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  • If you're still struggling with consent, just imagine instead of initiating sex,

    如果你仍搞不清楚,「對方是否同意性交」 我們不妨換個問題...

  • you're making them a cup of tea. You say "hey, would you like a cup of tea?"

    讓我們先把問題換成 「請問你想喝杯茶嗎?」

  • And they go "oh my god, I would LOVE a cup of tea! Thank you!"


  • Then you know they want a cup of tea.


  • If you say "hey, would you like a cup of tea?" and they're like "um... you know, I'm not really sure…"


  • then you can make them a cup of tea, or not, but be aware they might not drink it,


  • and if they don't drink it thenand this is the important part –  don't make them drink it.

    如果他不喝的話... 重點來了!別逼人家喝茶!

  • Just because you made it doesn't mean you are entitled to watch them drink it.


  • And If they say "No thank you" then don't make them tea. At all. Just don't make them tea,


  • don't make them drink tea, don't get annoyed at them for not wanting tea.


  • They just don't want tea, ok? They might say "Yes please, that's kind of you"

    啊他就不想喝茶啊,行嗎? 也許有人會說「好啊,你人真好」

  • and then when the tea arrives they actually don't want the tea at all.


  • Sure, that's kind of annoying as you've gone to all the effort of making the tea,


  • but they remain under no obligation to drink the tea. They did want tea, now they don't.


  • Some people change their mind in the time that it takes to boil that kettle, brew the tea and add the milk.


  • And it's ok for people to change their mind, and you are still not entitled to watch them drink it.


  • And If they are unconscious, don't make them tea.


  • Unconscious people don't want tea and they can't answer the question "do you want tea"


  • because they're are unconscious. Ok, maybe they were conscious when you asked them if they wanted tea,


  • and they said yes, but in the time it took you to boil the kettle,


  • brew the tea and add the milk, they are now unconscious.

    燒開水、沖茶葉、加牛奶 一回頭他就失去意識了

  • You should just put the tea down, make sure the unconscious person is safe, and this is the important part again


  • don't make them drink the tea. They said yes then, sure, but unconscious people don't want tea.


  • If someone said yes to tea, started drinking it,


  • and then passed out before they'd finished it, don't keep on pouring it down their throat.


  • Take the tea away. Make sure they're safeBecause unconscious people don't want tea.


  • Trust me on this. If someone said "yes" to tea around your house last Saturday,


  • that doesn't mean that they want you to make them tea all the time.


  • They don't want you to come around at their place unexpectedly and make them tea


  • and force them to drink it going "BUT YOU WANTED TEA LAST WEEK",


  • or to wake up to find you pouring tea down their throat going "BUT YOU WANTED TEA LAST NIGHT".


  • If you can understand how completely ludicrous it is to force people to have tea when they don't want tea


  • and you are able to understand when people don't want tea,


  • then how hard is it to understand it when it comes to sex? Whether it's tea or sex, Consent Is Everything.

    換回「性交」就好懂了吧? 不管是「喝茶」還是「性交」,取得同意就是一切

  • And on that note, I am going to make myself a cup of tea.


If you're still struggling with consent, just imagine instead of initiating sex,

如果你仍搞不清楚,「對方是否同意性交」 我們不妨換個問題...

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