You see them all the time.

你經常看到他們，

Why do you keep noticing them when they pass you?

為什麼當他們經過你時，你一直注意到他們？

What's that feeling?

那是什麼感覺？

No, it can't be.

不，這不可能。

Do you like them?

你喜歡他們嗎？

Maybe you aren't sure, maybe the feeling will pass.

也許你不確定，也許這種感覺會過去。

Maybe they're a good friend and you don't think you could see them that way.

也許他們是好朋友，你不認為你可以這樣看待他們。

No matter what your situation is, we are here to help you see if you actually like them, even if you don't think so.

無論你的情況如何，我們要來幫助你看清自己是否真的喜歡他們，即使你不這麼認為。

Do you find them physically attractive?

你覺得他們生理上很有吸引力嗎？

A study published in the Journal of Social Psychology found that the vast majority of people value physical attractiveness in their partner.

發表在《社會心理學雜誌》上的一項研究發現，絕大多數人都看重伴侶外表的吸引力。

There are a lot of biological reasons why we value physical attractiveness, reasons can range from thousands of years of evolution to attractive people just being pleasing to our eyes.

我們重視外貌吸引力有很多生物學原因，原因可以從數千年的進化到純粹是有魅力的人可以讓人賞心悅目。

We associate a lot of good things with attractive people whether they are warranted or not.

我們將許多美好的事物與有吸引力的人聯繫在一起，無論是否是真實情況。

Things like mental health, success and intelligence are all associated with attractive people before we've even heard them say a word.

諸如心理健康、成功和智慧之類的東西都與有魅力的人有關，在我們甚至還沒有聽到他們說一句話之前就先想到了。

So maybe I just like being around them.

所以也許我只是喜歡和他們在一起。

I don't like them.

我不喜歡他們。

They're just objectively attractive.

他們只是客觀上有吸引力。

Well, yes, that definitely can be true. But do they get you excited?

嗯，是的，這絕對是有可能的。但他們會讓你興奮嗎？

We're not talking about the way you might get excited with your best friends; we're talking about your heart skipping a beat when you see their name pop up on your phone.

我們不是在談論你跟好朋友在一起時的那種興奮，而是當你看到他們的名字出現在你的手機上時心跳漏一拍的情況。

We're talking about thinking about them all day, wanting to tell them about every little minor thing that happens.

我們討論的是你整天都在想著他們，想告訴他們發生的每一件小事。

Maybe you even caught yourself bringing them up in a conversation that had nothing to do with them.

也許你甚至發現自己在與他們無關的談話中提起了他們。

Is this starting to sound familiar?

這聽起來是不是很熟悉？

You might not think you like them because they may not be the sort of person you thought you would like.

你可能不認為你喜歡他們，因為他們可能不是你認為你會喜歡的那種人。

The funny thing about us humans is that we're unpredictable, literally.

我們人類的有趣之處在於，我們是不可預知的，真的。

A 2017 study that was published in the journal Psychological Science tried to use machine learning to predict romantic desire.

2017 年發表在《心理科學》雜誌上的一項研究試圖使用機器學習來預測對愛情的慾望。

They found that even when using an individual's preference, they could not predict who that individual would find romantically desirable.

他們發現，即使使用個人的偏好，他們也無法預測受試者會覺得誰會是戀愛的對象。

And that's why it is so important to examine how they make you feel.

這就是為什麼檢視他們給你帶來什麼樣的感覺是如此重要的原因。

We talked about the importance of your potential partner being attentive and remembering the little things, which is why So Syncd could be the right app for you.

我們談到了你的潛在伴侶保持專注和記住小事的重要性，這就是為什麼 So Syncd 可能是適合你的交友軟體。

They pair couples who have the right amount of similarities to get each other and just the right amount of differences to create that spark and go for deeper, meaningful dating.

這個交友軟體將相似的兩人進行配對，以建立彼此之間合適的差異以產生火花並進行更深入，有意義的約會。

Upon taking the personality test, you discover your personality, such as INFJ, so thoughtful, or an ENFP, so curious.

通過性格測試，你會發現你的性格，比如 INFJ，非常體貼，或者 ENFP，充滿好奇心。

Once you've mutually liked each other, you can start messaging.

一旦你們互相喜歡對方，就可以開始聊天了。

We wanted to say a massive congratulations to Hannah and Brendan who got married in December after meeting on So Syncd, the dating app that matches compatible personality types.

我們想向 Hannah 和 Brendan 表示熱烈的祝賀，他們在 So Syncd 上相遇後於 12 月結婚，So Syncd 是一款匹配性格類型的交友軟體。

Hannah is a Pysch2Goer who discovered So Syncd through one of our videos.

