D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

A.

A.

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

Also known as attention deficit hyperactivity disorder is a neurobiological condition that causes distractibility hyperactivity and impulsivity symptoms because there's still many who aren't aware of what A.

又稱注意力缺陷多動症，是一種神經生物學疾病，會導致注意力分散多動和衝動症狀，因為仍有很多人不知道什麼是A.

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

Is.

是。

They may say things that are hurtful invalidating or even discriminatory.

他們可能會說一些傷害性的、無效的甚至是歧視性的話語。

So to avoid this here are five things you should never say to someone with A.

是以，為了避免這種情況，這裡有五件你永遠不應該對有A的人說的事情。

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

And what you should say.

以及你應該說什麼。

Instead.

而不是。

Number one are you sure it's A.

第一，你確定它是A。

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

If they're already diagnosed with it there's really no point in questioning them about it further.

如果他們已經被診斷出患有這種疾病，就真的沒有必要再進一步詢問他們了。

Even if you say it with good intentions it still comes off as root and dismissive while you may be saying it because a lot of people doubt in A.

即使你是出於好意說的，它仍然被認為是根深蒂固和不屑一顧的，而你說這話可能是因為很多人懷疑A。

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

Diagnosis since some may say oh it's just Children being Children or they've always been clumsy and inattentive.

診斷，因為有些人可能會說，哦，這只是孩子們是孩子，或者他們總是笨拙和不專心。

It's just their personality but this isn't necessarily true.

這只是他們的個性，但這不一定是真的。

Before a child is diagnosed with A.

在兒童被診斷出患有A.

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

They undergo a full physical exam, vision and hearing test as well as a noninvasive scan called the neuropsychiatric E.

他們要接受全面的身體檢查、視力和聽力測試以及稱為神經精神E的非侵入性掃描。

E.

E.

G.

G.

Based Assessment Aid or the Navy to measure theta and brain waves.

基於評估輔助工具或海軍來測量θ和腦波。

And while a diagnosis for adults is trickier it's still possible to get an accurate one After a health care professional looks at their history, conducts family interviews and physical neurological and psychological tests.

雖然成人的診斷比較棘手，但在醫療保健專業人員查看他們的病史、進行家庭訪談和身體神經及心理測試後，仍然有可能得到一個準確的診斷。

So don't go around asking whether they're sure it's a.

所以不要到處問他們是否確定是一個。

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

Or not?

還是沒有？

Number two?

二號？

It's probably because of how you were raised.

這可能是因為你是如何長大的。

Did you know that A.

你知道嗎 A．

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

Can be a genetic condition according to griffin for any childhood A.

根據格里芬的說法，可能是任何兒童A的遺傳條件。

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

There's a 30 to 40% chance that one of their parents has it to remember that A.

有30％至40％的機會，他們的父母之一有它來記住A。

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

Can be challenging for both Children and parents.

對兒童和家長來說，這可能是一個挑戰。

Children who have A.

有A的兒童。

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

May face a higher chance of being bullied and rejected resulting in lower qualities of life.

可能面臨更高的被欺負和拒絕的機會，導致生活品質下降。

And the parents of Children with A.

而患有A型肝炎的兒童的父母。

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

May doubt and question themselves on whether they're raising them the right way.

可能會懷疑和質疑自己是否以正確的方式撫養他們。

So by saying that A.

是以，通過說A.

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

Is caused by parenting styles.

是由父母的教育方式造成的。

Not only are you incorrect, you also end up deeply hurting those who are trying their best to raise their Children.

你不僅不正確，而且最後還深深地傷害了那些正在盡力撫養孩子的人。

Number three you just need to have self control.

第三，你只需要有自我控制。

Telling a person with A.

告訴一個有A的人。

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

To have more self control is like telling someone with alcoholism to stop drinking.

要有更多的自我控制，就像告訴有酒精中毒的人不要喝酒一樣。

It's not useful.

這沒有用。

And it's insensitive.

而且這是不敏感的。

People with A.

有A的人。

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

Tend to be inconsistent because of their symptoms.

由於他們的症狀，往往不一致。

They may be able to perform a task smoothly one day and face immense difficulty doing it again the next.

他們可能在某一天能夠順利地完成一項任務，而第二天再做這項任務時卻面臨巨大的困難。

But this doesn't mean they have less self control.

但這並不意味著他們的自我控制能力較差。

Instead they probably had to put in even more focus and effort to get the job done.

相反，他們可能不得不投入更多的注意力和努力來完成工作。

Number four I relate to you so much.

第四，我與你有很大的關係。

Unless you have the condition yourself.

除非你自己有這種情況。

You probably can't fully understand what it's like why you can try to imagine what they're going through by listening to them and educating yourself on the topic.

你可能無法完全理解那是什麼樣子，為什麼你可以通過傾聽他們的聲音和對自己的教育來嘗試想象他們所經歷的事情。

Saying that you fully relate to them may make it seem like you're downplaying their condition.

說你完全與他們有關，可能會讓人覺得你在淡化他們的狀況。

Often times when you say this you may be actually relating to some of their symptoms such as forgetfulness, distractibility, hyperactivity or and inattention.

很多時候，當你這樣說時，你實際上可能與他們的一些症狀有關，如健忘、分心、多動或和注意力不集中。

But not everyone who shares these characteristics has A.

但並不是每個具有這些特徵的人都有A。

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

People diagnosed with the condition face symptoms that are far more intense and recurring to the point where it greatly affects their own lives and relationships.

