online, you have problems because you're in sticky

在網上，你有問題，因為你是在粘稠的

situations. So, "sticky situations" means that you feel

情況。是以，"棘手的情況 "意味著你覺得

uncomfortable or you don't really know what to say, or how

不舒服，或者你真的不知道該說什麼，或者怎麼說。

to act, because someone has made you feel weird.

採取行動，因為有人讓你感到奇怪。

So, I'm here to help you about this. And job interviews. Oh my

所以，我在這裡幫助你解決這個問題。還有求職面試。哦，我的

god - the worst. People ask you questions. You're like: "Oh, I

上帝--最糟糕的。人們問你問題。你會說"哦，我

don't know. I don't know. I don't know." Don't tell them the

不知道。我不知道。我不知道。"不要告訴他們

truth. Don't tell them that you're... "Oh, okay." So, if

真相。不要告訴他們，你是..."哦，好的。"所以，如果

English is not your first language, or if it is, sometimes

英語不是你的第一語言，或者如果是的話，有時候

we help dealing with things. So, let's get into this.

我們幫助處理事情。是以，讓我們進入這個問題。

Where do these things happen? So, uncomfortable questions can

這些事情在哪裡發生？所以，不舒服的問題可以

happen when you're outside walking your dog, they can

當你在外面遛狗的時候，它們會發生。

happen on social media; sticky, sticky situations. Facebook,

發生在社交媒體上的；粘性，粘性的情況。臉書。

Instagram, YouTube, comments or messages.

Instagram、YouTube、評論或資訊。

I have a YouTube channel; you're watching it. And people say

我有一個YouTube頻道；你正在看它。而人們說

things like... That are just wrong. And that I take thing...

這樣的事情...這些都是錯誤的。而我認為事情...

They take what I say and make it very different from what happens

他們把我說的話與發生的事情弄得很不一樣

from reality. That's a dangerous thing. Know what you're

從現實中來。這是件危險的事。知道你是什麼

commenting on, first of all, and know how to comment back.

評論，首先，要知道如何進行回評。

If you're on Facebook, and people are saying bad things

如果你在Facebook上，而人們在說壞話

about you - this... This can be terrible, especially if you'r

關於你 - 這...這可能是可怕的，特別是如果你的

younger and you're ver vulnerable. So, make sure tha

更年輕，你就更容易受到傷害。是以，要確保

you know how to handl yourselves in this situation

在這種情況下，你們知道如何處理自己的問題

Because if you type a comment and then you type an answer; an

因為如果你打了一個評論，然後又打了一個答案；一個

then they answer: "Blah, blah blah", it can get very, ver

然後他們回答。"胡說八道，胡說八道"，它可以變得非常，非常

dangerous out there. There' many examples of people gettin

在那裡很危險。有許多例子表明，人們會在一個特定的時間段內受到傷害。

killed, people getting sho because of Facebook social medi

被殺，人們因為臉譜網的社交媒體而被推倒。

comments. Careful

評論。慎重

These can happen in real life. So, someone could say to you:

這些都可以在現實生活中發生。是以，有人可以對你說。

"Oh, hey. How old are you?" That's none of your business.

"哦，嘿。你多大了？"這不關你的事。

Really? Is it? Which can be a legitimate question, if it's

真的嗎？是嗎？這可能是一個合理的問題，如果它是

your friend or someone; but if it's a stranger - no, no. That's

你的朋友或某人；但如果是一個陌生人--不，不。那是

not their business. "How much money do you make?" These are

不是他們的事。"你能賺多少錢？"這些是

considered rude questions. And when someone asks you them,

被認為是無禮的問題。而當有人問你這些問題時。

you're put in a ver uncomfortable situation. And yo

你被置於一個非常不舒服的境地。而你

want to tell the truth, but yo know you shouldn't, and: Wha

想說實話，但你知道你不應該說，而且。什麼

are you going to do

你要做的是

-"Hey, sweetheart. Can I get your phone number?" -"Oh, I... I

- "嘿，親愛的。我能得到你的電話號碼嗎？"- "哦，我...I

don't have a phone." Ring-ring. "Mom, that's a bad time to call

沒有電話。"鈴聲響起。"媽媽，這個時候打電話是不合適的

me now." So, what do you do if somebody says: "Hey, sweetheart.

