The first type is the one who decided to go with the flow.

第一種類型是決定順其自然的人。

They don't believe much in the power of will and live an average life, but the second group

他們不太相信意志的力量，過著普通人的生活，但第二類人

take everything in their hands and decide to live a different life.

把一切都掌握在自己手中，決定過一種不同的生活。

A life that's not necessarily destined for them, but they will create that life with

一個不一定是為他們註定的生活，但他們將用創造這種生活

their blood and sweat.

他們的血液和汗水。

Everyone falls under one of these categories.

每個人都屬於這些類別中的一個。

Superior people aren't necessarily on the Forbes billionaires list.

卓越的人不一定在福布斯億萬富翁名單上。

It could be anyone from your chemistry teacher back in school to an entrepreneur trying to

它可能是任何人，從你在學校時的化學老師到試圖成為一名企業家。

solve another problem.

解決另一個問題。

But it's certainly a path that everyone should take or at least strive to.

但這肯定是一條每個人都應該走的道路，或者至少是努力的方向。

But to find out how to become a superior person, we have to understand what makes these individuals

但要想知道如何成為一個優秀的人，我們必須瞭解是什麼讓這些人

different, what are the 7 signs that you are a superior man.

不同的是，有哪些跡象表明你是一個高人。

This video is going to be based on the book called - the way of the superior man by David

這段視頻將基於大衛所寫的《高人之路》一書。

Deida.

德達。

If you want to become a superior person, then you have to read that book, but in this video,

如果你想成為一個卓越的人，那麼你必須閱讀那本書，但在這個視頻中。

I am going to give the most important lessons, and you will find out if you fit the description

我將給出最重要的課程，你會發現你是否符合描述的條件

of the superior man.

的高人。

So give this video a thumbs and let's start with the first one.

所以給這個視頻豎起大拇指，讓我們從第一個開始。


 stop hoping for a completion of anything in

不要再指望完成任何事情了

life

生活

Remember when you were a kid, there were a lot of things you wanted to do.

記得當你還是個孩子的時候，有很多事情你想做。

You wanted to become a singer, a basketball star, an astronaut, but only when you finish

你想成為一名歌手，一名籃球明星，一名太空人，但只有當你完成了

school and grow up.

學校和成長。

Once you grow up and get into college, you realize that you have no time for such things.

一旦你長大，進入大學，你就會意識到你沒有時間做這種事情。

You have to go to classes, work on assignments, and get a part-time job to pay the bills.

你必須去上課，做作業，並找一份兼職工作來支付賬單。

So you come up with a brilliant plan - let me finish college first, and once I graduate,

所以你想出了一個絕妙的計劃--讓我先完成大學學業，一旦我畢業。

I will finally do what I want to do it.

我終於可以做我想做的事了。

It's just a few years.

這只是幾年的事。

Once you graduate, you realize that there aren't many things you can do because you

一旦你畢業，你意識到你能做的事情並不多，因為你

have to find a job, so your next strategy is, let me find a job first, and then I am

必須找到一份工作，所以你的下一個策略是，讓我先找到一份工作，然後我再

gonna do what i always wanted to do.

要做我一直想做的事。

Once you find a job, you come across a girl who absolutely blows your mind.

一旦你找到工作，你就會遇到一個絕對讓你震驚的女孩。

She is so beautiful that you can't think of anything else other than her.

她是如此美麗，以至於你無法想到她以外的其他東西。

so you come up with another brilliant strategy.

所以你想出了另一個絕妙的策略。

I guess you already know whats that brilliant strategy.

我猜你已經知道那是什麼輝煌的戰略。

And that's the problem with most people.

而這正是大多數人的問題所在。

They believe that one day they will run out of problems and they will finally enjoy life.

他們相信有一天他們會用完所有的問題，他們最終會享受生活。

Let me tell you a secret - It's never going to be over, so stop waiting for the good stuff.

讓我告訴你一個祕密--它永遠不會結束，所以不要再等待好東西了。

As of now, spend a minimum of one hour a day doing whatever you are waiting to do until

從現在起，每天至少花一個小時做你等待做的事情，直到

your finances are more secure, or until the children have grown and left home, or until

你的財務狀況更加安全，或直到孩子們長大並離開家，或直到

you have finished your obligations and you feel free to do what you really want to do.

你已經完成了你的義務，你覺得可以自由地做你真正想做的事。

Don't wait any longer.

不要再等了。

Don't believe in the myth of "one day when everything will be different."

不要相信 "有一天一切都會不同 "的神話。

Do what you love to do, what you are waiting to do, what you've been born to do, now.

做你喜歡做的事，做你等待做的事，做你生來要做的事，現在。


 2.

2.

your purpose must come before your relationship.

你的目的必須先於你的關係。

Here is what a lot of men don't understand about women.

