Name: 停止追逐愛情，擁抱內心的女神 🌟 (Stop Chasing Love & Embrace Your Inner Goddess 🌟)
Uploaded: 2025-11-05T14:30:45.000Z
Duration: 2 min 41 s

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過去簡單式

而且我是用很辛苦的方式學到的。

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Chances are that just like me, you approached finding love in a masculine way.

很有可能，就像我一樣，妳是以 masculine way 的方式在尋找愛情。

And most of us do because we live in a masculine world.

而且我們大部分人都是這樣，因為我們活在一個 masculine world。

So I felt that I had to have a very proactive approach and be on all the dating apps.

所以我感覺我必須採取一個主動出擊的方式，並且使用所有的交友軟體。

But I never found a good quality boyfriend material guy on the dating apps.

但我從來沒有在交友軟體上找到一個好的 男友潛力股。

Because what I noticed happened is that most girls will go for the top 1% guy, the guy who ticks most boxes.

因為我注意到發生的是，大部分女生都會選擇 百分之一的頂尖男性，那個幾乎所有條件都符合的男生。

You know, he's successful, good looking, etc.

你知道的，他很成功、長得帥等等。

He will really take his time getting to know all the girls who are approaching him, not settle for anybody, leaving the girls heartbroken and wondering why they can never find love.

他會花很多時間認識所有主動接近他的女生，不會隨便選一個，結果讓女生們心碎，納悶為何總是找不到真愛。

So we watch YouTube videos, we read books on how to flirt, how to text the guys, because we think that, oh, our way of flirting must be wrong, you know, it must be some technique that we didn't know.

所以我們去看 YouTube 影片，看書學怎麼曖昧調情、怎麼傳訊息給男生，因為我們覺得，喔，我們的曖昧調情方式一定有問題，可能是我們不知道的某種技巧。

But looking back, this just made me come across as desperate.

但回想起來，這只讓我顯得絕望。

And the guys that were dating could really sense that desperate energy.

而那些跟我約會的男生，真的能感覺到那種絕望的能量。

And they would often keep me in the gray zone for months, not committing to me.

他們常常會讓我在灰色地帶待好幾個月，不給我承諾。

And I was just wondering why, you know, I'm beautiful, I'm smart, why were no guy committing to me?

我當時就想，為什麼，我這麼漂亮、這麼聰明，怎麼沒有男生願意跟我認真交往？

So eventually I just decided, I'm just going to delete all these dating apps and just focus on me, on Julia.

所以最後我決定，我要刪掉所有交友軟體，專注在我自己身上，專注在 Julia 身上。

I became a digital nomad and I started sharing videos and blog posts about spirituality, which is my big passion.

我成為了數位遊牧者，開始分享關於靈性的影片和部落格文章，這是我最大的熱情所在。

I traveled the world and I basically just made my life so juicy, so delicious.

我環遊世界，讓我的生活變得多麼精彩、多麼美味。

And when you are in that goddess energy, that's when guys will chase you instead.

當你擁有女神能量時，男生就會主動來追你。

And that's what happened to me, My twin flame, who I've been together with for five years now, he found me on Instagram.

這就是發生在我身上的事，我的靈魂伴侶，我們已經在一起五年了，他在 Instagram 上找到我。

He saw my awesome life that I was sharing on Instagram.

他看到了我在 Instagram 上分享的精彩生活。

And before I stepped into my purpose, my strategy was just to wait to create an amazing life until I meet my partner, and

在我找到人生目標之前，我的策略就是等到遇到我的伴侶，再創造一個精彩的人生，然後

then I can plug into his amazing life, his social circle, his adventures.

我就可以融入他精彩的生活、他的社交圈、他的冒險。

But what will make you attractive in the first place is when you have an amazing life.

但首先會讓你變得有魅力的，是你擁有精彩的生活。

So don't wait until you found your partner to live your dream life.

所以，別等到找到伴侶才開始過你夢想中的生活。

Do it now, and that will attract your dream partner.

現在就開始，這樣才能吸引你夢想中的伴侶。

Let me know your thoughts in the comments and love you so much.

在留言區告訴我你的想法，愛你們！