?

  • What are you talking...?" All of a sudden they're actually asking:

    你在說什麼...?」突然間他們都:

  • "You talk to me. You tell me."

    「你跟我說話,你告訴我。」

  • You're like: "Okay, you asked for it.

    你說:「好啊,既然你問了

  • I'll give you the information."

    我就告訴你。」

  • Okay?

    懂了嗎?

  • You know?

    你知道嗎?

  • So, why does it work? Arousal.

    為什麼這行得通?喚醒

  • "Aroused" means you wake up and you're like: "Hmm.

    「被喚醒」代表你醒來而你就像:「嗯

  • What's going on?"

    發生什麼事了?」

  • And it keep...

    而它持續...

  • Gets the emotion of cur-...

    得到一種情緒...

  • It gets emotion and curiosity.

    它得到情緒和好奇心

  • Emotion...

    情緒...

  • And I should explain that one, is this: Emotion...

    我應該解釋一下,這個:情緒...

  • The kinds of emotion you want are things that help people, get people angry, or excited.

    你想要的情緒是讓別人生氣,或激動的東西。

  • Not sad things.

    不是悲傷的事

  • Sad things make people kind of feel:

    悲傷的事情讓人感到:

  • "Ohh", they don't want to do anything and they don't want to talk to you.

    「噢。」,他們不想做任何事也不想和你說話

  • Or content, content is something that just makes you feel okay.

    也不是滿足的情緒,滿足只會讓你感覺不錯

  • Like: "Let's have a beer and relax", and that's what you do, you relax, you're not excited.

    像是:「我們來喝杯啤酒放鬆一下吧」,這就是你所做的,你放鬆但不興奮

  • But things that get you angry, like: "Did you hear about the new tax?"

    但是會讓你生氣的事情,好比:「你聽說了有關新的稅務的消息嗎?」

  • -"Taxes? I hate tax!"

    「稅務?我恨稅務!」

  • Now they want to talk to you about all the taxes in the world, or that chicken and goat.

    現在他們想和你聊聊世界上所有的稅收,或是那隻雞和山羊

  • They're really into that story. Okay?

    他們對那個故事非常感興趣,懂嗎?

  • Now, I've given you five conversation kind of openers, and it's not just...

    我已經給你五種開場白,這不僅僅是...

  • You know, it's the: "Hello" thing, but it's to open it up to have a bigger conversation

    你知道的,這可能只是打個招呼,但是能打開話題讓對談更廣

  • and a longer one.

    更長

  • So let's have an example conversation where we could take one of these things and just

    那麼讓我們舉個例子來說明如何利用

  • utilize it or use it. Okay?

    其中任一種對話的方式,好嗎?

  • How about the one we talked about, personal...?

    關於個人的那個方式你覺得如何?

  • A personal appearance?

    個人的外表?

  • Something on their body or something about them.

    他們身體上的特徵或是和他們有關的事情

  • So we'll start off with: "Wow, you have great *hair*!"

    我們以:「哇,你的*髮質*好棒!」開始

  • You noticed the little stars.

    你注意到小星星的記號

  • Men, this is for you.

    男人們,這個方法是屬於你們的

  • Okay.

    懂了嗎

  • Women don't do this, but I'm looking at you because I know you're going to, and I'm telling you right now:

    女人們不會這麼做,但是我正看著你,因為我知道你將會這麼做,而我現在就告訴你:

  • "Stop. In the name of love, don't do it."

    「以愛之名,停,千萬別這麼做」

  • Gentlemen, do not talk about this area on the woman, the bum-bum area on the woman.

    男士們,不要討論女人的這個部分,和臀部

  • Sexual things, no.

    任何有關性的,都不要

  • They don't like it.

    她們不喜歡

  • Okay?

    懂了嗎?

  • In case you're like: "Yeah!" Yes.

    如果你的反應是:「是啊!」沒錯

  • Do you remember that lady you said it to?

    你記得那位你和她談論到身體特徵的女士嗎?

  • Do you remember how she smiled and walked away?

    你還記得她是怎麼面帶微笑的離開?

  • That's why we don't do it.