這裡是很多男人不瞭解女人的地方。

Most men believe that if they are going to do what women wants them to do, if they are

大多數男人認為，如果他們要做女人希望他們做的事，如果他們是

going to please the woman they like, they are going to have a happy successful relationship.

去取悅他們喜歡的女人，他們就會有一個幸福成功的關係。

But that's not how women think.

但是婦女不是這樣想的。

Women are not usually attracted by what you have or what you can do for them.

女人通常不會被你擁有的東西或你能為她們做的事情所吸引。

They are emotional, irrational creatures.

他們是情緒化、非理性的生物。

They chose a man based on how attractive their lives are.

他們選擇一個男人是基於他們的生活有多大的吸引力。

The moment you make your relationship your first priority.

當你把你的關係作為你的首要任務的時候。

You are no longer interesting.

你不再有趣了。

Your mission is your priority.

你的任務是你的優先事項。

Unless you know your mission and have aligned your life to it, your core will feel empty.

除非你知道你的使命，並使你的生活與之相一致，否則你的核心將感到空虛。

Your presence in the world will be weakened, as will your presence with your woman.

你在世界中的存在將被削弱，你與你的女人的存在也將被削弱。

The next time you notice yourself "giving in" to your woman, postponing your mission,

下次你注意到自己向你的女人 "讓步 "時，延後你的任務。

and denying your true purpose in order to spend time with her, stop.

併為了和她在一起而否認你的真正目的，停止吧。

Tell your woman that you love her, but you cannot deny your heart's purpose.

告訴你的女人，你愛她，但你不能否認你內心的目的。

Tell her that you will spend 30 minutes (or some specific time) with her in absolute attention

告訴她，你將花30分鐘（或一些特定的時間）與她絕對關注。

and total presence, but then you must return to carry on your mission.

和完全的存在，但隨後你必須返回來繼續你的使命。

Your woman will be more fulfilled with 30 minutes a day of undivided attention than

每天30分鐘的全神貫注，你的女人會更有成就感。

she will with a few hours of your weak and divided presence when your heart really isn't

當你的心真的不在這裡的時候，她會在你虛弱和分裂的幾個小時內出現。

into it.

進入它。

The time you spend with your woman should be the time you really want to be with her

你和你的女人在一起的時間應該是你真正想和她在一起的時間。

more than anything else.

比什麼都重要。

If you'd rather be doing something else, she'll feel it.

如果你寧願做別的事情，她會感覺到的。

And Both of you will be dissatisfied.

而你們兩個人都會不滿意的。


 3. never change your mind just to please a

3.不要為了取悅別人而改變自己的想法

woman.

女人。


 When you change your opinion just to please

當你為了取悅別人而改變你的觀點時

a woman, you are going to become inferior in her eyes.

一個女人，你在她眼裡就會變得低人一等。

she will never tell you that.

她永遠不會告訴你這些。

But that's how she is going to treat you.

但她就是要這樣對待你。

Women are weak creatures who are always looking to hide behind strong shoulders of men who

女人是軟弱的動物，她們總是想躲在男人強壯的肩膀後面，而男人則是要躲在女人的肩膀後面。

can think independently and decide for themselves.

能夠獨立思考併為自己做決定。

I am not saying you should not listen to your woman.

我不是說你不應該聽你的女人的話。

In fact you should but make your own decision.

事實上，你應該但作出你自己的決定。

If you choose to go with your woman's suggestion even when deep in your heart you feel that

如果你選擇聽從你女人的建議，即使在你內心深處你覺得

another decision is wiser, you are, in effect, saying, "I don't trust my own wisdom."

另一個決定更明智，你實際上是在說，"我不相信我自己的智慧"。

You are weakening yourself by telling yourself this.

你這樣告訴自己，是在削弱自己的力量。

You are weakening your woman's trust in you: why should she trust your wisdom if you don't?

你正在削弱你的女人對你的信任：如果你不相信，她為什麼要相信你的智慧？

Your friends, children, and business colleagues may love you, but they won't trust you, since

你的朋友、孩子和商業同事可能愛你，但他們不會信任你，因為

you don't trust your own gut.

你不相信自己的直覺。

This attitude of self-trusts is going to push others to trust you.

這種自我信任的態度會推動別人對你的信任。

You may be wrong, but you are willing to find out and thus grow from the experience.

你可能是錯的，但你願意去發現，從而從經驗中成長。

You are open to listening to others, but in the end, you will take responsibility for

你願意傾聽別人的意見，但最終你會為自己的行為負責。

making your own decision.

做出自己的決定。

There is nobody else to blame.

沒有其他人可以指責。


4.

4.

Be Willing to Change Everything in Your Life 


願意改變你生活中的一切

When you are a little kid, your parents teach you how the world work.

當你還是個小孩子的時候，你的父母會教你這個世界如何運作。

They will give you financial lessons, relationship advice and so on.

