Name: "他和我 "還是 "他和我"？瞭解兩者的區別！(英語代詞規則） (“He and I” or “Him and me”? Learn the difference! (English Pronoun Rules))
Uploaded: 2024-12-07T13:03:41.000Z
Duration: 13 min 59 s

Oh, well, my wife and I are going to see a movie.

哦，好吧，我和妻子要去看電影。

Thanks for clicking, and welcome to this lesson on English pronoun order.

感謝您的點擊，歡迎來到本節英語代詞順序課。

So, in this video, I will give you what are considered to be the grammatical rules or grammatical preferences, in some cases, for pronoun order in English.

是以，在本視頻中，我將向大家介紹在某些情況下，英語中代詞順序的文法規則或文法偏好。

I will give you what is technically correct, but I will also tell you what you will hear in public, in movies, and other areas where pronoun order sometimes is not followed or the rules of subjects and objects are not followed.

我會告訴你技術上正確的用法，但我也會告訴你在公共場合、電影中以及其他有時不遵守代詞順序或不遵守主語和賓語規則的地方會聽到的用法。

One of the most common questions I get is, should I start a sentence with him and I, or he and I, or etc.?

我最常遇到的一個問題是，我應該用 "他和我"，還是 "他和我"，還是等等作為句子的開頭？

And the first rule is for subject pronouns, right?

第一條規則是針對主語代詞的，對嗎？

We use subject pronouns in the subject position.

我們在主語位置使用主語代詞。

So, let's look at the subject pronouns first.

那麼，我們先來看看主語代詞。

The subject pronouns are I, you, he, she, we, and they.

主語代詞有我、你、他、她、我們和他們。

So, these are subject pronouns because they do actions, right?

所以，這些都是主語代詞，因為它們做動作，對嗎？

So, you always follow a subject pronoun with some kind of action.

是以，在主語代詞後面總是要跟上某種動作。

If you're ever not sure whether you should use me or I in this position, all you have to do is erase the other person's name and kind of say, wait, is it correct to say I went out for coffee or me went out for coffee?

如果你不確定在這個位置上應該用 "我 "還是 "我"，你只需要擦掉對方的名字，然後說，等等，說 "我出去喝咖啡了 "還是 "我出去喝咖啡了 "正確？

So, I know you might say, ah, but you and him sounds so good in this case.

所以，我知道你可能會說，啊，但在這種情況下，你和他聽起來很不錯。

No, because you would never say him need to talk.

不，因為你永遠不會說他需要談談。

You would say he needs to talk, for example, or him needs to talk.

比如，你會說他需要談談，或者他需要談談。

So, subject position, doing an action, you need to use a subject pronoun.

所以，主語位置，做動作，你需要使用主語代詞。

Now, in casual speech, in everyday speech, people don't always follow this rule.

現在，在隨意講話和日常用語中，人們並不總是遵循這一規則。

I'm sure that sometimes I might not follow this rule.

我相信，有時我可能不會遵守這條規則。

I try to follow this rule all the time, but sometimes I will say, oh, my sister and me went out for breakfast, right?

我試著一直遵守這條規則，但有時我會說，哦，我和姐姐出去吃早餐了，對嗎？

This is technically, grammatically incorrect, but you might hear it in casual situations.

這在技術上、文法上是不正確的，但你可能會在不經意的情況下聽到。

However, if you are writing an essay, if you are writing anything academic, professional, make sure you stick to the actual rules.

但是，如果您要寫一篇論文，如果您要寫任何學術性、專業性的東西，請務必遵守實際規則。

And rule number one, use subject pronouns in the subject position.

第一條規則是在主語位置使用主語代詞。

And this makes rule number two very logical as well.

這樣一來，第二條規則也就順理成章了。

Use object pronouns in the object position.

So, the object pronouns are me, excuse me, me, me, me, me, you, him, her, us, them, right?

