Name: 羅伯特·歐文與安德森·庫柏談父親逝世，至今仍能「感覺」到他！ (Robert Irwin talks to Anderson Cooper about his father's death and how he can still 'feel' him today)
Uploaded: 2026-03-11T17:10:57.000Z
Duration: 47 min 22 s

Welcome to all there is, wherever you are in the world or in your grief.

歡迎各位，無論你們在哪裡，或者正經歷著什麼樣的悲傷。

I'm glad you're here, glad we're together today.

很高興你們在這裡，很高興我們今天能聚在一起。

You may remember him from Dancing with the Stars last year or remember his dad, Steve Irwin, the Crocodile Hunter.

你們可能還記得他去年參加了 Dancing with the Stars，或者記得他的爸爸，Steve Irwin，也就是 Crocodile Hunter。

Robert was just two when Steve was killed by a stingray while diving.

Steve 在潛水時被魟魚攻擊過世時，Robert 年僅兩歲。

I've been thinking a lot about kids and loss and how the death of a parent early on can completely change the trajectory of one's life.

我一直在想關於孩子們的失去，以及父母早逝如何能徹底改變一個人的人生軌跡。

And I worry at times about not making it to see my two little boys grow up to be men.

我有時候會擔心自己無法親眼看到我的兩個兒子長大成人。

I think I will, but I like to talk to them a lot.

我想我會的，但我喜歡跟他們多聊聊。

About how even though my dad died when I was 10, I feel him in my heart now and how I believe he's with me and with them and happy to see them growing up.

聊聊即使我爸爸在我十歲時過世，但我現在仍感覺到他在我心中，我相信他與我同在，也與他們同在，並且很高興看到他們長大。

I was really moved by an Instagram post I saw this week from James Van Der Beek's daughter, Amelia.

這週我在 Instagram 上看到 James Van Der Beek 的女兒 Amelia 發的一篇貼文，真的讓我很感動。

She's just nine years old and her dad died last month on February 11th.

她才九歲，而她的爸爸上個月 2 月 11 號過世了。

And the number one thing for somebody's passing is to talk to them and let your emotions out.

而面對親人離世，最重要的一件事就是跟他們說話，把情緒抒發出來。

If you miss them, you can cry, you can talk to them.

如果你想念他們，你可以哭，你可以跟他們說說話。

I talk to my dad every day and I start with a sentence and I say, hi, Dad.

我每天都跟我爸爸說話，我會先說一句「嗨，爸爸」。

I miss you and I love you so much and I'll never stop loving you.

我好想你，我非常愛你，而且我永遠都不會停止愛你。

And I just tell him about my day, how I'm feeling, and

然後我會跟他聊聊我今天過得怎麼樣，我感覺如何，

我也會讓我的家人知道我的感受。

And I know he can hear me, but I can't hear him.

而且我知道他聽得到我說話，但我聽不到他。

You have to feel them in your heart because they're in your heart.

你得用心去感受他們，因為他們就在你的心裡。

There's no way when I was that age, I could have said something like that so soon after my dad's death.

我十歲那年，絕對不可能在爸爸過世後這麼快就說出那樣的話。

Years before my childhood nanny, Mae McLendon died after suffering from Alzheimer's.

在我童年時期的保姆 Mae McLendon，在她因阿茲海默症過世前幾年。

She told me about something I said to her just days after my dad's funeral when I was 10.

她告訴我，在我十歲、爸爸葬禮結束幾天後，我對她說過的一件事。

I was hugging her and I said, don't worry, May.

She started to cry when she was telling me this story.

她講到這段故事的時候，就開始哭了。

她告訴我，事情不會好起來的。

My conversation today is with Robert Irwin.

He's a conservationist, a photographer, and

he helps his family manage the Australia Zoo, which is where he lives in Queensland.

而且他協助家人管理 Australia Zoo，他住在那裡，在 Queensland。

He's 22 years old and is probably best known in the US for winning dancing with the Stars last year.

他今年22歲，在美國最出名的可能是在去年贏得了 Dancing with the Stars。

His dad, Steve Irwin, was known around the world as the Crocodile Hunter.

他的爸爸 Steve Irwin，就是大家熟知的 Crocodile Hunter。

He was killed in 2006 by a stingray while diving for a documentary.

他在2006年拍攝紀錄片時，在潛水時被魟魚刺死。

I spoke with Robert a couple of weeks ago.

You were two years old when your dad died.

Do you have any kind of sense, memories of him?

你對他有什麼樣的印象、回憶嗎？

My dad is almost more of a feeling than a memory, if that makes sense.