Hannah 是 Pysch2Go 的觀眾，她透過我們的影片發現了 So Syncd。

She downloaded the app, found Brendan and deleted the app within a matter of hours.

她下載了該交友軟體，找到了 Brendan，並在幾個小時內就刪除了該程式。

Hannah is an ENFP and Brendan is an INTJ.

Hannah 是 ENFP 人格，Brendan 是 INTJ 人格。

They would be a perfect personality match on So Syncd.

他們的個性在 So Syncd 上完美匹配。

Download the app for free today to meet that special someone on your wavelength.

立即免費下載該應用程式，結識你心目中那個特別的人。

Make sure to check out the app in the description box below for more details. We encourage you to try it and give yourself a chance to find deeper love.

請務必查看下方說明欄中的應用程式了解更多詳細信息。 我們鼓勵你嘗試一下，讓自己有機會找到更深層的愛。

Are you nervous around them?

你在他們身邊會緊張嗎？

Have you recently found yourself getting weirdly nervous around them, especially if you never used to?

你最近有沒有發現自己在他們身邊變得異常緊張，尤其是如果你以前從來沒有這樣過？

When you're talking to them, you find yourself messing up words and getting embarrassed.

當你跟他們講話時，你會發現自己胡言亂語並感到尷尬。

Maybe you even feel your cheeks getting hot.

也許你甚至覺得臉頰發燙。

This may just mean you like them or you at least find them highly attractive.

這可能表示你喜歡他們，或者你至少發現他們非常有吸引力。

A study published at Adaptive Human Behavior and Physiology explains that we experience many physiological and behavioral reactions when around someone we find attractive.

發表在 Adaptive Human Behavior and Physiology 上的一項研究解釋說，當我們在有吸引力的人身邊時，我們會經歷許多生理和行為反應。

In the 2020 study they specifically cite examples such as increased attentiveness, smiling, staring, heart rate, giggling, blushing and difficulty concentrating.

在 2020 年的研究中，他們特別列舉了一些例子，像是注意力增加、微笑、凝視、心率、咯咯笑、臉紅和注意力不集中等。

Does that sound familiar?

這聽起來很熟悉嗎？

Are they the only person you think of like that?

他們是你唯一這樣想的人嗎？

An excellent study published in Archives of Sexual Behavior explains that when we're really attracted to someone,

發表在《性行為檔案》上的一項出色研究解釋說，當我們真的被某人吸引時，

thinking about them, seeing them and interacting with them gives you an increase in your dopamine and norepinephrine which plays a role in activating your fight or flight response.

想到他們、看到他們並與他們互動會讓你的多巴胺和去甲腎上腺素增加，這些物質在刺激你的戰鬥或逃跑反應中發揮作用。

Which may also contribute to that nervous feeling.

這也可能導致那種緊張的感覺。

The study goes on to suggest that we have an inability to feel true romantic passion for more than one person at a time.

該研究繼續表明，我們無法同時對一個以上的人感受到戀愛的感覺。

Because of this, they get our focused attention and we think of them as unique or special.

正因為如此，他們得到了我們的關注，我們認為他們是獨一無二的或特別的。

You probably also only focus on the positive aspects and may be inclined to overlook some of their negative traits.

你可能也只會關注他們正面的地方，而可能傾向於忽視他們的一些負面的特徵。

This also explains why people ignore red flags, no matter how much our friends or family protest.

這也解釋了為什麼人們會無視危險信號，無論我們的朋友或家人多麼反對。

Did you think of them while watching this?

你在看這部影片的時候是否想到了他們呢？

We didn't use any names, genders or specific attributes in this video, but you still might have find yourself thinking about a specific person.

我們在這個影片中沒有使用任何姓名、性別或特定屬性，但你可能仍然會發現自己在想某個特定的人。

If that's the case, maybe you really do like them.

如果是這樣的話，也許你真的喜歡他們。

There's a chance that they like you do.

有可能他們也喜歡你。

So why not explore those feelings?

那麼為什麼不去探索這些感覺呢？

If you found this video eye-opening or interesting, why not leave a like and remember to subscribe to Pysch2Go to see more videos just like this.

如果你覺得這個影片令人大開眼界或有趣，記得按讚並訂閱 Pysch2Go 觀看更多這樣的影片。

If a friend of yours is denying that they have feelings for someone, go ahead and share this with them.

如果你的朋友否認他們對某人有感覺，把這支影片分享給他們。

Good luck out there. You got this.

祝你好運。你可以的。