字幕列表 影片播放
-
I’m dealing with these matters because there are
-
some of God’s true children that seriously are struggling
-
with the areas that I’m going to deal with today.
-
And so,
-
I do want to, I want to visit these things.
-
The first one is a revisit.
-
2 weeks ago, we had this question come up,
-
and I want to, I need to deal with this again.
-
And, I just want to emphasize once again,
-
what I’m about to talk to is taboo for many,
-
but we have many people looking for Biblical answers in this very area.
-
I’m not trying to be unnecessarily graphic.
-
But the question that I fielded 2 weeks ago that I want to return to is this one.
-
A man by the name of Dan asked this question:
-
Is masturbating a sin?
-
I sought to answer that, and we got so much response.
-
And we got folks who felt that it wasn’t clear,
-
that maybe I was being dogmatic about things that
-
maybe weren’t really so much biblical.
-
There have been a number of responses that
-
just led me to believe that we probably needed to revisit this one.
-
You know, based on the feedback that I saw,
-
based on some of the things that I have heard,
-
I am quite convinced that probably every man in this room has struggled with masturbation.
-
I am quite convinced that almost as many girls, at one time or another.
-
What I want to do is... you know the question is, ‘is it sin?’
-
That’s the first question.
-
And what I don’t want to... look, I realize this...
-
this is a realistic issue
-
that we need to deal with;
-
the church needs to deal with, Christians need to deal with;
-
myself as a pastor, I need to address.
-
And I don’t want to do it in a way where I just beat everybody over the head,
-
I just dismiss you as, “well, if you’ve got a problem with this, you’re not a Christian.”
-
That’s not the case.
-
We’ve got true Christians that have struggles in this very area.
-
Now the fact is, if you’re over your head in bondage to it,
-
there may be a very likelihood
-
that a person in that situation, may still be under the power of sin, and may not be converted.
-
And that’s a very realistic possibility
-
that each one of us needs to evaluate
-
anytime any kind of sin gets a hold on us where we suffer defeat.
-
Now you see right there I’m making an assumption that it’s sin.
-
Well let me just show you some things about this
-
that I want you folks to take away with you.
-
What I want to try to do first here is just inform you a little bit.
-
The first thing, if you have your Bibles there, I’d like you all to turn to Matthew 5,
-
and verse 28.
-
You see, folks, one of my pastoral concerns is this:
-
We have a whole movement.
-
Really this has been a movement
-
on the move for 2000 years.
-
Because you can go back all the way to the time of the Scriptures,
-
and you’ve got the apostles themselves
-
saying, “Do not be deceived.”
-
Basically, if you are in bondage to sin,
-
if you are in bondage to unrighteousness,
-
they’re saying “don’t be deceived, you’re not a true believer.”
-
And we have false prophets rising up on every hand today
-
that would basically teach us
-
you can be a true Christian, and you can run and be a slave to all sorts of sin.
-
And that’s just not biblical and it’s just not true.
-
And that’s a pastoral concern, because I don’t want people to be deceived.
-
And you see one of the things is,
-
we’ve got folks, and probably some of you sitting in this room: you profess to be Christians,
-
and yet you are in such bondage to pride,
-
to lust, to your idols, to money, to some appetite, to something in life,
-
that, it’s a big waving red flag
-
that things are not well with your soul.
-
But because of false teaching, because of ignorance on your part,
-
you’ve been led to believe that, ‘once saved, always saved,’
-
and basically you said some prayer,
-
you basically went up to some altar somewhere, you raised your hand at some point.
-
Whatever it is. There’s a whole lot of this thinking today.
-
And yet, people do those things, and they’re quite convinced that they’re on their way to Heaven.
-
And then, the fact is, they are slaves of sin, and true Christians are not slaves to sin.
-
They’re slaves of righteousness the Bible tells us.
-
They’re slaves of God.
-
And here’s this big red flag waving, and yet you don’t have the eyes to even see it.
