Name: 你，犧牲了什麼？ (What Have You Sacrificed?)
Uploaded: 2023-05-31T21:01:20.000Z
Duration: 3 min 1 s

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Can you think of something that you've had to let go or sacrifice in your life?

你想得到你在生命中曾經必須放棄或犧牲什麼嗎？

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I think most people have numerous sacrifices just to succeed and go forward.

我覺得大多數的人為了成功及進步，犧牲了很多東西。

Jobs, friends, friendships, living situations. Yeah, a million things.

工作、朋友、友誼、生活狀態。是啊，犧牲了很多事物。

Old toys that I do not use, I give it to the poor kids.

我不再用的舊玩具，我會給窮困的小孩。

I'm very sad, but it's the right thing to do.

Pursuing my basketball career as serious as I did. Knowing that I just kept getting injured and it wasn't gonna work.

很認真地去追求我的籃球生涯，我明明知道自己一直受傷，且這不會成功的。

I got cancer when I was a young adult, and I had to move back home.

我在青少年時得了癌症，而我得搬回家，

I had to press pause on career, and on life, and on friends.

且我得暫停我的工作、人生和友誼。

I think in reflection, that year was a very meaningful year in my life.

回過頭反思，那一年在我人生中是很有意義的。

I had to work in a job that I wasn't necessarily thrilled about, but I knew that that was gonna get me to where I wanted to be.

我需要做一個並不會讓我感到特別開心的工作，但我知道它會帶我到我想抵達的地方。

Squeezing pennies, making budgets, and it's, you know, it's actually making me a better person and proving to me that money isn't everything.

精打細算、做預算，這其實也讓我成為更好的人，證明了錢並不是一切。

I think the most successful people that I know, even when they're achieving goals, they're always looking to the next thing.

我覺得我認識最成功的人即使當他們在完成目標時，眼光仍然放得很遠。

I had to give up my own company that I started and that I was building,

我被迫放棄自己成立並正在營運的公司，

and I know if I had stayed on my own, then I wouldn't have been able to accomplish the amazing things that all of our—that our team has accomplished.

我知道若我繼續自己一個人，我不會有辦法完成我們團隊完成的這些厲害事情。

I think anytime you're in a relationship, you're making a series of concessions.

我覺得在一段感情裡就必定會作出許多讓步。

When I had my second child, I took an early retirement.

當我生下第二胎時，我必須提早退休。

I really liked my job, but I felt like my family was more important.

我很喜歡我的工作，但我覺得家人比較重要。

The biggest things that I've had to let go of to move forward were, you know, people.

為了向前，我所做出最大的犧牲大概是人吧。

Giving up the person who I thought I was gonna spend the rest of my life with.

放棄我以為會和我共度一生的那個人。

Coming to terms with the loss of a best friend, a grandparent, a loved one.

逐漸接受最好的朋友、祖父母、愛人離世。

I did lose my dad to cancer when I was 25, and oh god....

在我 25 歲時，我爸爸死於癌症，天啊......

Being away and starting a life away from my family is like, that just doesn't even make any sense in my mind sometimes.

離開家人並且重新生活有時候對我來說根本沒有意義。

I think about that a lot, as my parents get older, that I'm far away,

我時常想，我爸媽漸老，我又住很遠，

and maybe one day, I may have to not be as selfish and I might have to move home and help out.

或許有一天，我不能再這麼自私了，需要搬回家，幫家人的忙。

Later on, you realize, well, you know what, what were you really sacrificing?

之後，你會發現，你到底犧牲了什麼？

Like, you weren't. Like, you're still here. You still have the rest of your life ahead of you.

根本就沒有犧牲什麼啊。你還在這。你還有一輩子的時間。

My dad always taught me that always put other people before yourself, and always remove your ego from certain situations.

我爸都一直教我要重視別人多過於自己，且要在某些情況下放下自我。

It's not easy to let go of it, but you start one day at a time, and it can help you actually achieve your own personal goals so much faster.

那很不容易，但當你開始一天一天的累積，就可以幫助你更早達成你的目標。. . 

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