have about love, lust, romance, and everything in between. For more, visit me on twitter

有關愛情，情慾，戀愛，以及所有這類的問題。要知道更多，可以瀏覽

@downtownshallon or be sure to check out my website shallononline.com.

我的推特或個人網站。

Girls, I know what you're going through. There's a boy that you like but how are you going

女生們，我知道妳們將遭遇到什麼樣的問題。遇到一個你喜歡的男孩，妳要如何

to get him to notice you amongst a sea of other... maybe hotter, maybe more outgoing

在一群...也許更辣，更外向的茫茫眾女之中，引起他的注意?

girls? I'll tell you. The key is confidence. And confidence seems like one of those things

讓我告訴妳。關鍵就在自信。如果你認為自信似乎有點像是

that either you have or you don't. But you're wrong, because it can be easily, easily faked.

與生俱來的能力一樣，那你就錯了，因為那是很容易，很容易就可以裝出來的。

Here's the key. Pick a celebrity that you like and sort of emulate her. Mine is Kim

以下就是重點。選一位你欣賞的名人做你模仿的對象。我選的是

Kardashian. I know, I know. She's not exactly a nobel prize winner but she's a very confident

金卡達夏。我知道，我知道，她不是屬於那種像諾貝爾獎得主的名人但是她是個非常有自信的

girl. So I sort of like channel the Kim when I see a boy that I like or when I want to

女孩。所以當我看到我喜歡的男生或是我想給

impress somebody. And it sort of gives me that wall be more confident without feeling

某人有深刻的印象時我就會模仿金金卡達夏。這樣好像可以為自己築起一道信心之牆，免於擔心

like I'm totally exposing my natural personality. Also, make sure your body language is reflecting

真實的自我會暴露在別人面前。除此之外，要確定你的肢體語言確實反映出

the results you want. If you're hump-shouldered and slouching and not making eye contact of

你想要得到的結果。如果你是彎腰駝背無精打采眼神亂飄

course nobody's going to notice you because that's the message that you're sending. Make

別人當然不會注意妳，因為妳傳出的訊息就是不想引起注意。

sure those shoulders are back. Stick your boobs out. You didn't spend $50 of Victoria's

要抬頭挺胸。把胸部挺起來。妳花50元買「維多利亞的秘密」的內衣，

Secret for nothing, did you? No? Show them off! Come on. Make sure that your posture's good.

錢不是白花的吧，是嗎? 不是? 把胸部秀出來給他們看！別猶豫了。要確定妳有好的姿勢。

A key to good posture? You always want to make sure your thumbs, when you're standing

有好姿勢的關鍵? 當你是站姿的時候要確保妳的大拇指

up straight, are pointing forward. If your thumbs are touching your thighs that means

是朝前的。如果妳的大拇指朝內碰到兩側的大腿，那就表示

your shoulders are down. And you're probably looking little sloppy. Not attractive. Also,

妳的肩膀是縮著的。那妳看起來就可能有點懶散。沒有吸引力。此外

smile. Nobody wants to talk to the girl who looks like she's going to bite your head off.

要微笑。沒有人想和一個看起來想把他們頭咬掉的女孩講話。

Just be confident, or, at the very least, fake it. I'm sure that Kim Kardashian does.

只要有自信，或，至少，裝出一點自信。我相信金卡達夏就是這樣的。