Yeah, we need to, okay, so basically we went to London over christmas and we made, that's what I just said, Michelle, jesus, christ made it shocking discover.

是的，我們需要，好的，所以基本上我們在聖誕節期間去了倫敦，我們做了，這就是我剛才說的，米歇爾，耶穌，基督使它震驚的發現。

Let's be careful.

我們要小心。

All right, it's a very nice color.

好吧，這是個非常好的顏色。

Anyway, we're here to bring the good word to America like missionaries of a religion that there's no such thing as being an alcoholic in England, there's just constant day drinking.

總之，我們在這裡把好話帶到美國，就像宗教的傳教士一樣，在英國沒有酗酒這回事，只有不斷的白天喝酒。

It's like you start in the morning and then you have, and then you just sit at the table and talk for an entire day.

這就像你從早上開始，然後你有，然後你就坐在桌前，聊上一整天。

need European to bring back breakfast wine to America wine wine.

需要歐洲人把早餐酒帶回美國的葡萄酒酒。

We saw little old ladies drinking a huge pint of beer 11 am inspiring.

我們看到小老太太喝了一大品脫的啤酒，上午11點的時候很有靈感。

We just need to be more european is my thought, Michelle, be a little careful, it's kind of wow, wow Michelle, why don't you tell us the origin of party emoji?

我們只是需要更多的歐洲人是我的想法，米歇爾，要小心一點，這是一種哇，哇米歇爾，你為什麼不告訴我們黨的表情符號的起源？

That's a tough, that's a tough oh, okay, here we go.

這是一個艱難的，這是一個艱難的哦，好吧，我們開始吧。

It's embarrassing.

這很令人尷尬。

It's not my proudest moment.

這不是我最自豪的時刻。

Anyway, so, uh, and I actually went to a pride event and I saw my ex there and she was with her current partner and she had unfollowed me on instagram a few years back and so later that night I was and watching the show modern love getting really ignited about it, really just angry about it and then I started messaging messaging her on instagram, which was, you know, not a great decision, but it was best for her and she was not responding?

總之，所以，呃，實際上我去了一個驕傲的活動，我在那裡看到了我的前妻，她和她現在的伴侶在一起，她幾年前在instagram上取消了對我的關注，所以那天晚上我和看現代愛情的節目，真的被點燃了，真的只是生氣，然後我開始在instagram上給她發資訊，你知道，這不是一個偉大的決定，但這是對她最好的，她沒有迴應？

So and I could see that it said see so I was like how dare you, what happened?

所以我看到它說看到了，所以我想你怎麼敢，發生了什麼？

How dare?

怎麼敢？

And she was like after 20 and same message as she was like hey sorry I was getting ready for bed like oh and I was like all good and then I sent um party emojis, a bunch of party emojis in a row, just party party party party emoji.

而她就像在20歲之後，同樣的資訊，因為她就像嘿，對不起，我正準備睡覺，就像哦，我就像一切都很好，然後我發了嗯派對的表情符號，一連串的派對錶情符號，就是派對派對的表情符號。

I screamed kappas and sent it to these gobs and they were like oh like I can't lie.

我大叫著卡帕斯，並把它發給了這些戈布，他們就像哦，像我不能撒謊一樣。

That was like a very cringe conversation at the moment.

那就像一個非常令人崩潰的對話，在那一刻。

So then ever since then it's been known as a party emoji moment and I know we've all had party emoji moments.

所以從那時起，它就被稱為派對錶情符號時刻，我知道我們都有過派對錶情符號時刻。

I mean obviously except for melissa because this bit was married to her high school sweetheart has never had an ax in her entire life, she doesn't have an X.

我的意思是，顯然除了梅麗莎，因為這個位子嫁給了她的高中戀人，在她的整個生命中從來沒有過斧頭，她沒有X。

Good for you Melissa, good for you Melissa Melissa just had one guy was like this is it?

對你有好處，對你有好處，梅麗莎梅麗莎只是有一個人是這樣的是嗎？

I'm one and done one and done one and one and one and done.

我是一個又一個，一個又一個，一個又一個，一個又一個。

Oh okay now what about you?

哦，好吧，現在你呢？

What about your party emoji story?

你的派對錶情包故事呢？

Leo would ever reach out to N.

利奧曾向N伸出援手。

X.

X.

Wow.

哇。

Hey baby girl, what you are you texting josh?

嘿，寶貝女兒，你是什麼 你發短信給喬什？

Yes baby girl.

是的，寶貝女兒。

Actually do you think we should just drive by his house?

其實你覺得我們應該開車經過他家嗎？

Hey guys you'll see what are you doing, are you naked?