我現在。"那麼，如果有人說："嘿，親愛的，你會怎麼做？

Can I have your phone number?" You say: "No." And then the

我可以要你的電話號碼嗎？"你說。"不行。"然後

person is like: -"Well, why not?" -"Because I don't want

人是這樣的。- "嗯，為什麼不呢？"- "因為我不希望

to." -"How old are you?" -"It's not your business." -"How much

到。"- "你多大了？"- "這不關你的事。"- "多少錢

money do you make?" -"Why?"

你賺了多少錢？"- "為什麼？"

You can ask them a question. "Why do you want to know how

你可以問他們一個問題。"為什麼你想知道如何

much money I...? How much money do you make?" Oh! You can ask

多少錢我......？你賺多少錢？"哦！你可以問

them a question back. -"How old are you?" -"How old are you? Do

他們回了一個問題。- "你多大了？"- "你多大了？是否

you want to know how old my dog is, too? It's not your

你也想知道我的狗多大了嗎？這不是你的

business."

業務"。

So, you have two options, here. One: You can give them a

是以，你有兩個選擇，在這裡。一：你可以給他們一個

"snarky", which means sarcastic answer, like I usually do. Or,

"snarky"，意思是諷刺性的回答，就像我通常做的那樣。或者。

following the voice of my mom: You can choose to ignore the

遵循我媽媽的聲音。你可以選擇不理會

people. This isn't as fun, though. Oh. It means you're not

人。不過，這沒有那麼有趣。哦。這意味著你不是

playing the game, are you? So, the solution to social media and

玩這個遊戲，你呢？是以，解決社交媒體和

real-life problems: You say nothing.

現實生活中的問題。你什麼都不說。

Somebody types nasty comments about you on your Facebook page,

有人在你的Facebook頁面上打出關於你的討厭的評論。

or on your Instagram, or on your YouTube channel - you say

或在你的Instagram上，或在你的YouTube頻道上 - 你說

nothing; you don't reply. Nothing. Nothing. Absolutely.

什麼都沒有；你沒有回答。什麼都沒有。什麼都沒有。絕對是這樣。

Because: Why? They're waiting for you to say something.

因為。為什麼？他們在等著你說什麼。

These people are called: "keyboard warriors". "Warriors",

這些人被稱為"鍵盤戰士"。"勇士"。

like a soldier. And "keyboard" is the thing that you type on.

像一個阿兵哥。而 "鍵盤 "是指你打字的東西。

So, these "keyboard warriors" have nothing better to do than

是以，這些 "鍵盤戰士 "沒有更好的事情可做，只有

sit on YouTube, and comment on people's videos. Well, get a

坐在YouTube上，對人們的視頻進行評論。那麼，得到一個

hobby, go ride a bike, go walk outside. Okay? Because their

興趣，去騎車，去外面走走。好嗎？因為他們的

lives are so terribly tragic, that they can think: "Oh, I'm

生活是如此可怕的悲慘，以至於他們可以認為："哦，我是

going to go on people's videos and leave these bad comments."

要去人們的視頻上，留下這些不好的評論。"

Okay.

好的。

Also known as "trolls". "Trolls" go through videos and say:

也被稱為 "巨魔"。"巨魔 "通過視頻，說。

"Ah-ha-ha. I'm going to leave a bad comment. And I'm going to

"啊--哈--哈。我將留下一個壞的評論。而且我將會

call this person this name." Nice grade three. Okay? Go back

叫這個人這個名字。"不錯的三年級。好嗎？回去吧

to grade three; get off your keyboard. But say nothing.