-
And what I don’t want, is I don’t want any of you waking up on judgment day to find out
-
“I was dead wrong.
-
The indicator was there the whole time and I missed it.”
-
Well the reason I had you turn to Matthew 5:28 is this:
-
Jesus Christ is teaching,
-
“I say to you, that everyone who looks at a woman...”
-
And obviously this could be a woman looking at a man.
-
“Everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”
-
Now let me tell... I want to make several observations about that text.
-
Fornicators and adulterers do not inherit the Kingdom of Heaven.
-
The Bible teaches that.
-
You find that over in 1 Corinthians chapter 6 verse 9.
-
Fornicators and adulterers do not--you can find it in a number of other areas as well in the Scriptures--
-
but they don’t inherit the Kingdom of Heaven.
-
That is an indication- to be under the power of that,
-
that is and indication that a person is lost.
-
And if they’re a slave to that type of thing...
-
Now look, don’t think I’m making this up here, because, just go on and read the next verse.
-
Jesus Christ is not saying that this is a minor issue,
-
it’s a small matter, and something that you don’t have to give a whole lot of concern about.
-
“If your right eye causes you to sin...”
-
Now notice, notice the context.
-
Jesus isn’t just coming out of the blue with this teaching,
-
He’s dealing with what He just talked about.
-
He just talked about not specifically the sinful act of adultery, but adultery in the mind.
-
And on that note, He says this:
-
“If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away.
-
It is better that you lose one of your members
-
than that your whole body be thrown into hell.”
-
Now I’m going to tell you something here.
-
Jesus Christ is teaching us that there needs to be repentance,
-
there needs to be evidence of true regeneration
-
in the life of somebody if they are going to escape hell.
-
That’s a reality.
-
He’s not saying this is a matter of whether you’re going to have greater or lesser rewards,
-
He’s saying this is a matter of life and death.
-
If you don’t tear out these eyes, and if you don’t lose these members,
-
you’re going to be thrown into hell, that’s what He’s saying.
-
You say, “Wait! Do I get to Heaven by my works, by being pure?”
-
Let me tell you this,
-
a person gets to Heaven by nothing less than faith in Jesus Christ,
-
but where there is genuine faith in Jesus Christ,
-
there is also genuine transformation of the heart.
-
God said, “A new heart also will I give them”
-
He said, “I’m going to write my law on them,
-
I’m going to put my Spirit within them.”
-
That Holy Spirit puts to death sin in those in whom He dwells.
-
If that’s not the case, then you’re not a true Christian.
-
That’s like Romans 8, what is it, verse 9?
-
If you don’t have the Spirit of Christ, you’re none of His.
-
You don’t belong to Him.
-
This is a matter of life and death.
-
Now lets come back to the masturbation thing.
-
Folks,
-
I’ve heard this week and last week about people insisting
-
that they can masturbate with nothing happening in the mind.
-
Now folks, I don’t think those people are being honest with themselves.
-
I have a hard time imagining orgasm of the body without pictures in the mind.
-
And if there are pictures in the mind...
-
and I heard somebody just recently say,
-
well, ya they get them, but they try to fight them off.
-
Well the fact is, they are involved in something that’s bringing them in.
-
They’re involved in something that’s bringing them in that would even force them to have to fight it off.
-
They’re opening the door to invite these things to come in.
-
Now let me just ask you guys something because I know this is especially a problem there.
-
You start taking images of a lady,
-
some young lady in your mind, what are you going to do?
-
Walk out the door here and go evangelizing?
-
How are you going to respect people of the opposite sex when you use them that way?
-
And you’re... that’s what it is,
-
even if it’s just an image of them that you have in your mind.
-
You’re going to use people of the opposite sex that way?
-
I’m... folks, this idea that people can be involved in this kind of activity
-
and they’re not sinning in thought...
