字幕列表 影片播放 列印英文字幕 we're gonna talk about aging and society I think it's a major driving force...the drive to stay young and the devaluing of age and and the beauty that wrinkles bring and the wisdom and all of that. We really don't take care of the elderly in country and it's really sad. Our culture is very now. We don't value their their history. I think people are very discriminatory about older people. you know, they don't want to get old so they try to shuffle them aside and, you know, it's a culture of... good-looking people, Abercrombie and Fitch, you know I think everyone is afraid of aging, actually, especially women. I see a lot of old people by themselves. They're alone, they're always alone and I don't wanna be alone. Since I turned 30, I instantly started thinking about aging. And I just got super terrified all of a sudden. Right now, like, I run a magazine, I feel like I'm helping women. I'm like, what happens when that's like taken away from me...or am I gonna just be discarded? I was thinking I don't have a fear of aging, but it is the fear of becoming invisible. And I think it's very, they're like becoming kinda one and the same in our society. That terrifies me. I'm definitely, definitely worried about you feel like doors aren't as open to you whenever you get older I almost feel like if I don't achieve certain things by the time I'm 30 that doors are closed to me. Am I gonna have a career? And am I gonna have a husband? And like, at this point, am I gonna make it work? you know and like well, I don't have someone yet and like, well what if I'm 30 and, you know, or what if I'm 33 and I don't have someone or when am I gonna have a kid? Or, like, Is it normal for me to wanna have a kid in three years? Or should I be worried that I have to have a career first and then do this and like those questions are kind of, I think all surround that idea of getting older in a physical way, right? Like, this idea of your maternal or your biological clock. It wasn't until this last year that my mother started prodding me about babies and she also told me that, um, for the last couple of years she's been buying baby clothes for my future children. which is really weird! We get out of our age of fertility and then what makes us beautiful? As a woman, you feel like you're, you know, you're not gonna be as pretty, you're gonna miss being, like, an object of sexual desire which is kinda terrible to say, but, you know, it feels nice to feel pretty. The most unattractive times in women, when you're looking at aging versus beauty, is those women who are just trying to look young. like, they're not trying to look beautiful they're just trying to lead you on demand and its only at their whole being like many returns on any dismantling young and we youth is beautiful but like in attacking case like variety of different people in my family like had gotten equipment that it had nothing to do you like they find map breast implants and some of them are really happy units and the attack team you like you know now that I'm fifty like I actually feel like this is like a alien part of me I get actually paid and I wish that I could reinvent I wish I could tell 'em a 22-year-old sound like you need you back totally honest I have dark unfettered plastic surgery I do this from a man who the American if the whole it'd be nice to live that's right my I hate the idea touching going under the knife the only reason anyone would think about doing bad the pressures of St laugh lines is really beautiful and I stopped for speeding like whether the pre things that you can have the only came cuz he is seen smiling and wrinkles on your nose it's a douche in smile it's actually studied neurological my little happy smiles and I'm winds right here and people perceive that has to be joyful person so late we avoid all those last lines they really want to get older and he does a new lightweight that is what the fuck I think I like be in pool I am and being who I am right now has some wrinkles attached and that okay the man when is in pieces and advice that we have law freedom nine-year period up to are maybe watching their parents program parents go through that the one thing we all gon the one thing we all have in common I here limited in their that I'm waiting my name and her personal life so I hope that every day and the I think just label and and continued ecologists hiking glowing better think that is a rental green Justin a warning going to love the fear death is that fear becoming invisible not existing losing the ego and I think that what I would like to believe that is and when I can feel my bones it it is is not so much a losing the needle many gaming then everything else man I think that if region I can hold that idea than the older I get the closer I get to that everything you know and that is that you had as you age is the most amazing I am less and less for you managing me because I as I HIV come more and more serene and I'm number the moment something like you that I could come to you when I was younger after a while I decided I like myself the way I yeah ended I find pressures frightened yard line the long do you get the mood for me anyway the less afraid I am because what's the worst that can happen like undying big deal I'm gonna die you never know in the meantime make them all the adventure sec have they got what I can do you think the people I can mean oh the places I can go I'm not afraid the Moulin the new theme are old lowell my mother told me to use up today open the windows take a walk be the best I can be whatever it takes me goal come home and spread the story Mary Sue if sixty I've never met her but I know she's stunning told me the most of her life behind her is supposed to have all the answers by now but is just figuring out the question says she doesn't want to waste a moment her body hurts some days and boobs moves really do head south she teaches yoga and married the right man she remembers where her keys are says sixty is great ma fone wonderful big tell me to claim my space not to accept anyone who cannot love me fully says to never fear Tesla what Tesla is 8 says she really thinks about the future doesn't think about getting married high school even she's just happy to play the nineteen more thought everything would be a party she is tired and overworked already between college a boyfriend and her job she is tired the mall ready Nancy nancy is perfectly Porto Rican you the sound to triangulate her position at 46 said aging is fun up you're smart and you're never gonna be just as your body is breaking down says she would have been more in thinking about skincare and not smoking says she would have been more adventurous married the love of her life last week married a woman in an age where marrying the person you love is still up for debate she is nothing if not adventurous type thing when I was 10 couldn't wait to be in and I'll I'm told I am one now but I mostly play hide and seek with my responsibilities find myself under the covers waiting for tomorrow to come but I have have kissed most I'm lives I wanted to have loved most other people I needed to attempts fearlessness often and remember to count my blessings my grandmother would have been a hundred by now her mother grew up at the tail end of slavery my grandmother spent time as a maid I've made a living speaking my mind I am reminded a poet my friend might adelphi a she wrote a nothing new under the Sun ain't nothing new about death and dying about lowering a body into the ground ain't nothing new about regrets I felt bad see when you're old enough to feel the gravity of your existence choices must be balanced new shoes for rent a beach day or overtime ice cream or healthy digestion aging is not for the faint of heart it's about grabbing this moment because it's the only one you've got about picking yourself back up and hoping that the ball again it's about basic and trust and loan forgiveness and growth about keeping your word in attempting to be a good person this light is about making damn sure when your final breath comes you've said and done everything you needed to so that when you meet your maker all that is left to be said faint so thank you something
A2 初級 美國腔 衰老與死亡 (That's What She Said | Aging and Death) 120 11 Eating 發佈於 2021 年 01 月 14 日 更多分享 分享 收藏 回報 影片單字