No thanks, Mom.

不，謝謝，媽媽。

You okay, bud? You sound a little weird.

你還好嗎 夥計你聽起來有點怪

Yes, I'm fine.

是的，我很好。

Grape soda?

葡萄汽水？

Mom!

媽媽

Hello?

喂？

Thanks for texting the sexual assault hotline.

謝謝你給性侵犯熱線發短信。

My name's Jordan. Is there a name I can use for you?

我叫喬丹你有什麼名字嗎？

It doesn't have to be your real name.

不一定非要用真名。

How about Matt?

馬特怎麼樣？

Cool. Glad you texted, Matt. What's up?

真酷很高興你發短信來 馬特什麼事？

I don't know. Probably nothing.

我不知道。也許什麼都沒有。

Something on your mind?

你在想什麼？

Well, my swim coach keeps having me stay after practice.

我的游泳教練一直讓我在訓練結束後留下來。

He said it'll help me make first squad.

他說這有助於我進入第一小隊。

Yesterday, he showed me some different stretches.

昨天，他向我展示了一些不同的拉伸動作。

And then he touched me. Down there.

然後他摸了我下面

I'm so glad you reached out, Matt.

我很高興你能伸出援手，馬特。

That really took a lot of courage.

這真的需要很大的勇氣。

And I think I can help.

我想我能幫上忙。

Okay.

好的

What your coach did is called sexual abuse.

你的教練的所作所為被稱為性虐待。

And it is not your fault.

這不是你的錯。

Sexual abuse is when someone does something sexual to another person without that person's consent.

性虐待是指某人在未經他人同意的情況下對其實施性侵犯。

It's not only wrong, it's against the law.

這不僅是錯誤的，也是違法的。

Okay, but I'm a guy.

好吧，但我是個男的。

This isn't supposed to happen to me.

這不應該發生在我身上。

Actually, sexual abuse can happen to anyone of any gender.

事實上，性虐待可以發生在任何性別的任何人身上。

In fact, one in six guys are sexually abused before they turn 18.

事實上，每六個男生中就有一個在 18 歲之前遭受過性虐待。

So, you're not alone.

所以，你並不孤單。

Wow, I didn't know it was so common.

哇，我都不知道這種情況這麼常見。

But it's still really hard to talk about.

但這仍然難以啟齒。

I feel so stupid.

我覺得自己好蠢。

I know it's tough, but please don't feel stupid.

我知道這很難，但請不要覺得自己很蠢。

You did nothing wrong.

你沒做錯什麼。

And you know what?

你知道嗎？

A lot of people feel too scared or ashamed to talk about it at all.

很多人覺得害怕或羞於啟齒。

And keeping a secret like that can cause a lot of pain.

保守這樣的祕密會帶來很多痛苦。

You showed real strength when you reached out.

當你伸出援手時，你展現了真正的力量。

The other thing bothering me is I'm straight.

另一個困擾我的問題是，我是個直男。

Or at least I was.

至少我是這樣。

Does what he did mean I'm gay now?

他的所作所為是否意味著我現在是同志了？

Sexual abuse has nothing to do with sexual orientation.

性虐待與性取向無關。

If you're straight, you're still straight, even though this was done by another guy, even if your body responded in any way.

如果你是直男，你還是直男，即使這是另一個男人做的，即使你的身體有任何反應。

Okay, but what do I do now?

好吧，但我現在該怎麼辦？

Contacting us was a great first step.

聯繫我們是很好的第一步。

There are other organizations that can help too, and they'll keep your conversations confidential.

也有其他組織可以提供幫助，他們會對您的談話內容保密。

But first, you might want to talk with an adult you trust so they can get you some additional support.

但首先，你可能需要和你信任的成年人談談，讓他們為你提供一些額外的支持。

Do you have someone like that?

你有這樣的人嗎？

Yeah, I think I can talk to my mom.

是的，我想我可以和我媽媽談談。

That's great.

好極了

Just remember that what happened to you was not your fault, that you did nothing wrong, that this is more common than people think, and you are not alone.

請記住，發生在你身上的事情不是你的錯，你沒有做錯任何事，這種情況比人們想象的要普遍得多，你並不孤單。

Thanks. I'm going to get going.

謝謝我要走了。

Hey, Mom?

嘿，媽媽？

You texted?

你發短信了？

Uh, can I talk to you about something?

我能和你談點事嗎？

If you or someone you know needs help, please talk to a trusted adult or service organization.

如果您或您認識的人需要幫助，請與您信任的成年人或服務機構聯繫。

You can also visit 1in6.org to chat with a trained advocate 24-7 or join a weekly chat-based support group.

您還可以訪問 1in6.org，與訓練有素的支持者全天候哈拉，或加入每週一次的哈拉支持小組。