嘿，夥計們，你們會看到你們在做什麼，你們沒有穿衣服嗎？

Oh my God Okay.

哦，我的上帝 好的。

Oh look at that.

哦，看看這個。

Oh God, I gotta go, go, Go, Go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, No, no.

哦，上帝，我得走了，走了，走了，走了，走了，走了，走了，走了，走了，走了，不，不。

Okay.

好的。

Yeah.

是的。

I've reached out to a lot of, a lot of them.

我已經聯繫了很多，很多人。

But you know what?

但你知道嗎？

My therapist actually was talking to my therapist recently about what it means to like reach out to people from your past and why we do that.

實際上，我的治療師最近正在和我的治療師談論像接觸你過去的人意味著什麼，以及我們為什麼要這樣做。

And she had like really articulate and good advice.

而且她有像真正的藝術和好的建議。

What is it?

它是什麼？

Hi wise.

嗨，智者。

Everyone is everything okay?

大家都還好嗎？

Your text messages sounded urgent.

你的簡訊聽起來很緊急。

Well, we were talking about exes and why we reach out to them and, and I remember you just have this very sage advice that I can't quite articulate in the same way to get it.

好吧，我們正在談論前任，以及我們為什麼要接觸他們，而且，我記得你只是有這個非常賢明的建議，我不能以同樣的方式來表達，以獲得它。

She forgot.

她忘了。

Well sometimes we have to go back to the well to know that it's dry.

嗯，有時我們必須回到井邊，才能知道它是乾的。

The well really symbolizes our mother wounds.

這口井真的象徵著我們的母親的傷口。

And even though we know that this well or this relationship doesn't nourish us anymore.

即使我們知道這口井或這段關係不再滋養我們了。

It's just simple human nature to periodically need to check to make sure and remember.

這只是簡單的人類天性，定期需要檢查以確保和記住。

Oh, mm hmm.

哦，mm hmm。

Yeah, finger looking good.

是的，手指看起來不錯。

Oh man.

哦，夥計。

So it has nothing to do with whether or not we're like a good or a bad person.

所以它與我們是否像一個好人或壞人沒有關係。

And if we send party emojis, no, this is all part of the spectrum of the human grief experience as you're processing something.

如果我們發送聚會的表情符號，不，這都是人類悲痛經歷的一部分，因為你正在處理一些事情。

It's not a linear path.

這不是一個線性路徑。

The stages of grief are one framework for looking at a past relationship, but it's not a straight line, it curves it exit flows well, I love you so much.

悲傷的階段是看待過去關係的一個框架，但它不是一條直線，它的曲線出口很好，我非常愛你。

Thank you.

謝謝你。

Thank you.

謝謝你。

Thank you.

謝謝你。

I feel so regulated already.

我已經感覺到很規範了。

You can call me any time.

你可以在任何時候給我打電話。

See you next.

下次見。

Therapy to understanding Refreshing Breakfast one cannot wait to have my therapy appointment tomorrow.

治療到理解清爽的早餐一不能等待我明天的治療預約。

It's like cause all your issues with your the one dude that you've known forever.

這就像導致你所有的問題都與你永遠認識的那個人有關。

What are you doing?

你在做什麼？

one you texting Jeff?

你在給傑夫發短信嗎？

No.

沒有。

Is she texting Jeff girl?

她在給傑夫女孩發短信嗎？

Give me, give me that.

給我，給我。

Give me that.

把那個給我。

Thank you to the patrons for supporting today's episode.

感謝贊助人對今天的節目的支持。

And thank you to my Daddy squarespace for sponsoring this video.

並感謝我的爸爸squarespace贊助這個視頻。

If you don't know that our dad is the easiest way to host and create a website by now, I don't know what to do.

如果你現在還不知道我們的爸爸是託管和創建網站的最簡單方式，我就不知道該怎麼辦了。

Yeah.

是的。

Building an online presence and running your business has never been so easy with my dad's all in one platform.

有了我爸爸的一體式平臺，建立網上形象和經營你的業務從未如此簡單。

Plus he has marketing tools, analytics and multiple contributors can receive selective access to you website editor.

另外，他還有營銷工具、分析工具，多個貢獻者可以有選擇地獲得你的網站編輯器。

What more do you want?

你還想要什麼呢？

Oh, everything.

哦，所有的東西。

Yeah, don't worry.

是的，別擔心。

You own all the content that you put up on the Daddy squarespace platform.

你擁有你放在爸爸squarespace平臺上的所有內容。

Plus he has one click Daddy Portability.

此外，他還有一鍵式爸爸便攜功能。