We are both turning 40.

我們都快 40 歲了。

I'm excited.

我很興奮。

Congratulations.

祝賀你

Well, I think it's, I know a lot of women in the industry get weird about age.

嗯，我覺得是這樣的，我知道業內很多女性對年齡感到很奇怪。

I love it.

我喜歡

I feel like life gets, I don't know, exponentially better, like every year.

我覺得生活變得，我不知道，成倍地好，就像每年一樣。

I get more comfortable every year and I get more grateful.

我一年比一年舒服，也一年比一年感激。

And that, I feel like staying grateful is getting easier.

而且，我覺得保持感激之情變得越來越容易了。

And I think, I don't know, I think that sometimes a little bit of it is, I've always had, I mean, you're probably the same way being in the music industry.

我覺得，我不知道，我覺得有時候有一點是，我一直都有，我是說，你在音樂行業可能也是這樣。

You've had the opportunity to learn from so many people that came before.

你有機會向許多前輩學習。

So I've always had friends from older generations.

所以，我一直都有老一輩的朋友。

And so for me, aging never seemed like a big deal because I've always had friends those ages.

是以，對我來說，衰老似乎從來都不是什麼大不了的事，因為我一直都有那些年齡段的朋友。

Yeah.

是啊

And, but I have lost, a few friends have shifted.

而且，我還失去了幾個朋友。

And I realized that I'm over the halfway point if I go at the same point as them.

我意識到，如果我和他們在同一時間出發，我就已經過半了。

Yeah.

是啊

So the way I'm holding it is like, oh yeah, you're turning 40.

所以我拿著它的樣子就像，哦，是的，你就要40歲了。

You might be closer to the end than the beginning.

你可能更接近終點，而不是起點。

Just get to the good stuff.

快說重點

Yeah.

是啊

Get to the good stuff.

進入正題。

I love that.

我喜歡這樣。

You don't know.

你不知道

And like, come on.

就像，來吧。

I mean, the world is the world right now.

我的意思是，現在世界就是世界。

Yeah.

是啊

So if you have the opportunity to choose joy, then I think we are obliged to take it, frankly.

是以，如果你有機會選擇快樂，那麼坦率地說，我認為我們有義務抓住這個機會。

Absolutely.

當然可以。

I love also that you said shifted.

我也喜歡你說的轉變。

Because I always think it's weird that people are always like, you know, friends, we do come, there are seasons for some relationships in our lives.

因為我總覺得很奇怪，人們總是喜歡說，你知道，朋友，我們確實來了，在我們的生活中，有些關係是有季節的。

And I think that that's important that that's okay.

我認為這一點很重要，因為這沒關係。

So I like that you said shifted though.

所以，我喜歡你說的轉變。

That was really good how you said it.

你說得真好。

Yeah, I don't like to say that they're lost.

是的，我不喜歡說他們迷路了。

And by the way, I don't usually talk about this stuff personally.

順便說一句，我個人通常不談論這些事情。

I think I'm turning red.

我覺得我臉都紅了。

You're really good at what you do.

你真的很在行。

But no, I like shifted because I don't- It's nice.

但不，我喜歡移位，因為我不-- 這很好。

I think it's softer and to me, it feels more honest.

我覺得它更柔和，給我的感覺也更真實。

Yeah, absolutely.

是的，當然。

And it's cool.

而且很酷。

Because this might not, that might not be the end of the story.

因為這可能不是，這可能不是故事的結局。

We don't actually know.

其實我們也不知道。

That's what I mean.

我就是這個意思。

There's seasons.

有四季。

That's what I, yeah, people do come and go.

這就是我，是的，人們來來去去。

And I think that that's something I learned.

我認為這是我學到的東西。

Actually, it's funny.

事實上，這很有趣。

Cause you did say, cause I'm from the music industry, just in the industry in general, I think everybody, there are literally so many different types of ages.

因為你說過，我來自音樂行業，在這個行業裡，我覺得每個人都有不同的年齡。

Like there's so many generations in what we do.

就像我們所做的事情會影響很多代人一樣。

Like, especially on tour.

比如，特別是在巡演時。

So it's awesome.

所以，這太棒了。

I think you learn from all of those different people.

我認為你能從所有這些不同的人身上學到東西。

And I think that people come and go and it's nice.

我認為，人們來來往往，這很好。

And you can still be friends with those people, but it's just like a different season.

你仍然可以和那些人做朋友，只是季節不同而已。

Anyway.

無論如何

I didn't even mean to go there.

我根本沒想去那兒。

So you did that to me.

原來是你乾的