Name: 在日本，異地戀很困難 // 《海外女孩》第14集 (Long Distance Relationships Are Difficult in Japan // Girl Abroad Ep. 14)
Uploaded: 2022-05-18T01:55:51.000Z
Duration: 16 min 52 s

情態助動詞 A2

episode 14, it has been a few months since I started another long distance relationship and I can say out of every relationship I've been in this one has brought out the best version of myself, no matter where you are in the world.

第14集，我開始另一段異地戀已經有幾個月了，我可以說在我所經歷的每一段關係中，這段關係都帶出了最好的自己，無論你在世界何處。

動名詞

I believe in not settling for someone just because they're close to you.

我相信不要因為某人與你關係密切就滿足於此。

未來簡單式

If your person is out there somewhere in the world and they're meant for you, you will end up together.

如果你的人就在世界的某個地方，而且他們與你有緣，你們最終會在一起。

I have always been the one to leave the relationship because I know when to quit and when my heart can't take anymore, I'm going through a lot and I can't really talk about everything because I feel like there's some things that are just kind of like personal, you just keep to yourself.

我一直是離開這段關係的人，因為我知道什麼時候退出，什麼時候我的心受不了了，我經歷了很多，我不能真的談論所有的事情，因為我覺得有些事情只是有點像個人的事情，你只是保持自己。

I don't really know what to say to the camera anymore to me, distance doesn't matter how you meet someone, doesn't matter the pace in which you fall in love doesn't matter.

我真的不知道該對鏡頭說些什麼了，對我來說，距離並不重要，你如何遇到一個人，並不重要，你戀愛的速度也不重要。

But how you choose to love someone does matter.

但你如何選擇愛一個人確實很重要。

A relationship is two people who love each other just the same.

一段關係是兩個同樣愛對方的人。

To love is not a chore to love is effortless.

愛不是一件苦差事，愛是毫不費力的。

所以今天是一個陽光明媚、溫暖的日子。

I have a lot to get done today, but I thought I'd vlog because I have a lot on my mind and I just want to talk about these things because a lot of people are probably going through some similar things last night I worked, finished off what I was doing for my boyfriend.

我今天有很多事情要做，但我想我要發微博，因為我有很多心事，我只想談談這些事情，因為很多人可能正在經歷一些類似的事情，昨晚我工作了，完成了我為我男朋友做的事情。

It wasn't really originally a valentine's Day gift, but it was more Like an appreciation gift of how he's been towards me throughout the past couple of months or a few months, so I wrote 20 letters, I forgot to film the actual letters because I was just so like focused on it and then I packed it up right away because I was just so excited and I packed up some snacks and ramen and curry and pasta sauces that he wanted for himself because he misses those things in Japan, so I'm sending those things to him today and I'm really excited about it in three weeks, we're going to see each other for the first time and it's really exciting.

這並不是一份真正的情人節禮物，但它更像是一份感謝禮物，感謝他在過去幾個月或幾個月裡對我的態度，所以我寫了20封信。我忘了拍下真正的信，因為我太專注於它了，然後我馬上打包，因為我太興奮了，我還打包了一些零食、拉麵、咖喱和意大利麵醬，這是他自己想要的，因為他在日本很想念這些東西，所以我今天要把這些東西寄給他，我真的很興奮，三週後，我們將第一次見到對方，這真的很令人興奮。

Now we have a mutual friend and I failed to mention that in past videos, I have to say that we have been so talkative with each other, we're communicating every day.

現在我們有一個共同的朋友，我在過去的視頻中沒有提到這一點，我不得不說，我們之間已經很談得來了，我們每天都在交流。

We have a Skype date today, it's just nonstop, like 24 7, we are never too busy for each other and I feel like if you're in a long distance relationship you can't be too busy for your significant other.

我們今天有一個Skype約會，它只是不停地，像24 7，我們永遠不會為對方太忙，我覺得如果你在一個長距離的關係中，你不能為你的重要對方太忙。

Always been in relationships where one person loves the other more than the other and I feel like I've always been that girl that has put in so much love and effort into a relationship and I've never gotten really much in return and I've noticed that about this relationship, how we're on the same page and on the same level, he's so supportive, he encourages me every day, he watches all my videos and he just loves me no matter what happens or what I do or how I am.

一直以來，在關係中，一個人愛另一個人多於另一個人，我覺得我一直是那個在關係中投入如此多的愛和努力的女孩，而我從來沒有得到真正的回報，我注意到，關於這段關係，我們是如何在同一個頁面和同一個水準上，他是如此支持我，他每天鼓勵我，他看我所有的視頻，他只是愛我，無論發生什麼，我做什麼或我是如何。

He loves all my flaws and I think that's so important when you find somebody and I just, I have zero doubts.

他喜歡我所有的缺點，我認為當你找到某人時，這一點是如此重要，我只是，我沒有任何懷疑。

So yeah, I'm going to go and send this and go to the grocery store and come back.

所以，是的，我要去發送這個，然後去雜貨店，然後回來。

So I totally forgot to show the letters in my video, but I just Packaged up a bunch of things like Curry and Ramen.

所以我完全忘了在我的視頻中展示這些字母，但我只是打包了一堆東西，比如咖喱和拉麵。

I put 20 letters in here that I wrote him, I just wrote the letters and I put open and then open when you are feeling lonely or open when you can't sleep open when you wake up.

我在這裡放了20封信，是我給他寫的，我只是寫了這些信，我把打開，然後在你感到孤獨的時候打開，或者在你睡不著的時候打開，在你醒來的時候打開。

So every time he's feeling a certain way he can open a letter.