我爸爸對我來說，與其說是回憶，不如說是一種感覺，這樣說有道理嗎？

Like, the memories that I have of him are so incredibly vague, but they're there.

就是，我對他的記憶非常模糊，但確實存在。

And I think one of the greatest gifts in my life is the fact that my entire existence and my childhood growing up with dad was all captured on camera.

我想我人生中最棒的禮物之一，就是我從小到大跟爸爸在一起的點點滴滴，全都被記錄在鏡頭裡了。

And, I mean, you watch dad for two seconds and you get a pretty good picture of the sort of passionate individual that he was.

而且，你看爸爸幾秒鐘，就能大概瞭解他是一個多麼熱情的人。

And my mum tells the story of when she was in labor, like, getting ready to give birth to me, right?

我媽媽說，她生我那天，正準備要生了，對吧？

And my dad was filming a documentary at the time, gets the call, Absolutely races over there with the entire camera crew and.

當時我爸爸正在拍一部紀錄片，接到電話，馬上帶著整個攝影團隊衝過去。

And films in the room, like, while I'm being born.

而且還在我出生的時候，在產房裡拍攝。

對啊，我其實有在網路上看過。

And what a blessing to have video of the moment your dad first lays eyes on you.

還有，你爸爸第一次看到你的那一刻被拍下來，這真是太幸運了！

Isn't it an amazing thing how that can just spark that?

這樣的事情是不是很神奇，能激發出那樣的感覺？

I mean, for me, it'll be certain moments that I will see on.

意思是說，對我來說，就是某些時刻，我會在上面看到。

There's footage of my dad putting a coat on me, right?

有我爸爸幫我穿外套的影片，對吧？

Putting, like, an overcoat that had a picture of a moose on it.

穿著一件上面有麋鹿圖案的外套。

And I don't know what it was, but I'm watching this video.

我不知道為什麼，但我在看這段影片。

I was about 2 years old in the video, and

I just see the picture of the moose and him putting the jacket on, and

我看到麋鹿的圖案，還有他幫我穿外套的畫面，

For some reason, that moment in time just all of a sudden comes flooding back and I'm just hit with this.

不知道為什麼，那個時刻突然全部湧上心頭，讓我有這種感覺。

就像，他那時候的感覺是那樣。

And I remember just feeling like that's what he felt like to me.

我記得那時候就覺得，這就是他給我的感覺。

I just saw a piece of footage of him when he was around my age.

我看到一段他大概跟我差不多大的時候的影片。

that was very surreal to me, seeing him speaking at my age and going, wow, I'm sort of stepping through life now.

看到他在我這個年紀講話，然後想著「哇，我現在好像正在走他走過的人生路」，這對我來說非常超現實。

One of the early discoveries I had from somebody on this podcast was that you can still have a relationship with somebody who has died and that relationship can change over time.

我從這個 Podcast 的來賓那裡，早期有一個發現是，即使某人過世了，你還是可以跟他們維持關係，而且這段關係會隨著時間改變。

And that was like, for me growing up, my greatest fear, and

而且這就像，對我來說，在我成長的過程中，我最大的恐懼，

it still is my greatest fear is forgetting what he feels like or what he felt like.

而且這仍然是我最大的恐懼，就是忘記他現在的感覺，或是他過去的感覺。

And that was something that would, for a long time, really, really keep me up at night.

而且這件事，很長一段時間，真的、真的讓我夜不能寐。

But I think one of the greatest sort of saving graces in keeping him alive, I guess, in my life is my mum.

但我想，讓他在我生命中活著，我猜，最棒的慰藉之一就是我的媽媽。

I mean, she is, I think the reason why I have such a clear picture of the person that he was.

我是說，她，我認為，我之所以對他當時是什麼樣的人有如此清晰的畫面，就是因為她。

I have all of that footage, all of these photos that I can pull from which I'm so grateful to have that resource, but

我擁有所有那些影片、所有那些照片，我可以隨時調出來，我非常感激有這些資源，但

also my mum to tell stories and to spark those memories and to keep him alive.

還有我的媽媽，她會講故事，也會激發那些回憶，讓爸爸活著。

Like when we were young, growing up, you know, my, my mum and dad created this, this legacy of conservation.

就像我們小時候，你們知道的，我、我媽媽和我爸爸創造了這個、這個保育的傳承。

I mean, my dad was the most passionate human being on the planet and it's, it's hard not to.

我是說，我爸爸是這個星球上最熱情的人，而且，很難不。

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