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  • - [Amanda] Hey, Psych2goers.

    - [阿曼達]嗨,Psych2goers。

  • Can a narcissist fall in love?

    自戀的人可以談戀愛嗎?

  • The short answer is yes.

    簡短的回答是肯定的。

  • However, it's probably not the type of love

    然而,這可能不是那種愛的類型

  • you are thinking of right now.

    你現在所想的。

  • Love is different for everybody.

    愛對每個人來說都是不同的。

  • This applies especially well in the case of narcissists.

    這在自戀者的情況下尤其適用。

  • Since they have psychological deficits

    由於他們有心理上的缺陷

  • that impact emotional assessment,

    影響情緒評估。

  • they tend to show their love in a weird, selfish way.

    他們往往以一種奇怪的、自私的方式來表達他們的愛。

  • So if you are an average person

    是以,如果你是一個普通人

  • who sees love as something along the lines of understanding,

    他把愛看成是一種理解的東西。

  • acceptance, and compromise,

    接受,和妥協。

  • then you are in for a surprising ride,

    那麼你將會有一個令人驚訝的旅程。

  • because this is what truly happens

    因為這就是真正發生的事情

  • when a narcissist falls in love.

    當一個自戀者墜入愛河。

  • Before we begin, this video is for educational purposes only

    在我們開始之前,本視頻僅用於教育目的

  • and is not intended to be a substitute

    並不打算取代

  • for professional advice or diagnosis.

    以獲得專業建議或診斷。

  • With that said, here is what happens

    說到這,下面是發生的情況

  • when a narcissist falls in love with you.

    當一個自戀者愛上你時。

  • (brooding music)

    (憂鬱的音樂)

  • Number one, they won't change.

    第一,他們不會改變。

  • You may think that when a narcissist truly falls in love,

    你可能認為,當一個自戀者真正墜入愛河時。

  • they change for the better.

    他們的變化是為了更好的發展。

  • Unfortunately, in most situations, that is not the case.

    不幸的是,在大多數情況下,情況並非如此。

  • Research shows that they have structural abnormalities

    研究表明,他們有結構性的異常

  • in brain regions associated with emotional empathy.

    在與情感共鳴相關的大腦區域。

  • And because of that, they tend to turn abusive

    正因為如此,他們往往會變成虐待者。

  • or remain self-absorbed.

    或保持自我陶醉。

  • Number two, they're turbulent in their ways of affection.

    第二,他們的感情方式很動盪。

  • Narcissists can be extremely warm one second

    自戀者可以在一秒鐘內變得非常熱情

  • and cold the next.

    而下一次則是寒冷。

  • It's also common for them to love bomb their partners.

    他們愛轟炸自己的伴侶也很常見。

  • Since they're playing a game of wanting to receive praise

    既然他們在玩一個想得到讚美的遊戲

  • and admiration, they know exactly which buttons to push

    和欽佩,他們清楚地知道該按哪些按鈕。

  • to elicit a good reaction.

    以引起良好的反應。

  • However, since the act of receiving pleasure

    然而,由於接受快樂的行為

  • is somewhat like a game to them,

    對他們來說,這有點像一場遊戲。

  • they naturally lose interest once they win it

    贏了之後自然會失去興趣

  • or receive the prize.

    或領取獎品。

  • So, it won't be a surprise when one moment

    是以,當某一時刻,它不會是一個驚喜

  • they're buying gifts

    他們在買禮物

  • and booking honeymoon tickets for their partners

    併為他們的伴侶預訂蜜月機票

  • and breaking up with them the next.

    並在接下來的時間裡與他們分手。

  • Number three, they prefer casual dating or long distance.

    第三,他們更喜歡休閒約會或長途旅行。

  • Commitment is a difficult thing to expect from narcissists.

    對自戀者來說,承諾是一件很難期待的事情。

  • Since their sponges of attention,

    由於他們的注意力的海綿體。

  • a single person's appreciation will tire them out quickly.

    一個人的讚賞會讓他們迅速疲憊。

  • For them, the more people to receive praise from the better.

    對他們來說,接受表揚的人越多越好。

  • This is why they're especially comfortable

    這就是為什麼他們特別舒適

  • with casual dating or being in long distance relationships.

    與休閒約會或處於長距離關係中。

  • In these types of setups,

    在這些類型的設置中。

  • there are low expectations for intimacy,

    對親密關係的期望很低。

  • but enough opportunities to satisfy their desire.

    但有足夠的機會來滿足他們的願望。

  • Do any of these ring a bell so far? Comment blow.

    到目前為止,這些人中有誰想起來了嗎?評論打擊。

  • Speaking of bells, if you enjoy our content,

    說到鐘聲,如果你喜歡我們的內容。

  • don't forget to subscribe and hit the notification bell icon

    不要忘記訂閱並點擊通知鈴聲圖標

  • to get notified whenever we post a new video.

    每當我們發佈新的視頻,就會得到通知。

  • While you're at it, hit the like button too.