那麼，賓語代詞是我、對不起、我、我、我、我、你、他、她、我們、他們，對嗎？

So, when they are being acted upon, so objects can be, they can come after prepositions, they can come after verbs.

是以，當它們被作用時，賓語可以是，可以在介詞之後，也可以在動詞之後。

Usually, they are receiving an action or they are the object of something.

通常情況下，他們正在接受一個動作，或者他們是某件事情的對象。

So, for example, Tim spoke to her and me, right?

比如說，蒂姆跟我和她說過話，對嗎？

哦，他跟她說話了，他跟我說話了。

Now, you might think you can say, Tim spoke to her and I.

現在，你可能認為你可以說，蒂姆跟她和我談過了。

It sounds nice, it sounds like it's formal, and yeah, that should be proper.

聽起來不錯，聽起來很正式，是的，這應該是合適的。

This is actually a hypercorrection, okay?

這實際上是一個超級更正，好嗎？

So, this means that it's corrected and it sounds like it's formal and it sounds like it's more proper, but it's actually grammatically incorrect to say, Tim spoke to her and I.

是以，這就意味著它經過了糾正，聽起來好像很正式，聽起來好像更得體，但實際上，"蒂姆跟她和我說了話 "在文法上是不正確的。

It's like, no, you don't say, Tim spoke to I, you say, Tim spoke to me.

這就像，不，你不說，蒂姆跟我說話，你說，蒂姆跟我說話。

Next example, I saw you and him at the cafe.

下一個例子，我在咖啡館看到你和他。

我看到了，我做了動作，我看到了你。

What's beautiful about you is it's the subject and the object.

你的美麗之處在於它既是主體又是客體。

So, I saw you and him, right, at the cafe.

You would never say, I saw he and you, or I saw you and he, because you can't say, I saw he.

你永遠不會說，我看到了他和你，或者我看到了你和他，因為你不能說，我看到了他。

No, I saw him, I saw him, the object, at the cafe.

不，我看見他了，我看見他了，那個人，在咖啡館。

Okay, again, if you say, Tim spoke to her and I, I don't know if it's an English accent, a British accent, or an Australian accent that I'm doing now.

好吧，再說一遍，如果你說，蒂姆和她說過話，而我，我不知道我現在說的是英語口音、英國口音還是澳洲口音。

所以，她和我，她和我，對嗎？

Okay, I apologize to all of my Australian viewers.

好吧，我向所有澳洲觀眾道歉。

If you are an Australian viewer, if you are someone living in Australia, learning English, say hello in the comments.

如果您是澳洲觀眾，如果您是生活在澳洲學習英語的人，請在評論中向我們問好。

Subject, subject position, object, object position.

主體、主體位置、客體、客體位置。

Sometimes, people mix them up in casual speech.

有時，人們在閒聊時會把它們混為一談。

So, one rule, place the first person at the end.

是以，有一條規則是將第一人稱放在最後。

This is especially true when you are dealing with multiple subjects in the subject position.

當您在主題位置處理多個主題時，尤其如此。

It sounds weird if I say, I and he left work early.

如果我說，我和他提前下班了，這聽起來很奇怪。

In the subject position, it just sounds so good just to say, he and I, she and I, right?

在主語位置上，說 "他和我"、"她和我 "聽起來很不錯，對嗎？

It sounds really nice when it's put in that order, and that's why this is the order.

按照這樣的順序排列，聽起來真的很不錯，所以才會有這樣的順序。

So, next, we have, the bus didn't stop for him and me.

所以，接下來，公車沒有為我和他停車。

Okay, if you read the Associated Press, the rule from the Associated Press, they say that pronoun order, in some cases, doesn't matter.

好吧，如果你讀了美聯社的規定，他們說代詞順序在某些情況下並不重要。

It just depends what you want to emphasize.

So, in the case of the object, I would agree.

I think that if you say, the bus didn't stop for me and him, it's perfectly fine.

我認為，如果你說，公車沒有為我和他停車，這完全沒問題。