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  • we're gonna talk about aging and society

  • I think it's a major driving force...the drive to stay young

  • and the devaluing of age and and the beauty that wrinkles bring

  • and the wisdom and all of that.

  • We really don't take care of the

  • elderly in country and it's really sad.

  • Our culture is very now.

  • We don't value their their history.

  • I think people are very discriminatory about older people.

  • you know, they don't want to get old so they try to

  • shuffle them aside and, you know, it's a culture of...

  • good-looking people, Abercrombie and Fitch, you know

  • I think everyone is afraid of aging, actually, especially women.

  • I see a lot of old people by themselves. They're alone, they're always alone

  • and I don't wanna be alone.

  • Since I turned 30,

  • I instantly started thinking about aging.

  • And I just got super terrified all of a sudden.

  • Right now, like, I run a magazine, I feel like I'm helping women.

  • I'm like, what happens when that's like

  • taken away from me...or am I gonna just be discarded?

  • I was thinking I don't have a fear of aging,

  • but it is the fear of becoming invisible.

  • And I think it's very, they're like becoming kinda one and the same in our society.

  • That terrifies me.

  • I'm definitely, definitely worried about you feel like

  • doors aren't as open to you whenever you get older

  • I almost feel like if I don't achieve certain things by the time I'm 30 that

  • doors are closed to me.

  • Am I gonna have a career? And am I gonna have a husband?

  • And like, at this point, am I gonna make it work? you know and like

  • well, I don't have someone yet

  • and like, well what if I'm 30 and, you know, or what if I'm 33 and I don't have someone

  • or

  • when am I gonna have a kid? Or, like,

  • Is it normal for me to wanna have a kid in three years?

  • Or should I be worried that I have to have a career first and then do this

  • and like

  • those questions are kind of, I think all surround that idea of getting older

  • in a physical way, right?

  • Like, this idea of your maternal or your biological clock.

  • It wasn't until this last year that my mother started

  • prodding me about babies and she also told me that, um,

  • for the last couple of years she's been buying baby clothes for my future children.

  • which is really weird!

  • We get out of our age of fertility and

  • then what makes us beautiful?

  • As a woman, you feel like you're, you know,

  • you're not gonna be as pretty,

  • you're gonna miss being, like, an object of sexual desire

  • which is kinda terrible to say, but, you know,

  • it feels nice to feel pretty.

  • The most unattractive times in women,

  • when you're looking at aging versus beauty,

  • is those women who are just trying to look young.

  • like, they're not trying to look beautiful

  • they're just trying to lead you on demand and its only

  • at their whole being like many returns on any dismantling

  • young and we youth is beautiful but like in attacking

  • case like variety of different people in my family like had gotten equipment

  • that it had nothing to do you like they find map

  • breast implants and some of them are really happy units and the attack team

  • you like

  • you know now that I'm fifty like I actually feel like this is

  • like a alien part of me I get actually paid and I wish that I could reinvent

  • I wish I could tell 'em a 22-year-old sound like you need you back

  • totally honest I have dark unfettered plastic surgery

  • I do this from a man who the American if the whole

  • it'd be nice to live that's right my

  • I hate the idea touching going

  • under the knife the only reason anyone would think about doing bad

  • the pressures of St laugh lines is really beautiful

  • and I stopped for speeding like whether the pre things that you can have

  • the only came cuz he is seen smiling

  • and wrinkles on your nose it's a douche in smile it's actually studied

  • neurological

  • my little happy smiles and I'm

  • winds right here and people perceive that has to be joyful

  • person so late we avoid all those last lines they really want to get older and

  • he does a new lightweight

  • that is what the fuck I think I like be in pool I am

  • and being who I am right now has some wrinkles attached

  • and that okay the man

  • when is in pieces and advice that we have law

  • freedom nine-year period up to are maybe watching their parents

  • program parents go through that the one thing we all gon

  • the one thing we all have in common I here limited in their

  • that I'm waiting my name and her personal life so I hope that every day

  • and the

  • I think just label and and continued ecologists hiking

  • glowing better think that is a rental

  • green Justin a warning going to love the fear death

  • is that fear

  • becoming invisible not existing losing the ego

  • and I think that what I would like to believe that is and when I can feel my

  • bones it

  • it is is not so much a losing the needle

  • many gaming then everything else man I think that

  • if region I can hold that idea

  • than the older I get the closer I get to that everything you know

  • and that is that you had as you age is the most amazing

  • I am less and less for you managing me because I as I

  • HIV come more and more serene

  • and I'm number the moment something like

  • you

  • that I could come to you

  • when I was younger after a while I decided I like myself the way I

  • yeah ended I find

  • pressures frightened yard line the long do you get

  • the mood for me anyway the less afraid I am

  • because what's the worst that can happen like undying

  • big deal I'm gonna die you never know in the meantime

  • make them all the adventure sec have they got what I can do you think the

  • people I can mean oh the places I can go

  • I'm not afraid the Moulin the new

  • theme

  • are

  • old lowell my mother told me to use up today

  • open the windows take a walk be the best I can be

  • whatever it takes me goal come home

  • and spread the story Mary Sue if sixty

  • I've never met her but I know she's stunning told me the most of her life

  • behind her

  • is supposed to have all the answers by now but is just figuring out the

  • question

  • says she doesn't want to waste a moment her body hurts

  • some days and boobs moves really do head south

  • she teaches yoga and married the right man

  • she remembers where her keys are says sixty is great

  • ma fone wonderful big

  • tell me to claim my space not to accept anyone who cannot love me fully says

  • to never fear Tesla what Tesla is 8

  • says she really thinks about the future doesn't think about getting married

  • high school even she's just happy to play

  • the nineteen more thought everything would be a party

  • she is tired and overworked already between college

  • a boyfriend and her job she is tired the mall ready

  • Nancy nancy is perfectly Porto Rican

  • you the sound to triangulate her position at 46 said aging is fun

  • up you're smart and you're never gonna be just

  • as your body is breaking down says she would have been more in thinking about

  • skincare and not smoking

  • says she would have been more adventurous married the love of her life

  • last week

  • married a woman in an age where marrying the person you love is still up for

  • debate

  • she is nothing if not adventurous type thing when I was 10

  • couldn't wait to be in and I'll I'm told I am one now but

  • I mostly play hide and seek with my responsibilities find myself

  • under the covers waiting for tomorrow to come but I have have kissed

  • most I'm lives I wanted to have loved

  • most other people I needed to attempts fearlessness

  • often and remember to count my blessings my grandmother would have been a hundred

  • by now

  • her mother grew up at the tail end of slavery

  • my grandmother spent time as a maid I've made a living

  • speaking my mind I am reminded a poet

  • my friend might adelphi a she wrote a nothing new under the Sun

  • ain't nothing new about death and dying about lowering a body

  • into the ground ain't nothing new about regrets

  • I felt bad see when you're old enough to feel the gravity of your existence

  • choices must be balanced new shoes for rent

  • a beach day or overtime ice cream or healthy digestion

  • aging is not for the faint of heart it's about grabbing this moment because it's

  • the only one you've got about

  • picking yourself back up and hoping that the ball again it's about basic

  • and trust and loan forgiveness and growth about

  • keeping your word in attempting to be a good person this light

  • is about making damn sure when your final breath comes

  • you've said and done everything you needed to so that when you meet your

  • maker

  • all that is left to be said faint

  • so thank you something

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衰老與死亡 (That's What She Said | Aging and Death)

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