    當你這樣做的時候,也按下喜歡按鈕。

  • Your support means so much to us.

    您的支持對我們來說意義重大。

  • Number four, they're passionate at first.

    第四,他們一開始就很有激情。

  • Narcissists are supposed to be vain, selfish people, right?

    自戀者應該是虛榮、自私的人,對嗎?

  • Well, while it's true

    嗯,雖然這是事實

  • that a sense of entitlement characterizes them,

    他們的特點是有一種權利感。

  • narcissists have also been proven

    自戀者也被證明是

  • to possess emotional intelligence.

    要擁有情商。

  • This means that they're highly capable

    這意味著,他們有很強的能力

  • of showing their interest,

    顯示他們的興趣。

  • especially to gain what they want.

    特別是為了獲得他們想要的東西。

  • Adoration.

    崇拜。

  • For this reason, they may act all lovey-dovey

    由於這個原因,他們可能會表現得很有愛意

  • during the early stages of a relationship.

    在一段關係的早期階段。

  • They may be touchy, generous, dreamy,

    他們可能是感性的,慷慨的,有夢想的。

  • and all the good things.

    和所有的好東西。

  • But don't be fooled.

    但不要被騙了。

  • A narcissist love also means

    自戀者的愛也意味著

  • putting themselves first, always.

    始終把自己放在第一位。

  • Number five, they won't know how to resolve conflicts.

    第五,他們將不知道如何解決衝突。

  • Disagreements and arguments are common in relationships.

    分歧和爭吵在人際關係中很常見。

  • If handled well,

    如果處理得好。

  • they may even promote growth and closeness between partners.

    它們甚至可能促進夥伴之間的成長和親近。

  • But since narcissists always want to seem perfect,

    但由於自戀者總是希望自己看起來很完美。

  • they tend to avoid things

    他們傾向於迴避事情

  • that may make them seem like a bad person.

    這可能使他們看起來像個壞人。

  • This means that when there's conflict,

    這意味著,當有衝突的時候。

  • they're highly expected to shift the blame, point fingers,

    他們被寄予厚望,推卸責任,指手畫腳。

  • and use manipulation tactics to keep the upper hand.

    並使用操縱戰術來保持優勢。

  • And number six, they may commit narcissistic abuse.

    第六,他們可能會實施自戀性虐待。

  • Narcissistic abuse is defined as a type of emotional abuse

    自戀型虐待被定義為一種情感虐待的類型

  • where the abuser only cares about themselves

    虐待者只關心自己的地方

  • and may use words and actions

    並可使用語言和行動

  • to manipulate their partner's behavior

    操縱其伴侶的行為

  • and emotional state.

    和情緒狀態。

  • Since narcissists tend to see themselves as superior beings,

    因為自戀者往往把自己看作是高人一等的存在。

  • they often forget about the needs of their partners.

    他們經常忘記他們的伴侶的需求。

  • They do everything for themselves first.

    他們做任何事都先為自己著想。

  • And this behavior can be especially damaging

    而這種行為可能特別具有破壞性

  • to the person they're in a relationship with.

    對與他們有關係的人。

  • Victims of narcissistic abuse

    自戀型虐待的受害者

  • may experience anxiety, depression,

    可能會出現焦慮、抑鬱的情況。

  • post traumatic stress, loss of self worth, and more.

    創傷後壓力,自我價值的喪失,以及更多。

  • So, did anyone come to mind when you heard these signs?

    那麼,當你聽到這些跡象時,是否想到了誰?

  • Narcissists can often make life difficult

    自戀者往往會使生活變得困難

  • for who they love and vice versa.

    為他們所愛的人,反之亦然。

  • There isn't a cure for narcissistic personality disorder,

    自戀型人格障礙是無法治癒的。

  • but therapy can help.

    但治療可以幫助。

  • If this video is relevant to you or someone you know,

    如果這個視頻與你或你認識的人有關。

  • please don't hesitate to reach out for guidance or help.

    請不要猶豫,聯繫我們尋求指導或幫助。

  • (brooding music)

    (憂鬱的音樂)

  • Do you think we missed anything?

    你認為我們錯過了什麼嗎?

  • Leave it in the comments below.

    請在下面的評論中留言。

  • If you found this video helpful,

    如果你覺得這個視頻有幫助。

  • like and share it with friends

    喜歡並與朋友分享

  • that might find insight in this too.

    這可能也會發現其中的洞察力。

  • Remember to subscribe to Psych2go

    記得訂閱Psych2go

  • and hit the notification bell icon for more content.

    並點擊通知鈴聲圖標,以獲取更多內容。

  • All the sources used are added in the description box below.

    所有使用的來源都添加在下面的描述框中。

  • Thanks for watching. Until next time.

    謝謝你的觀看。直到下一次。

  • (brooding music)

    (憂鬱的音樂)

- [Amanda] Hey, Psych2goers.

- [阿曼達]嗨,Psych2goers。

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