被診斷為該病的人面臨的症狀要強烈得多，而且反覆出現，以至於極大地影響了他們自己的生活和關係。

But if you do share the same symptoms and it's starting to affect your way of living.

但是如果你確實有相同的症狀，並且開始影響你的生活方式。

Please visit a healthcare professional to get an accurate diagnosis.

請到專業醫療機構就診，以獲得準確的診斷。

Getting help is highly important.

獲得幫助是非常重要的。

And number five isn't that just all in your head.

第五，這不就是在你的腦子裡嗎。

When you ask questions like these you're questioning the validity of their disorder which can make you appear dismissive and it can also negatively impact their emotions and self esteem.

當你問這樣的問題時，你是在質疑他們的疾病的有效性，這可能使你顯得不屑一顧，也可能對他們的情緒和自尊心產生負面影響。

While A.

雖然A.

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

Is a neurodevelopmental disorder, it doesn't mean that it's all in their head.

是一種神經發育障礙，這並不意味著這都是在他們的腦子裡。

According to Kron Colton.

據克倫-科爾頓說。

A.

A.

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

Causes differences in brain structure function and development.

導致大腦結構功能和發育的差異。

Now that we've covered what you should try to avoid saying.

現在，我們已經介紹了你應該儘量避免說什麼。

Here are some things you can say instead.

以下是你可以說的一些話。

I've never experienced what you're going through but I understand you're in pain.

我沒有經歷過你所經歷的事情，但我理解你的痛苦。

Instead of saying that you can relate to them.

而不是說你能與他們產生共鳴。

You can validate their struggle and offer your support to them this way you're not minimizing their condition but giving them a shoulder to lean on after all they may have lost opportunities or broken relationships because of their disorder and just need some support.

你可以確認他們的掙扎，並向他們提供支持，這樣你不是在貶低他們的狀況，而是給他們一個可以依靠的肩膀，畢竟他們可能因為失調而失去機會或破壞關係，只是需要一些支持。

Of course your feelings matter too.

當然，你的感受也很重要。

So if you want to express something to them try to choose words that won't make them feel bad about their condition up next is I'm here to listen.

是以，如果你想向他們表達什麼，儘量選擇不會讓他們對自己的狀況感到難過的話語，接下來是我在這裡傾聽。

Is there something they want to talk about?

他們有什麼想談的嗎？

If so they'll most likely appreciate the time you provide to them.

如果是這樣，他們很可能會感謝你提供給他們的時間。

Especially if they've just gone through a rough experience and need to let out some steam when you're listening to them.

特別是如果他們剛剛經歷了一段艱難的經歷，需要在你聽他們說話的時候發洩一下情緒。

Remember not to be afraid to ask questions and try not to interrupt them as they're talking.

記住不要害怕問問題，儘量不要在他們說話時打斷他們。

You can also say your struggles are valid although mental health is more talked about now there are still plenty of people who are uneducated about it.

你也可以說你的掙扎是有道理的，雖然現在心理健康被更多人談論，但仍有很多人對它缺乏瞭解。

If you know someone with a condition they've probably experienced and heard a lot of accusations misconceptions and discriminatory or dismissive remarks about it.

如果你認識患有某種疾病的人，他們可能經歷過並聽到過很多關於這種疾病的指責誤解和歧視性或輕視性言論。

This can be pretty tough since it can lower their self esteem and make them question their sense of self for this reason it's good to reassure them from time to time by saying that what they're going through is completely valid or say something like I like you just the way you are A.

這可能是相當艱難的，因為這可能會降低他們的自尊心，使他們質疑自己的自我意識，為此，最好不時地安撫他們，說他們正在經歷的事情是完全有效的，或者說一些像我喜歡你現在的樣子這樣的話。

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

Currently has no cure as a result.

目前沒有治癒的結果。

People with the condition may sometimes experience feelings of hopelessness.

患有此病的人有時可能會出現無望的感覺。

So remember to remind them from time to time that they're loved and appreciated for who they are and who doesn't love hearing you rock?

是以，記得不時提醒他們，他們是被愛的，是被欣賞的，誰不喜歡聽你搖滾呢？

Did you know that Michael Phelps, adam Levine and paris Hilton have A.

你知道嗎，邁克爾-菲爾普斯、亞當-萊文和帕里斯-希爾頓有A。

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

A.

A.

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

Shouldn't hinder you from living life to the fullest.

不應妨礙你盡情地生活。

So be sure to let them know that they're amazing and that their conditions shouldn't stop them from doing great things and going full percy Jackson mode to everyone with A.

所以一定要讓他們知道，他們很了不起，他們的條件不應該阻止他們做偉大的事情，並對每個人的A進行全面的percy Jackson模式。

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

You rock.

你真了不起。

Have you ever said any of these to someone with A.

你是否曾對有A的人說過這些話。

D.

D.

H.

H.

D.

D.

If you have any topic suggestion or want a part two to this, please comment down below.

如果你有任何主題建議或希望有第二部分，請在下面評論。

Also, if you know people who can resonate with this video, please don't hesitate to share it with them.

此外，如果你知道有人能與這段視頻產生共鳴，請毫不猶豫地與他們分享。

As usual.

像往常一樣。

Be sure to like subscribe and share this video with those who might benefit from it.

請務必喜歡訂閱並與那些可能從中受益的人分享這個視頻。

And don't forget to hit the notification bell icon to get notified.

而且別忘了點擊通知鈴圖標，以獲得通知。

Whenever it's like to go post a new video.

每當它喜歡去發佈一個新的視頻。