I guess I'm just a failure.

我想我只是一個失敗者。

No, I was shook.

不，我被震撼了。

I was sad.

我很難過。

I morphed into a mama bird and regurgitated my love straight into his gullet and now I'm going to do that for you.

我變成了一隻鳥媽媽，把我的愛直接反芻到他的胃裡，現在我也要為你這樣做。

So listen up, baby ba cha chose because I'm here to tell all of you.

所以聽好了，寶貝巴查選擇了，因為我在這裡要告訴你們所有人。

Male identifying motherfucker's exactly what you need to shut up about.

識別男性的混蛋正是你需要閉嘴的東西。

Number one as evidence, Shut up when you're putting yourself down.

作為證據的第一條，當你把自己放倒的時候，請閉嘴。

Okay, stop talking about my friend that way.

好了，別再那樣說我的朋友了。

If you're about to call yourself a failure a loser, a good for nothing, You shut your face.

如果你想說自己是個失敗者，一個失敗者，一個一無是處的人，你就閉上你的嘴。

That's sign language for No, Well I guess I'm going to be single forever because no girl would ever love me.

那是 "不 "的手語，我想我將永遠單身，因為沒有女孩會愛我。

No.

沒有。

Shut your beautiful, masculine mouth with that bullshit because you are lovable.

閉上你那張美麗的、充滿陽剛之氣的嘴，因為你是可愛的。

You are worthy.

你是值得的。

Your partnership status does not reflect your inherent shine peanut.

你的合夥地位並不反映你固有的光澤度。

And just because $100 bill has somehow drifted into the gutter doesn't make it any less valuable for the person who finds it and says, oh my God, Hello Benjamin!

僅僅因為100美元的鈔票莫名其妙地漂流到了水溝裡，並不意味著它對發現它的人來說就不那麼有價值了，他們會說，哦，我的上帝，你好，本傑明！"。

Where have you been all my life?

我這一生中你都在哪裡？

I'm just short, fat and ugly.

我只是又矮又胖又醜。

No, listen, baby boy, I do not want to hear you bash your banging corporeal form.

不，聽著，寶貝兒子，我不想聽你抨擊你的撞擊肉體的形式。

Did I say that right?

我說的對嗎？

I guess because guess what?

我猜是因為你猜怎麼著？

Triple B's, It's not about what you have, it's about how you use it take it from me.

Triple B's，這不是關於你擁有什麼，而是關於你如何使用它，從我這裡得到。

I've dated many an ugly man.

我曾與許多醜陋的男人約會。

Men shorter than me.

比我矮的男人。

Men who resemble a sweet sweet Pillsbury doughboy because here's a secret Women can overlook attractiveness if your personality is pristine.

類似於甜美的Pillsbury麵糰男孩的男人，因為這裡有一個祕密，如果你的個性是純潔的，女人可以忽略吸引力。

If you treat me like a queen and if you have a gigantic sense of humor, it's on obviously like listen to consent and don't be misogynistic.

如果你把我當做女王，如果你有巨大的幽默感，那顯然是在聽從同意和不要有厭惡感等方面。

But ultimately what I'm saying is you have a chance and look, I'm not saying you should repress any of these negative feelings or your thoughts because we're all human.

但最終我想說的是，你有一個機會，看，我不是說你應該壓制任何這些負面的感覺或你的想法，因為我們都是人。

And I know society, you know, tells men to like push it down to man up to not express what's considered weak or girly.

我知道這個社會，你知道，告訴男人要把它壓下去，讓男人不要表達被認為是軟弱或女孩的東西。

But what I want you to do is to stop believing in those things to actively work on yourself so that those phrases don't come out of your luscious lips.

但我想讓你做的是，不要再相信那些東西，積極為自己努力，使那些短語不會從你的香脣中流出。

And I know being a man in today's society comes to a lot of toxic language, expectations, lack of deep connection with other males and being a man probably means you don't get compliments on your outfit because every top shop male selection I've seen is quite small.

我知道在今天的社會中，作為一個男人，會有很多有毒的語言、期望，缺乏與其他男性的深度聯繫，作為一個男人可能意味著你的衣服得不到讚美，因為我看到的每一個頂級商店的男性選擇都相當少。

I know that you have to navigate how to actively not come across as a creep and to attune to the ever changing rules of society and public spaces and you have to adjust your balls all the time.

我知道你必須掌握如何積極地不被視為一個討厭鬼，並適應不斷變化的社會和公共空間的規則，你必須一直調整你的球。

I cannot fathom how exhausting it is.

我無法理解這有多累人。

Can you even cross your legs comfortably.

你甚至可以舒適地翹起你的腿。

I think not and I pity you in all seriousness.

我認為不是，而且我很同情你，認真地說。

I sympathize.

我很同情。

I empathize.

我感同身受。

I feel compassion for the journey that men have laid out before them and how far they have come, but I will not let you stand in my presence and insult my friend with these uncouth, untruth.

我對男人在他們面前鋪設的旅程以及他們所走過的路感到同情，但我不會讓你站在我的面前，用這些無禮的、不真實的東西侮辱我的朋友。

So if you're going to disparage belittle, berate or abuse my baby boys, shut your beautiful face and its magnificent mouth.

是以，如果你要貶低貶低，呵斥或虐待我的寶貝兒子，請閉上你美麗的臉和它的華麗的嘴。

I'm anna O'Connor.

我是安娜-奧康納。

Thank you the patrons who supported today's video and thank you to nord VPN for sponsoring today's episode.

感謝支持今天視頻的贊助者，感謝nord VPN對今天節目的贊助。

I travel a lot for work and nord VPN is essential in ensuring I still watch my stories.

我因工作需要經常出差，nord VPN對於確保我仍然能觀看我的故事至關重要。

It's considered research.

這被認為是研究。

Okay.

好的。

No matter where in the world I'm filming, I can access my favorite content on all my streaming platforms at the end of a very long day, The entire season two of Euphoria.

無論我在世界哪個地方拍攝，在漫長的一天結束後，我都可以在所有的流媒體平臺上訪問我最喜歡的內容，《極樂世界》的整個第二季。

Yeah, I binged, I tweeted I heated when I was out of the country filming All thanks to daddy nord VPN plus nord VPN uses over 5200 servers in 60 countries.

是的，我狂歡，我發推特，我出國拍戲時，我加熱了 所有這些都要感謝爸爸nord VPN，加上nord VPN在60個國家使用5200多個服務器。

They're incredibly easy to use fast and available up to six devices on every major platform.

它們令人難以置信地易於快速使用，並在每個主要平臺上提供多達六種設備。

You go to nord VPN dot com slash anna to get a two year plan plus a bonus gift with a huge discount.

你去nord VPN dot com slash anna獲得兩年的計劃，再加上一個有巨大折扣的獎勵禮物。

It is risk free with nords, 30 day money back guarantee.

它是無風險的，有Nords，30天退款保證。