Name: 當自戀者墜入愛河時會發生什麼？ (What Happens When a Narcissist Falls in Love?)
Uploaded: 2022-11-01T18:28:24.000Z
Duration: 5 min 12 s

However, it's probably not the type of love

然而，這可能不是那種愛的類型

This applies especially well in the case of narcissists.

這在自戀者的情況下尤其適用。

they tend to show their love in a weird, selfish way.

他們往往以一種奇怪的、自私的方式來表達他們的愛。

who sees love as something along the lines of understanding,

他把愛看成是一種理解的東西。

那麼你將會有一個令人驚訝的旅程。

Before we begin, this video is for educational purposes only

在我們開始之前，本視頻僅用於教育目的

when a narcissist falls in love with you.

You may think that when a narcissist truly falls in love,

你可能認為，當一個自戀者真正墜入愛河時。

他們的變化是為了更好的發展。

Unfortunately, in most situations, that is not the case.

不幸的是，在大多數情況下，情況並非如此。

Research shows that they have structural abnormalities

研究表明，他們有結構性的異常

in brain regions associated with emotional empathy.

在與情感共鳴相關的大腦區域。

And because of that, they tend to turn abusive

正因為如此，他們往往會變成虐待者。

Number two, they're turbulent in their ways of affection.

第二，他們的感情方式很動盪。

Narcissists can be extremely warm one second

自戀者可以在一秒鐘內變得非常熱情

It's also common for them to love bomb their partners.

他們愛轟炸自己的伴侶也很常見。

Since they're playing a game of wanting to receive praise

既然他們在玩一個想得到讚美的遊戲

and admiration, they know exactly which buttons to push

和欽佩，他們清楚地知道該按哪些按鈕。

However, since the act of receiving pleasure

對他們來說，這有點像一場遊戲。

they naturally lose interest once they win it

So, it won't be a surprise when one moment

是以，當某一時刻，它不會是一個驚喜

and booking honeymoon tickets for their partners

並在接下來的時間裡與他們分手。

Number three, they prefer casual dating or long distance.

第三，他們更喜歡休閒約會或長途旅行。

Commitment is a difficult thing to expect from narcissists.

對自戀者來說，承諾是一件很難期待的事情。

a single person's appreciation will tire them out quickly.

一個人的讚賞會讓他們迅速疲憊。

For them, the more people to receive praise from the better.

對他們來說，接受表揚的人越多越好。

This is why they're especially comfortable

with casual dating or being in long distance relationships.

與休閒約會或處於長距離關係中。

but enough opportunities to satisfy their desire.

但有足夠的機會來滿足他們的願望。

Do any of these ring a bell so far? Comment blow.

到目前為止，這些人中有誰想起來了嗎？評論打擊。

Speaking of bells, if you enjoy our content,

說到鐘聲，如果你喜歡我們的內容。

don't forget to subscribe and hit the notification bell icon

不要忘記訂閱並點擊通知鈴聲圖標

to get notified whenever we post a new video.

每當我們發佈新的視頻，就會得到通知。

While you're at it, hit the like button too.

當你這樣做的時候，也按下喜歡按鈕。

您的支持對我們來說意義重大。

Number four, they're passionate at first.

第四，他們一開始就很有激情。

Narcissists are supposed to be vain, selfish people, right?

自戀者應該是虛榮、自私的人，對嗎？

that a sense of entitlement characterizes them,

特別是為了獲得他們想要的東西。

For this reason, they may act all lovey-dovey

由於這個原因，他們可能會表現得很有愛意

during the early stages of a relationship.

他們可能是感性的，慷慨的，有夢想的。

Number five, they won't know how to resolve conflicts.

第五，他們將不知道如何解決衝突。

Disagreements and arguments are common in relationships.

分歧和爭吵在人際關係中很常見。

they may even promote growth and closeness between partners.

它們甚至可能促進夥伴之間的成長和親近。

But since narcissists always want to seem perfect,

但由於自戀者總是希望自己看起來很完美。

that may make them seem like a bad person.

這可能使他們看起來像個壞人。

they're highly expected to shift the blame, point fingers,

他們被寄予厚望，推卸責任，指手畫腳。

and use manipulation tactics to keep the upper hand.

And number six, they may commit narcissistic abuse.

第六，他們可能會實施自戀性虐待。

Narcissistic abuse is defined as a type of emotional abuse

自戀型虐待被定義為一種情感虐待的類型

where the abuser only cares about themselves

Since narcissists tend to see themselves as superior beings,

因為自戀者往往把自己看作是高人一等的存在。

they often forget about the needs of their partners.

他們經常忘記他們的伴侶的需求。

他們做任何事都先為自己著想。

And this behavior can be especially damaging

而這種行為可能特別具有破壞性

to the person they're in a relationship with.

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