Soit's notsomuchhowmanyfriendsyouhaveasit's notasimportanttohave a lotoffriendsasitmightbetohavepeoplethatyoucantrust, thatyoucankindoftakewithyouinlifefor a longerterm.
Now, when I answerthesequestions, I'm thinkingbacktoreallifesituations.
現在,當我回答這些問題時,我會回想現實生活中的情況。
Andinsomecases I haveseenparentsinterferingandtryingtomakethosedecisionsfortheirchildrenwheretheywererighttodosobecausethechildwasinbadcompanyandtheyweretoonaiveortoo, I mean, I guesstheywerejusttoonaivetoseethatthatsituationwasnotrightforthem.
Andthewaythatyoulearnfromthemistohave a negativeexperienceandthenfindyourwayoutofit.
而從中吸取教訓的方法,就是經歷負面經驗,然後找到擺脫負面經驗的方法。
So I wouldsaythat I canseecertainsituations, whetherit's badrelationships, badfriendshipswhenyou'reyounger, notrelationshipswhenyou'reyounger, friendshipswhenyou'reyounger.
Everythingiskindofeditedandmonitoredtopresent a certainkindofimage.
一切都經過編輯和監控,以呈現某種特定的形象。
Soifyoumeetsomebodyonlineandyouknownothingaboutthem, theycanreallypresentanyversionofrealityor a completelycurated, sometimesdishonestformoftheirrealitytoyou.
Also, I thinkifyou'vebeenfriendsfromthetimethatyouwere a childwithsomebody, you'velivedthroughsomanylifeeventstogetherthatthatkindofbondishardtobuildwithsomeonethatyoumeetinyourmid-30s becauseyou'vejustlostsomuchtimethatyou'relearningsomething.