    那就是為什麼我們不聊那些事的原因

  • Hair is because she's taken time to fix it, she's put effort in it.

    聊頭髮是因為她花時間打扮,她付出努力

  • Remember I talked about skill?

    記得我說過的技巧嗎?

  • Skin because she takes care of her skin.

    聊膚質是因為她照顧她的皮膚

  • Once again, skill and talent.

    再次強調,技巧和才能

  • Boom-boom, boom-boom, she was given those.

    臀部,屁股,是她與生俱來的

  • She will just go:

    她會告訴你:

  • "You're another man who's just a rude person", so don't go there.

    「你只是另一個失禮的男人。」,所以千萬別誤觸地雷

  • But you can talk about skin, you can talk about hair, you got the drift.

    不過你可以談論膚質,頭髮,你明白的

  • Right? If she has nice legs because it's muscular because she works out, yes.

    對吧?如果她有雙健美的腿因為她有鍛鍊,那麼也是可以聊的

  • If she has nice arms, you go: "Look at your arms, they're strong."

    如果她有漂亮的手臂,你可以說:「看看你的手臂,真結實」

  • She says: "Yes, I'm a rower."

    她說:「是啊,我是個划槳手」

  • Right? Or: "I lift weights."

    懂嗎?或者:「我舉重」

  • You go: "Oh, that's good."

    然後你說:「哦,那真棒」

  • But: "Oo, baby, mm", no.

    可是:「噢,寶貝,嗯」,可不行

  • Mm-mm.

    不-行

  • If you don't do it to your mother or your sister, don't do it to another woman.

    假使你都不這麼對你的媽媽或姐妹,那麼就不能這樣對其他的女性

  • Okay.

    懂了嗎?

  • Conversation done.

    對話結束

  • Let's go back.

    我們回頭看一下

  • Okay, so then you...

    好,所以你...

  • So we started off.

    我們開始

  • Right? You're like: "Wow, you have great hair!"

    對嗎?你說:「哇,妳的髮質好棒!」

  • Then you talk to the other person...

    接著你和其他人說話...

  • Oh, sorry.

    哦,抱歉

  • That's you again here.

    又遇到你了

  • "How do you get it so shiny?"

    「你是怎麼讓頭髮這麼閃亮的?」

  • This is the skill part.

    這就是技巧的部分

  • This is like: "Clearly you do something with your hair other people don't."

    這就是說:「很明顯的你對頭髮做了些什麼是其他人沒有做的。」

  • It's: "Yes, you have something naturally beautiful, but also you take care of yourself."

    也就是:「是的,你有自然美,不過你同時也很照顧自己。」

  • And they're like: "Oh, wow, thank you.

    然後他們說:「哦,謝謝你的誇獎

  • I shampoo it, and then I put some duck grease in my hair."

    我洗髮後會擦一些鴨油在頭髮裡。」

  • Whatever. Okay?

    那一類的,懂嗎?

  • This is the: "Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah", they're going to start talking.

    這就是他們會開始:「巴拉、巴拉、巴拉、巴拉、巴拉、巴拉、巴拉。」說個沒完的時候

  • Please don't fall asleep.

    千萬別睡著

  • You still have to listen, like: "Yeah, cool. Really cool."

    你還是得聽,然後說:「是啊,酷耶,真的很酷。」

  • And then you do this, this crazy thing:

    然後你要做這件瘋狂的事:

  • -"Hi. My name is James. I'm from Japan."

    「你好,我叫做 James,我來自日本。」

  • -"James, you told me don't do this about 10 minutes..."

    「James,你 10 分鐘前不是告訴我別這麼說嗎...」

  • Yeah. But listen: First we had this conversation, then I said: "I'm James from Japan."

    是啊,不過仔細聽:首先我們先有這個對話,之後我才說:「我是來自日本的 James。」

  • Now they're like: "Cool, you're interesting."

    現在他們的反應會是:「酷耶,你真有趣。」

  • And then you go back to:

    接著你回到:

  • "Hey, so tell me more about this duck grease thing.

    「嘿,告訴我你剛說的鴨油這個東西

  • Where do you get it?"

