I'm turned on by both.

這兩個都讓我血脈噴張

We wanted to conduct an experiment

我們想要進行一個實驗

here in this beautiful bar, where we could

在這個美麗的 bar

actually put perceived masculinity to the test.

在這邊我們可以實際測試外顯的男子氣概

So what you'll see is our wonderful subject, Broderick,

你看得到是我們好看的試驗對象，Broderick

portraying two different versions of himself.

扮演他自己的兩種版本

One that tends to be so much more traditionally masculine

其中一種會傾向傳統的男性特質

in how he conducts himself.

他會將它表現出來

The guy on the right didn't smile,

右邊的男生沒有微笑

so I feel like you have this inclination

所以我覺得你會收到暗示

where you want to win him over.

想要贏過他

People like the chase.

人們喜歡追逐

I would fuck the guy on the right.

我會跟右邊的男人上床

I would probably be in a relationship with the guy on the left.

我可能會跟左邊的男人談場戀愛

And the other one, where he tends to be less so,

另外一個版本，他會比較沒那麼有男子氣概

and can show a very different side of himself.

展現另外一面的自己

I feel like he's more approachable.

我覺得他看起來比較好親近

Could be gay?

可能是男同志？

[Matt] To determine if people do tend to be a little bit more attracted to the traditionally masculine traits.

我們要來確認人們是否真的會比較容易被傳統男性特質吸引

We can kind of show a lot about ourselves

我們可以展現很多我們的特質

based on how much or how little we're smiling.

透過我們是否常笑

People tend to say that they're really attracted to the bad boy,

人們傾向說他們會受到壞男孩吸引

which is a little bit more of a smolder.

也就是比較悶騷一點的

This guy on the right would let me have it!

右邊的男生讓我很有興趣！

Like, "Yeah, I'm gonna give it to you hard."

像是，「耶，我要跟你狠狠的來一發」

And then this guy's sweet like

然後這個男生很可愛

we could have a good giggle.

像是我們可以愉快的聊個天

This experiment is actually really interesting

這個實驗其實相當有趣

because it's not about the differences between masculine or feminine,

因為它不只和男女性特質的差異有關

but how we're valuing that.

還有我們怎麼評斷這些特質

You could take the test as it's going along,

你可以繼續看這個實驗進行

and see what comes up for you.

並看看這會帶給你什麼

[Both Women] Whoa!

哇！

I think I hate both of them.

我想我兩個都討厭

Nah, I'm into the one on the right.

沒有耶，我喜歡右邊那個

His dick's all out!

他老二都掉出來了

Tell me about manspreading, what's that?

男人腿超開的坐姿

I am not doing that.

我才不會那樣

Just have your dick everywhere.

把你的老二放在每個地方

You're just like, "Yeah, whatever."

你只是「對，隨便啦」

I like the guy on the left.

我喜歡左邊那個男的

The way that he's sitting up, his clothing.

他的坐姿和穿著

This guy might be too proper for me.

這個男人對我來說可能太拘謹了

He seems a little more at ease,

他看起來比較自在一點

so I'm more inclined to go with the right.

所以我比較傾向和右邊的出去

Someone might try to order a drink

有人可能試著要點飲料

and since this guy's spread out, they can't get to 'em.

然後因為這男的伸展太開，他們沒辦法拿

The man on the right, I like more

我比較喜歡右邊的男人

because I love sweatpants.

因為我愛寬鬆運動褲

I enjoy a good penis print.

我喜歡若隱若現的老二形狀

More of a relaxed look and presentation

比較放鬆的外貌和表現

based on how we're dressed and how we're positioned

在我們打扮和採取姿勢的基準上

tends to be a little bit more traditionally masculine

傾向比較傳統的男性特質

because it shows that there's not been too much thoughtfulness or effort that's been placed in it.

因為看起來比較不會過度用心或努力

The guy on the left is really theatrical.

左邊那個男的也太浮誇了吧

I can tell that he's a little bit more feminine in his gestures,

從他的手勢我可以看出他比較女性化一點

but I find that kinda sexy.

但我覺得還蠻性感的

You're a good buddy.

你是個好人

You're not the type of person that I wanna take home with me.

但你不是我想帶回家的那一型

I know what firework looks like.

我知道煙火長怎樣

You don't have to do that.

你不需要那樣比

His body language reads a lot friendlier than the other guy.

他的肢體語言看起來比另個男人友善多了

It was easier to just focus on Mr. Right

要專注在 Mr.Right 上比較容易

because he was just staring at you.

因為他會只盯著你看

I need that gain, that like, "Are you interested in me?

