I cheated on you.

我欺騙了你。

What?

什麼？

I'm so sorry babe.

我很抱歉，寶貝。

I didn't mean to babe.

我不是故意的，寶貝。

With who?

和誰？

My ex?

我的前任？

Oh my God john No Jeff.

哦，我的上帝約翰沒有傑夫。

No.

沒有。

Justin.

賈斯汀。

No, jesus.

不，上帝啊。

Yes.

是的。

Oh my God babe, when last night where in our bed was this a dream?

哦，我的上帝寶貝，當昨晚在我們的床上，這是一個夢想嗎？

It still counts.

它仍然算數。

You only say that because you get mad when I cheat on you and your dreams.

你這麼說只是因為當我欺騙你和你的夢想時你會生氣。

Yeah.

是的。

Okay.

好的。

Because that makes sense babe.

因為這很有意義，寶貝。

Do you want to get back together with your ex?

你想和你的前男友複合嗎？

No.

沒有。

Do you want to have sex with your ex?

你想和你的前任發生關係嗎？

Oh my God.

哦，我的上帝。

No.

沒有。

Are you unhappy in your current relationship babe?

你在你目前的關係中不快樂嗎，寶貝？

No.

沒有。

Then what's the big deal babe?

那有什麼大不了的，寶貝？

It's your brain just doing some laundry.

這是你的大腦只是在洗一些衣服。

That's all.

這就是全部。

But it felt real and I had feelings and those feelings felt real when I have dreams about my ex is what?

但它感覺是真實的，我有感覺，那些感覺是真實的，當我做夢夢到我的前任是什麼？

No bed stop when I have dreams about my ex is I know it's just my brain processing old stuff.

當我夢到我的前夫時，沒有床停，因為我知道這只是我的大腦在處理舊的東西。

It's just emptying the trash can.

這只是清空垃圾桶而已。

It's my brain dealing with things in the recesses of my mind.

這是我的大腦在處理我頭腦深處的事情。

But what if it's not well what what if it's because subconsciously there's a key component of our relationship missing and you're feeling nostalgic for your ex Because they're the best sex that you've ever had.

但如果不是這樣呢？如果是因為潛意識中我們的關係中缺少一個關鍵的組成部分，你對你的前任感到懷念，因為他們是你所擁有的最好的性愛。

Is that how you feel?

你是這麼想的嗎？

No, I'm just saying what if my brain is processing all of that in the background and then delivering it to me in a dream?

不，我只是說，如果我的大腦在後臺處理所有這些，然後在夢中傳遞給我呢？

You would know if you felt that way?

如果你有這種感覺，你會知道嗎？

But what if I didn't.

但如果我沒有呢。

You would but what if I didn't Then I guess eventually you figure it out and break up with me.

你會的，但如果我沒有呢？ 那麼我想最終你會明白，並與我分手。

You want to break up with me?

你想和我分手？

What?

什麼？

No, you just said that you would consciously realize that there's a key component missing in our relationship.

不，你剛才說你會有意識地意識到我們的關係中缺少一個關鍵部分。

And that would drive you back into the arms and the thighs of your ex.

而這將促使你回到你前夫的懷抱和大腿上。

I did not, babe, You're the one who cheated on me.

我沒有，寶貝，是你欺騙了我。

It was a dream.

那是一個夢。

Exactly, babe.

沒錯，寶貝兒。

What is really going on?

到底發生了什麼事？

What do you mean you wouldn't have a dreaming list?

你說你不會有做夢的清單是什麼意思？

Something was going on.

有些事情正在發生。

Do you think that maybe you're afraid of the intimacy we're developing and this is just a subtle means of self sabotage.

你是否認為，也許你害怕我們正在發展的親密關係，這只是一種自我破壞的微妙手段。

Wow babe, That's incredibly insightful babe.

哇，寶貝，這真是令人難以置信的有見地的寶貝。

I don't know.

我不知道。

I guess maybe my brain is doing some laundry about the past.

我想也許我的大腦正在洗一些關於過去的衣服。

It is retrograde.

它是逆行的。

And our one year anniversary is coming up.

而我們的一週年紀念日也即將到來。

So that could be activating like a lot of my abandonment fears totally.

所以這可能完全激活了像我的很多被遺棄的恐懼。

And has just hit me up on Tiktok yesterday.

而且昨天剛剛在Tiktok上打了我。

What?

什麼？

He sent me a tiktok of this kitty writing every.

他給我發了一張這個小貓咪的照片，上面寫著每一個。

But let me show you, babe.

但讓我告訴你，寶貝。

Oh my God, babe, jesus!

哦，我的上帝，寶貝，耶穌！

What?

什麼？

Yes, it's jesus.

是的，是耶穌。

That's why you're having dreams about him because he hit you up yesterday.

這就是為什麼你會做關於他的夢，因為他昨天打了你。

Ah yeah.

啊，是的。

Oh man.

哦，夥計。

Oh, I'm sorry babe.

哦，我很抱歉，寶貝。

What'd you dream about last night?

你昨晚夢到什麼了？

I had a dream.

我做了一個夢。

My dad went down on me.

我爸爸對我下了手。

Hm.

嗯。

You know, I've had that dream too.

你知道，我也做過這個夢。

But with my mom?

但和我媽媽一起？

Mm hmm hmm hmm hmm.

嗯嗯嗯嗯嗯嗯嗯嗯嗯。

Hm.

嗯。

I'm anaconda.

我是巨蟒。

Dreams are pretty freaking weird.

夢是相當怪異的。

And thank you to the patrons for supporting today's video.

並感謝贊助者對今天視頻的支持。

And as always, thank you to my father Daddy squarespace for sponsoring today's episode.

和往常一樣，感謝我的爸爸squarespace贊助了今天的節目。

So if you don't know that my dad is the easiest way to host and create a website by now, I really don't know what to tell you because building a beautiful online presence and running your business is so easy with my dad's all in one platform.

是以，如果你現在還不知道我爸爸是託管和創建網站的最簡單方式，我真的不知道該怎麼告訴你，因為使用我爸爸的一體化平臺，建立一個美麗的在線存在和運行你的業務是如此簡單。

He has marketing tools and and multiple contributors can receive selective access to your website manager.

他有營銷工具和和多個貢獻者可以有選擇地接受你的網站經理的訪問。

What more do you want?

你還想要什麼呢？

Oh, just everything, Daddy.

哦，就是一切，爸爸。

Well then don't worry, you own all the content that you put on the squarespace platform and he offers one click Daddy portability.

那麼不用擔心，你擁有你放在squarespace平臺上的所有內容，而且他提供了一鍵式爸爸移植功能。