    你去哪裡弄來的?」

  • Or: "Hey, what are your top three things to do with your hair once you do this?

    或是:「嘿,在你心中,對頭髮最重要要做的 3 件事情是什麼? 」

  • Blah, blah, blah, blah."

    巴拉、巴拉、巴拉、巴拉。」

  • And then you'll get back to the: "Blah, blah, blah."

    讓後你回到這個:「巴拉、巴拉、巴拉」的話題

  • And here's a small hint, I say keep the first conversation short, because then you're still

    這裡有個小提示,我認為第一段對話要保持簡短,這樣一來你還是

  • interesting and they have more to tell you so you'll have a reason to go:

    有趣的,而他們會告訴你更多,所以你才會有理由說:

  • "That's so cool. Look, I got to go, take my bus, go on the elevator, my friend's coming, but I'd love

    「和你聊天真的很酷,但我要走了,搭巴士、坐電梯、我朋友要來了,不過我很樂意

  • to have another coffee because I've got to practice my English and it would be great if you could practice with me."

    和你喝杯咖啡因為我必須練習英文,如果你能和我一起練習的話那就太棒了。」

  • And they'll probably say yes because you took the time from all these things.

    他們很有可能會答應,因為你花時間用了之前教的那五招

  • You don't...

    你不要...

  • And please don't use all five at the same time.

    千萬不要把五種方法一次用完

  • "Oh, you're tall.

    「哦,你好高挑

  • Look at this jacket, it's really cool.

    這件夾克好酷哦

  • Oh, do you want to hear about the duck and the...?"

    哦,你想要聽有關一隻鴨子和...?」

  • Don't. One at a time, just one per person.

    不要,一個對話用一種方式,對一個人

  • Okay?

    懂了吧?

  • But because you started off in an interesting way that was different, they're more likely

    可是因為你一開始用了有趣的,與眾不同的方式對談,他們就很有可能

  • to say: "Sure.

    告訴你:「好啊

  • That sounds good.

    聽起來不錯

  • I come here regularly" or: "You can meet me here", or: "I'm doing this".

    我經常來這裡。」或是:「你可以和我約在這裡。」,或者:「我之後想要做這個。」

  • Trust me, it'll work.

    相信我,行得通的

  • Be yourself, tell them you're practicing English, be interesting.

    做自己,告訴他們你在練習英文,讓自己有趣點

  • I can almost guarantee you they'll say: "I would love to chat with you again."

    我幾乎可以向你保證他們會說:「我很樂意再和你聊天。」

  • And don't forget what I said here about listening is important as the speaking part.

    別忘記我在這裡說過的,聆聽和說話的部分一樣重要

  • Anyway, that's the lesson.

    總之,這就是今天的課程

  • You've got five. I gave you five hints. Right?

    你得到五種方式,我給了你五個提示,對嗎?

  • Or five clues.

    或者說是五種線索

  • I know they'll work for you.

    我知道它們行得通的

  • And I want you to subscribe.

    我希望你訂閱

  • Somewhere around here is the "Subscribe" button, I don't know, but find it and please subscribe.

    在這裡的某個地方有個「訂閱」的按鈕,我不知道確切在哪裡,不過請找到它,然後請訂閱

  • Thank you from E and myself, of course, we love when you come and click on the channel.

    E 和我感謝您,當然,我們很喜歡你來觀賞我們的頻道

  • And if this lesson has been valuable to you, share it.

    如果你認為這個課程對你而言很有幫助,那麼請分享它

  • We do this for you, and if you have a friend or someone who's also learning English, share

    這個影片是為你們而做,假使你知道有一個朋友或某個人也在學習英文,和

  • it with them as well so they can get the same joy that you get.

    他們分享影片,這樣他們也能夠得到相同的喜悅

  • All right?

    好嗎?

  • Anyway, have a great day and we'll see you soon.

    無論如何,祝福你們有個美好的一天,很快的再和你們見面

  • Thanks.

    謝謝

God, I love your lips, Angelina.

天啊,安潔莉娜,我愛妳的嘴唇

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