到三年級；離開你的鍵盤。但什麼也不要說。

That's what my Mom told me. So, I don't like that. I like to

這是我媽媽告訴我的。所以，我不喜歡這樣。我喜歡

fight.

戰鬥。

So, maybe you're in a job interview and they ask you a

所以，也許你在一個工作面試中，他們問你一個問題

question. Frank, thank you very much for giving me this advice.

問題。弗蘭克，非常感謝你給我這個建議。

And you have no idea what the answer, because job interviews

而你不知道答案是什麼，因為工作面試

are sticky. They... They ask you something, but you know you

是粘性的。他們...他們問你一些事情，但你知道你

shouldn't tell the truth because then you'll lose the job.

不應該說實話，因為那樣你會失去工作。

Hey, guess what? You can say to them: "Let me get back to you on

嘿，你猜怎麼著？你可以對他們說"讓我再跟你說

that one." So, they could ask you a question, like: "So, why

那一個。"是以，他們可以問你一個問題，比如。"那麼，為什麼

exactly would you like to work for this company?" Real answer:

你到底願不願意為這家公司工作？"真正的答案。

"I need a job. And you had a job interview, and I'm here. And you

"我需要一份工作。而你有一個工作面試，而我在這裡。而你

should hire me." Bad answer. Good answer: "That's a good

應該僱用我。"不好的答案。好答案。"這是個好

question."--I have no idea--"Let me get back to you on that one."

問題。"--我不知道--"讓我再給你講講這個問題。"

So, hopefully what will happen is the interview will be very

是以，希望發生的情況是，面試將非常

happy with your answer, continue with the job interview, and

對你的回答感到滿意，繼續進行工作面試，並且

completely forget to go back and ask you the question you

完全忘了回去問你的問題了。

couldn't remember or you didn't know the answer to. It's magic.

不記得了，或者你不知道答案。這就是魔術。

Because the job interviews: "Dunh-dunh-dunh" done all these,

因為工作面試。"Dunh-dunh-dunh "做了所有這些。

good. Okay. Yes/no. Hired. Good. They forget to ask you most of

好的。好，是/否。被錄用。很好。他們忘了問你大部分的

the time, unless you've got a genius working on your job

時間，除非你有一個天才在為你工作

interview.

採訪。

The other thing that you can say is... They might ask you

你可以說的另一件事是...他們可能會問你

something you're not comfortable about at all, and you're going

一些你完全不舒服的事情，而你要去

to find out that there's many things that they're not allowed

發現有很多事情是他們不允許的

to ask you. They're not allowed to ask you about your age, your

來問你。他們不允許問你的年齡，你的

race, and many other discriminatory things in a job

種族和其他許多工作中的歧視性內容。

interview. And if they ask you one of these things, or

採訪。如果他們問你這些事情中的一個，或

something that you're just like: "No. Do you know what? Nah. No,

你只是喜歡的東西。"不，你知道什麼？不知道。不知道。

no, no."

不，不。"

You can say: "I'm not comfortable talking about that."

你可以說"我不太願意談論這個問題"。

And this might set off a little alarm for the interview, going:

而這可能為採訪拉響了一個小警報，去。

"Oh. Did I say something illegal? Well, I hope that was

"哦，我是不是說了什麼違法的話？嗯，我希望那是

allowed in my jurisdiction." So, it actually makes the job

在我的管轄範圍內允許"。是以，它實際上使工作

interview... Interviewer nervous. You're like: "Yes.

面試...面試官緊張。你就說"是的。

Ha-ha. Give me the job."

哈-哈。把工作交給我吧。"

It's a crazy world out there, and people are going to attack

這是個瘋狂的世界，人們將攻擊

you, but stay strong. And if something makes you

你，但要保持堅強。如果有什麼事情讓你

uncomfortable, talk about it. Say things: "Ha. Hey, guess

不舒服的時候，就說說它。說一些話。"哈，嘿，你猜

what? I'm not playing your games. Bye."

什麼？我不玩你的遊戲。再見。"