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  • Hey, everybody! Welcome to another Q & A Tuesday!

  • Alright so, you're seeing this video right now because we actually planned for it but

  • in reality right now, I am in Africa! And, I'm there teaching at The Branson School of

  • Entrepreneurship and hanging out with Sir Richard Branson himself which I'm very excited

  • about. So stay tuned because I'm probably going to be publishing some real time footage

  • of Africa. So you may see some lions and some tigers, and some Sir Richard Bransons. You

  • know all kinds of wild creatures and fun stuff! So stay tuned for that!

  • But now let's get back to what the focus is today which is Q & A Tuesday!

  • Q: So our question today comes from Mary and Mary writes:

  • "How do you find the confidence to put yourself out there regardless of what the haters might

  • say? What if people say I'm too young; I'm too old. My business model isn't "serious"

  • enough. I'm a fraud?"

  • A: And I got to tell you, Mary that is a very common question. I think it's something most

  • of us deal with if we're going anything creative on a daily basis. So here's what I think about

  • the whole confidence thing. Confidence is overrated. If you wait until you feel confident

  • to start anything, you're never going to start anything! You're never going to put it out

  • there because none of us feel confident especially in the beginning when you're first starting

  • a new adventure.

  • Anytime I began a new part of my life, like when I first started teaching dance. I was

  • terrified! I was shaking in my boots. When I first started making videos, I was horrible

  • at it! Shaking in my boots! When I first started writing, completely not confident. Insecure

  • but I pushed myself to do it anyway and that's really the key to, ironically, developing

  • some confidence. And if you haven't seen the video that we've done about how to live in

  • the moment, how to really silence that negative voice in your head.

  • You should check it out! There's a little link somewhere (http://bit.ly/liveinmoment)

  • on this video right now to check that one out, too. What I want to do is share a tip

  • with you right now that will support you in gaining self-confidence. It'll actually push

  • you past some of that fear and get you to just crank it out which is what we all need

  • to do. So here's the trick that I use, whenever I'm putting something out there and I'm fearful

  • of the haters, feeling insecure.

  • I put all my attention on the message. How am I here to help people? What do I want to

  • create? How is this going to support other people? If I have all the attention on myself

  • like, "Ooh, what's my hair look like? What's my outfit look like?" Or people thinking,

  • "I'm stupid or they're thinking I'm dumb!" Forget about it! It freezes me up like stage

  • fright.

  • Can't produce anything but when I put the attention out and focus on taking care of

  • other people and really on the message itself, smooth like butter! And if that doesn't work

  • for you, as a very wise and profound Willow Smith once said, "Girl, don't let the haters

  • keep me off my grind." (Singing: "Keep fighting until I get there

  • when I'm down and I feel like giving up. I think I can. I whip my hair. I whip my hair!")

  • So I really hope you liked today's video and you should come to marieforleo.com to signup

  • for the newsletter, and like it if you like it! And, see you next time!!

Hey, everybody! Welcome to another Q & A Tuesday!

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