-
I’m not going to say, I’m not going to be here and say,
-
“I’ve been in all your minds, and I know every circumstance,
-
and I’m going to say it’s impossible.” I’m not going to say that, I can’t dogmatically say that,
-
but I know, and you know that to be involved in that type of thing
-
without images in your mind...
-
And Jesus Christ says this is a matter of life and death.
-
And people can try to justify, but I’m telling you, this is a matter of life and death.
-
If you’re going to try to justify this, I would tread very, very carefully.
-
Because Christ is talking about lustful intent in the mind,
-
and being thrown into hell.
-
Don’t play with this thing.
-
And just on that note,
-
I’ve heard some guys try to say
-
this is how they try to cope with sexual temptation.
-
Wait a second, 1 Corinthians 6:18 says,
-
“Flee from sexual immorality.”
-
Flee from it.
-
And even the guys that say they try to use masturbation
-
to kind of take the edge off
-
so that they won’t fall into sexual temptation...
-
Look, if the same guys admit
-
that they’re also being attacked by images in their mind that they have to fight off,
-
I would just ask the question,
-
is masturbation running from sexual immorality,
-
or is it running into it?
-
Are you fighting against it, or are you inviting it?
-
That’s just something to ask.
-
Now, turn in your Bibles to Hebrews 13:4.
-
Because I also want you to see this passage.
-
Hebrews 13:4.
-
Again, this is another text I think we really, really need to take seriously.
-
Hebrews 13:4.
-
“Let marriage be held in honor among all,
-
and let the marriage bed be undefiled.
-
For God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.”
-
You know what’s so interesting about this passage?
-
You have one thing that God honors, which is what?
-
What is honorable?
-
The marriage bed.
-
And the writer of Hebrews
-
runs right from what is honorable, to what it dishonorable.
-
And it’s as though there’s no middle ground here.
-
The marriage bed is honorable.
-
And then right after that isn’t it amazing that he jumps right into
-
“God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.”
-
Now I’m not going to be dogmatic here,
-
but it’s as though the writer is implying... what?
-
Everything aside from the marriage bed
-
as far as sexual outlet goes,
-
falls into the category of sexual immorality and adultery.
-
And if you’re going to say you’ve found some secret little middle ground that isn’t covered there,
-
again, I tell you, you’d better tread carefully.
-
Because just like in the other one we had hell threatened,
-
we have God’s judgment threatened.
-
This is not a small matter folks.
-
Don’t think you can toy with this and be wrong,
-
without it costing you much.
-
Lets go futher.
-
I want you folks to turn to 1 Corinthians 6:12.
-
And again, I think it’s so interesting here, here’s Paul’s words to the Corinthians,
-
it’s so interesting, his context.
-
I mean, its almost as though it’s written just for us to give consideration to,
-
just these kind of things.
-
1 Corinthians 6:12.
-
“All things are lawful for me, but not all things are helpful.”
-
Now watch this.
-
“All things are lawful for me, but I will not be enslaved by anything.
-
Food is meant for the stomach, and the stomach for food,
-
and God will destroy both one and the other.
-
The body is not meant for sexual immorality,
-
but for the Lord. And the Lord for the body.
-
And God raised the Lord, and will raise us up by His power.
-
Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ?
-
Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute?
-
Never!
-
Or do you not know, that he who is joined to a prostitute becomes one body with her?
-
For as it is written, “the two will become one flesh.”
-
But he who is joined to the Lord becomes one Spirit with Him.
-
Flee from sexual immorality.”
-
Isn’t it interesting,
-
where Paul’s saying “I won’t be enslaved to anything”
-
it’s right in this context of fleeing sexual immorality.
-
Let me tell you this:
-
When Paul tells us how he lives,
-
you are under commandment of God to imitate him as he imitates Christ.
-
Have you ever heard him say that?
-
Paul calls us to imitate his example repeatedly.
-
Now listen,
-
being brought under the power of anything, is basically what?
-
I mean, we might look at it as idolatry .