我需要一些回饋，像是「你對我有興趣嗎？」

"Aren't you?"

「你沒有嗎？」

That's what entices me.

那才會吸引到我

Hand gestures.

手的姿勢

I tend to use a lot of hand gestures.

我傾向用很多手的動作

From one version of Broderick,

從 Broderick 的一個版本中

you'll see him using his hands a lot more,

你可以看到他一直在使用手

and that tends to be less traditionally masculine

這比較缺少傳統的男子氣概

because it's opening up a little bit more of an emotional vulnerability.

因為它展現了比較脆弱的情緒

Did you see that shot, though?

你有看到那個射門對吧？

Dude, that thing was crazy!

喔那真是太瘋狂了！

The whole apartment started going wild, man.

整個公寓也都狂野起來了，兄弟

But did you see that shot last night?

你有看到昨天晚上那個射門嗎？

Dude, that thing was crazy, man.

兄弟，那真是太瘋狂了

The whole apartment went wild, yo.

整個公寓也都瘋了，yo

Him on the right.

右邊的他

Yeah, that was quick.

對，這很快就可以決定

How come?

為什麼？

His voice was deeper.

他的聲音比較低

I get the juxtaposition, but that was too slow.

我會給同分，但那個太慢了

He was able to just say something, and it mattered.

他很擅長說一些真的重要的事

I always wished that I had that smooth voice.

我一直希望我可以擁有那種平滑的嗓音

Just more chill and just more quiet.

比較冷也比較安靜

I think I would be drawn to find the person with the lower voice

我覺得我比較傾向會找聲音低的人

than the guy with the high, squeaky voice.

相較聲音比較高、比較尖銳的男生

[Matt] How come?

為什麼？

I grew up with men that were very machismo.

我跟非常有男子氣概的人一起長大

I see myself being attracted to that.

我深受那樣的特質吸引

Speech can communicate a lot, being slower, lower.

談話可以傳達很多事，慢一點、聲音低一點

There's something that tends to be a little more traditionally masculine

這當中比較傾向傳統的男性特質

because it doesn't really show an openness.

因為它比較不會那麼開放

Definitely on the right.

絕對是右邊的

Yeah.

對

He's way more engaged.

他專注多了

So you find yourself really drawn to the one that's gonna be locked in.

所以你會真的被比較專心於話題的人吸引

Hell yeah! [Woman] Yeah.

耶！[女生們] 耶

He's leaning in a little bit, that's endearing.

他有稍微往前傾一點，那很可愛

He looked like he was actually paying attention and cared.

他看起來像是他真的很專心且在乎話題

What do you hate about the guy on the left?

你討厭左邊的男生哪裡？

He's just looking at other people.

他一直在看其他人

Don't make eye contact.

沒有眼神接觸

Don't look at that ass.

不要再看別人的屁股

So just that little snippet is like,

剛剛那一點點片段就會讓我覺得

"Oh, that's sexy."

「喔，那超性感」

Eye contact really conveys a lot of intimacy

眼神接觸傳達了不少的親密程度

because when you're looking directly at somebody's eyes,

因為當你直直望一個人的眼睛

it's like looking

那像是在看

into the window of their souls.

他們的靈魂之窗

So, there can be an emotional connection from that.

所以，從這邊可以得到情感的連結

So what happened between you and your ex?

所以你跟你前任之間怎麼了？

Well, I always felt like I was the one loving her and caring for her and everything,

嗯，我總覺得我才是那個愛她、照顧他一切的人

but it seems like she wasn't happy.

但她似乎並不快樂

She always felt like she was the one that was calling the shots

她總是覺得自己是做最後決定的人

and always doing everything right,

而且做對了每一件事

and she basically broke my heart.

基本上她讓我心碎了

Well, I mean we tried to make it work...

嗯，我們很努力...

We went out a lot, we tried to do different things,

我們常一起出去、試著做不同的事

we tried to find the missing pieces,

我們嘗試要找回失去的部分

but unfortunately, we just couldn't figure it out.

但不幸的是我們就是無法搞定

That was like Nicholas Sparks up in here.

看來那邊有個 Nicholas Sparks（美國暢銷作家）

I think the left was a little bit of a turn-off

我覺得左邊的有點扣分

because he kept blaming her.

因為他一直在責怪她

I was ready to be like, "Fuck her."

我原本以為會聽到「去她的」

He just had the answers too quickly.

他回答得太快了

He had closure, and in the one on the right,

他有一個明確結尾，至於右邊的人

there was a lot of ambiguity.

狀況還是蠻曖昧不明

I was like, "Just spit it out!"

