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I have been online dating for almost 20 years. And it’s on online dating that I met my

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current boyfriend. By the time I met him, I actually had to review

15 000 profiles. As online dating is becoming the most common

way to meet a partner, there is a high chance that either you or your friends are currently

online dating or will soon. I am here to help you avoid having to go through

15 000 profiles before you find the right one. I’m going to share with you a proven

method that is going to allow you to create a profile that is going to act like a magnet

to the best possible matches out there. [cheers] Thanks!

[laughter] But let’s get started! Who never was on

online dating? Ok, quite a bit.., quite a bit.

Alright, so I need to tell you that among the vast majority of profiles, there are some

profiles that will make you think that some  people do come from slightly different planets,

remember the video (shown) before. You might face cat lovers that think that

more is more. Or little mermaids playing in the water. [laughter]

You might find that actually posing with a tiger is pretty fundamental. Maybe they are

trying to tame the tiger. If you don’t have a tiger …

…. you just make it happen! [laughter] No excuses allowed, ok? [laughter]

And then you might find that sometimes, you aren’t speaking the same language than other users. [laughter]

Out of those absurd moments, I created a blog

and this blog is called Where the F is Romeo? As I was putting together this blog, I found

myself really interested actually by online dating from a societal point of view. I read

articles, watched documentaries, I even consulted a psychologist to really understand the deep

dynamic of online dating. What I also did was to go on forums, reading

about it, reading about people and their experiences. And what I found was that there were hundreds

of people really disappointed with the online dating experience.

There were people that never got an answer to any of their messages. People who went

to memorable dates, but which were memorable for the wrong reasons. And then simply people

that never found what they were looking for online.

I started interacting with them, and trying to understand what was behind that.

Why them and not other people. And what I found were two things.

First of all, their profiles were always generic. Yeah? You read one, you read them all. And

for those who don’t have experience in online dating, I put together some examples.

1.85, speak Italian, English and French. Love sports, going out, drinks, easy going and

Love outdoors. Travel, food, culture geek.

Love to eat good food. [laughter] I mean, to be frank, a part from the height

and the languages spoken, who doesn’t recognize him or herself in those descriptions? I mean,

I know I do and I think pretty much everybody do, so? With generic profiles it’s just

very hard to meet a special person. So that was my first learning.

The second learning was that part of the frustration was originated by a confusion. You see, people

were trying to associate online dating to a social environment they already knew (a

bar or a party). But the truth is that there is no such a bar with endless possible partners

out there. However, while online dating is very different

to a social environment we know, it is actually pretty close to a situation we encounter pretty

often. And this is when we try to buy electronics, detergents, and hygienic paper (toilet paper)!

Ok? So we have, we are trying to close a deal, so make a purchase, there are homogeneous

products and competition is very high. And actually this is what’s happening in online

dating. Here the deal is try to go on a date, among

homogeneous profiles, in a highly competitive environment.

As per detergents, with online dating we have to find a solution to attract the user’s

attention, and close the deal. And you know very well what that is: Marketing.

Marketing indeed is what helps differentiating products. It’s what drives people choosing

one product instead of another. By applying marketing principles to online

dating, we are going to have a profile that is going to attract people and attract the

best matches among those people. But enough of the theory, I know you wanna

to get started with concrete stuffs. So, let’s get started. Let’s imagine that

you are a man on an online platform trying to meet a female partner, ok?

As for every marketing idea, it always starts with one thing, and that’s the Brief.

The brief here is: create a profile leading to a great encounter.

To deliver on the brief, most of you know very well, we need to:

Look at the target group, what’s the target group definition, the needs and her barriers

to trial. What are the points of parity? And of course the points of difference.

Let’s start with the target group. Most men online think that their target group

is a woman let’s say 30-35 years old single who wants to go on a date'.

But which woman single 30-35 doesn’t wanna go on a date?

(laugher) Of course, we need to dig deeper.

To save some time I decided that our target group is a woman that has a sense of humor,

who is generous, she has a successful career, she likes mountain sports, and then watching

fantasy and comedy TV shows.” [laughter] Now let’s have a look at her needs. Here

again she doesn’t only wanna go on a date. It’s not that easy, unfortunately for men.

[laughter] So her needs, I decided that she is looking

for a 30-40 years old man, who is funny of course, who is going to support her and her

career, a companion both at home watching TV and doing sport in the mountains and a

person she could project herself into starting a family with.

Now, barriers to trial. Many men ignore that some women are on online

dating platforms but still are reticent to meet them. But you have me so now you know.

You can run a consumer research, right? Talk with your friends that are part of the target

group or similar to the target group. What are the reasons they wouldn’t meet a person

online and then offline. And very often the word that is going to pop

up is ‘weird’. [laughter] What do I mean by weird? There are two fears.

The first one is that it’s going to feel weird to go on a date with a stranger. Second,

there is the fear of meeting a weird guy. And it’s a real fear. [laughter]

It is very important we remember this when we are going to define our profile because

we need to overcome this barrier. We need to reassure women, our target group that we

are not weird. Points of parity. The points of parity are

the rules we have to follow for us to have a chance of success online.

Like before, you can run a consumer research, you can, you know, read from the experts and

I have here 3 resources. Naturally my blog: you are going to learn what not to do. Don’t

do what’s on the blog please. Then you can read about the ABC Tinder experiment,

and then you can read about Tinderhacks. What you are going to learn is that the point

of parity online is the profile picture. To have a chance of success it needs to be high

quality, you need to look good or at least well groomed, the first pic needs to be you

alone, and then the other pictures need to show your hobbies. If you have a dog, or can

get a dog, you throw it in the profile. [laughter] Because it is really going to increase the

chances of open of your messages. Now, I mean, I wanna, you know, get you, you

know, ahead of the rest of the online dating people.

So I’m going to share with you my personal rules, ok?

Those are real cases, [laughter] those are real pictures. [laughter]

If you recognize yourself in one of the pictures, I’m sorry, [laughter] I am sorry. And then

I hope that at the end of this presentation you will know what to do to fix it, ok?

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