是以，每當他有某種感覺的時候，他可以打開一封信。

好的，所以這基本上花了很長時間。

I was in there for like an hour trying to send the package and the lady was confused about cup ramen because they don't say cup ramen here.

我在那裡呆了大約一個小時，試圖發送包裹，那位女士對杯裝拉麵感到困惑，因為他們在這裡沒有說杯裝拉麵。

So like they weren't sure if they were gonna like stop the package or not.

所以他們不確定是否要停止包裝。

So I don't know like exactly what happened, but hopefully it'll get to him what I learned through long distance relationships is to look to live in the present moment to keep your sanity, even though I know it's hard, don't focus on the future, focus on yourself and well being communicate with each other often make each other laugh as often as possible and think about how that makes you feel.

所以我不知道到底發生了什麼，但希望能讓他知道，我通過異地戀學到的東西是要看重活在當下，以保持你的理智，儘管我知道這很難，不要專注於未來，專注於自己和良好的溝通，經常讓對方儘可能多地笑，想想這讓你感覺如何。

Currently things will fall into place eventually.

哦，我的上帝，為什麼它們這麼貴？

I want and I just get one I swear to God like I'm trying to eat less sugar and this place is taunting me.

我想，我只是得到了一個，我向上帝發誓，就像我試圖少吃糖，而這個地方在嘲弄我。

Oh my God, these are my favorites american soft one way and L.

哦，我的上帝，這些都是我最喜歡的美國人的柔軟的一種方式和L。

Will fail is if you care too much about what other people think and someone else's fears for your own relationship.

會失敗的是如果你太在乎別人的想法和別人對你自己的關係的恐懼。

Oh my God I love the lights but you can put it on for one hour, three hours or six hours and it smells so good.

哦，我的上帝，我喜歡這些燈，但你可以把它放在一個小時，三個小時或六個小時，它聞起來非常好。

I get it at this supermarket called day and it has like everything, it has like tomato, yaki, it has some chicken fish, black beans, this is ginger, a bunch of vegetables and japanese potatoes and then this is like purple rice, it's supposed to be a little bit more nutritious than white rice.

我在這個叫天的超市買的，裡面什麼都有，有西紅柿、燒餅，有一些雞肉魚肉、黑豆，這是生薑，還有一堆蔬菜和日本的洋芋，然後這是紫米，應該比白米更有營養。

然後我通常和北約一起吃這個。

Um A lot of stress happened this past couple of weeks and I got sick again, I got a cold and I think I just get sick from stress.

過去幾周發生了很多壓力，我又生病了，我感冒了，我想我只是因為壓力而生病。

Mostly my immune system just dies when I'm stressed and I work with kids.

大多數情況下，我的免疫系統在我有壓力和與孩子一起工作時就會死亡。

So But also I didn't have pneumonia um that long ago.

是以，但我也沒有得過肺炎，嗯，很久以前。

So, I honestly, I don't think I'm completely better because I still am coughing up some stuff.

所以，說實話，我不認為我已經完全好了，因為我仍然在咳嗽一些東西。

I took on a lot of jobs, a lot of social media jobs.

我接了很多工作，很多社交媒體的工作。

It does get overwhelming after a while because of deadlines and things like that.

因為最後期限和類似的事情，一段時間後確實會讓人不知所措。

I think I'm also getting anxious because I'm going to meet my boyfriend for the first time.

我想我也開始焦慮了，因為我將會第一次見到我的男朋友。

And that's really strange to say because I feel like I know him already.

這樣說真的很奇怪，因為我覺得我已經認識他了。

But yeah, I don't know, I'm just nervous.

但是，是的，我不知道，我只是緊張。

Like there's so much going through my head like what is he going to think of me?

我腦子裡想了很多，比如他將會怎麼看我？

Like am I going to be, is he gonna like me any different when we meet in person?

比如我是否會，當我們見面時，他是否會喜歡我有什麼不同？

How are we going to be together in person physically?

我們要如何親自在一起的身體呢？

So it's it's exciting because we're so in love and I love that about us that we just click I don't know, I'm just really, I'm feeling like these mix of emotions but they're not necessarily bad.

所以這很令人興奮，因為我們是如此相愛，我喜歡我們之間的這種關係，我們只是一拍即合，我不知道，我只是真的，我感覺這些混合的情緒，但它們不一定是壞的。

I don't know how to explain them but I think it's just anxious nous and getting there and but I'm excited and nervous at the same time.

我不知道如何解釋它們，但我認為這只是焦慮的神經和到達那裡，但我同時也很興奮和緊張。

I just want to plan out something so I'm gonna lesson plan and plan out my meals for the next three weeks I think.

我只是想計劃一些事情，所以我打算制定課程計劃，並計劃好未來三週的飲食，我想。

Everything is like size area and just are like american western style restaurant.

一切都像大小區，只是像美國的西式餐廳。

What are you going to miss when you leave?

Um I'm thinking nothing because your life is better here.

嗯，我覺得沒什麼，因為你在這裡的生活更好。

Um There are like a lot of creative people here.

嗯，這裡有很多有創造力的人。

所以在日本，這不是一個有創造力的人。

I'm sure you know you don't even know anymore.

我相信你知道你甚至不知道了。

I'm excited to like see your reaction to everything again.

我很高興能再次看到你對一切的反應。

I'm gonna be holding the camera and I'm gonna be filming your whole, I'm gonna be going crazy.

我將拿著攝影機，拍下你的整個過程，我將會變得很瘋狂。

I haven't started editing the video that the deadline.

我還沒有開始編輯視頻，截止日期。

Is this coming saturday I believe for my next series.

我相信這個星期六是我的下一個系列。

So that's what I'm gonna be doing the rest of the night.

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