我會說，「就說吧！」

He was very internalized about it

他陷入的很深

and just seemed like he was still thinking about it in his head.

而且似乎還在腦中思考這件事

He is not over her because he's still saying we, we, we,

他還沒忘記她，因為他還是一直說我們我們我們

whereas number one was like, I, I, I.

但第一個人都說我我我

So emotional intelligence, or EQ, is when you have a deeper awareness and insight

情商，也就是EQ，是當你有很深的洞察和見識

about the emotional temperature of whatever might be going on.

關於情緒溫度或是任何在進行的事

We can typically think about how traditionally,

我們可以很典型地想到

a man is supposed to be really aggressive and forthcoming,

一個男人傳統上該多武斷和積極

otherwise it's showing an emotional awareness.

反之才會表現出情緒上的洞察

So, when do you wanna hang out?

那麼，你什麼時候想一起出門晃晃？

I'm free Wednesday.

我星期三有空

Are you free? I'm free after 6.

你有空嗎？我6點之後可以

After 6 is good.

6點後很好

Dope, I know this really dope Italian restaurant

太棒了，我知道有間很棒的義大利餐廳

right down the street.

就在這條街上

I think you're gonna like it. You like Italian food?

我覺得你會喜歡。你喜歡義大利菜嗎？

Yeah.

喜歡

Awesome, I'm sure you're gonna love it.

太棒了，我很確定你會愛上它

Hey, I should get your number real quick.

嘿，我想我要趕快跟你要電話了

Okay, so when do you want to--

好阿，所以你想要什麼時候－－

Hey, we'll figure it out.

嘿，我們會喬好的

I'll text you.

我會密你

Hey, can I get a drink for her real quick?

嘿，我能請她喝一杯嗎？

What.

啥

Yeah, no way on the right. Yeah.

沒錯，右邊那個出局。 對

I'd rather have an exact plan and footprint.

我比較喜歡有明確的計畫和行程

It just makes you feel like the person

這會讓你覺得這個人

cares about you.

在意你

It's always like, "Yeah, whatever.

他會一直「對啊，隨便」

"We'll figure it out."

「我們再喬」

And that means that I'm never gonna see you again.

這代表我之後永遠不會再看到你

Shit, I feel like I'm such a slut

該死我覺得我根本超浪

'cause I'd probably pick the one on the right.

因為我應該會選右邊那個

Maybe I'm a flake, I don't know.

也許我是個騙子，我不知道

The pressure freaks me out.

壓力快把我逼瘋了

He knew how to play it.

他知道怎麼進行

It was suave.

這很討人喜歡

So there's something cool about it?

所以這件事很酷？

It felt cool?

感覺很酷？

Yeah, the other guy was like,

對，別的男人會

"Can you get out your gCal

「你可以給我電話

"while we try and write the date and time?"

我們邊寫下約會時間？」

Commitment tends to be something where we can tell a little bit about a person,

投入程度是我們評斷一個人的某種標準

and traditionally speaking, a man isn't supposed to be as committed or available

而傳統上來說，一個男人不會這麼投入或這麼好約

as what you would think of as the aloof guy.

當你認為他是一個冷淡的男人

What's attractive about that?

這的吸引力之處是？

I don't know what the fuck is attractive about that.

我也不知道那到底他媽哪裡吸引人

What is it?

是什麼？

That's something deeper rooted in me

那是某種深植我心的東西

where I'm vying for someone's attention.

我會想爭取某人的注意

I don't know. That's fucked up, man.

我不知道，這很混亂

I don't know.

我不知道

I definitely think that gender norms

我的確覺得性別常規

still actually influence,

仍然有實質影響

though I do think there's been an evolution overall in terms of what that might mean and how things have been redefined.

雖然我也認為根據現在的涵義和被重新定義的事情，已經有進步了

Some of us really exist more in an emotional side,

我們有些人生來比較感性

some of us exist in so much more of a rational side,

有些則比較理性

and it feels like those are two

它感覺像是兩種

competing forces, and when we're guided

在競爭的力量，而當我們被

by what society tells us is okay and normal,

社會告訴我們該如何做引導

then we're gonna be shifted to one end

我們會轉向

of the spectrum instead of being able

光譜的其中一邊而不是

to have a more realized sense of ourselves

更加了解我們自己

as balanced overall.

並維持平衡

Let the nipples fly.

讓乳頭飛

Let it breathe.

讓它可以呼吸

So I enjoy when men let it breathe, too.

所以我也很享受男人讓它呼吸的樣子

It makes me really happy.

那讓我超開心的