他們會給你提供財務課程、關係建議等等。

You will grow up thinking that whatever you have been taught as a kid is the right thing.

你長大後會認為，你小時候被教導的東西都是正確的。

However, your parents aren't perfect.

然而，你的父母並不完美。

Your school isn't perfect either.

你的學校也並不完美。

What you have been taught about the world could be false.

你所學到的關於世界的知識可能是錯誤的。

A superior man knows that if he wants to succeed in this world, he should be ready to change

一個優秀的人知道，如果他想在這個世界上取得成功，他應該準備好改變

everything in his life, including his deepest beliefs.

他生命中的一切，包括他最深的信仰。

5.

5.

Don't Use Your Family As an Excuse

不要用你的家庭作為藉口

Many of my friends I know way before they got married and become parents were very ambitious.

我認識的許多朋友在結婚和成為父母之前，都是非常有抱負的。

They would tell me all the great plans and goals they want to achieve.

他們會告訴我他們想要實現的所有偉大計劃和目標。

But as soon as they started a family.

但只要他們成了家。

They become mediocre.

他們變得平庸。

And that's what often happens with people. 


而這正是人們經常發生的事情。

If a man never discovers his deepest purpose, or uses his family as an excuse, then his

如果一個人從未發現他最深層的目的，或以他的家庭為藉口，那麼他的

core becomes weakened and he loses his purpose.

核心變得虛弱，他失去了自己的目標。

His woman loses trust and sexual polarity with him, even though he may be putting much

他的女人失去了對他的信任和性的極性，即使他可能把許多

energy into parenting their children and doing the housework. 

他們把精力放在養育孩子和做家務上。

You should do your absolute best to take care of your children and woman, but you should

你應該盡你最大的努力來照顧你的孩子和女人，但你應該

manage your time in such a way that you always find the time to pursue your goals and never

管理你的時間，使你總能找到時間去追求你的目標，而不是去追求你的目標。

give up on them just because you have a family.

就因為你有一個家庭而放棄他們。


 6.

6.

Superior man knows the power of silence 

卓越的人知道沉默的力量

When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you

當你試圖用言語來打動別人時，你說得越多，就越普通。

appear, and the less in control.

出現，而且越發不受控制。

Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open-ended.

即使你說的是平淡無奇的東西，如果你把它說得模糊不清，開放式的，也會顯得很有創意。

Superior people impress and intimidate by saying less.

優越的人通過少說多做給人留下深刻的印象和威懾。

The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish." 

你說的越多，你就越有可能說些蠢話。"

If you have read the 48 laws of power, you probably know the power of silence.

如果你讀過《權力的48個法則》，你可能知道沉默的力量。

To build a successful business, you need to be able to know how to deal with people, and

要建立一個成功的企業，你需要能夠知道如何與人打交道，並且

silence is a skill that very few have mastered.

沉默是一種很少有人掌握的技能。

Your silence will put people in a defensive situation and will make them say more and

你的沉默會使人們處於防衛狀態，會使他們說更多和

reveal themselves and their intentions more.

暴露自己和他們的意圖更多。

By saying less than necessary, people will take your words more seriously and will listen

少說一些必要的話，人們會更認真地對待你的話，並會聽從你的意見。

to them more carefully, hence making them more valuable.

對他們更仔細，是以使他們更有價值。

7.

7.

Superior man Don't Get Lost in Tasks and Duties

卓越的人不要迷失在任務和職責中

Superior people are focused on the bigger picture.

卓越的人專注於大局。

Whatever they are doing now is just part of the much bigger vision they are working on.

無論他們現在做什麼，都只是他們正在努力實現的更大願景的一部分。

But to complete their vision, they have to do these smaller tasks.

但為了完成他們的願景，他們必須做這些小的任務。

However, their end goal is always in the back of their heads that drives them to keep working

然而，他們的最終目標始終在他們的腦海中，促使他們繼續工作。

hard. 

艱苦。

It's not a problem to work in a low-paying job to pay your bills like in a McDonald's,

在麥當勞這樣的低薪工作中工作以支付賬單不是問題。

but if you get stuck there for the rest of your life, that becomes a problem.

但如果你的餘生都被困在那裡，那就成了一個問題。

Superior people are not afraid to take jobs that the society might think are inferior,

卓越的人不害怕從事社會可能認為是低等的工作。

but they have a plan.

但他們有一個計劃。

They know that there aren't staying there forever. 

他們知道，他們不會永遠呆在那裡。

Once everyone is back home.

一旦大家都回家了。

Superior people don't go to sleep.

卓越的人不會去睡覺。

They finally start working on the projects that they feel passionate about and once their

他們終於開始從事他們覺得有激情的項目，一旦他們的

projects succeed, they will leave behind that low-paying job for good.

項目成功後，他們將永遠離開那份低薪的工作。

They are not afraid of failure because they know that they can take this journey again

他們不懼怕失敗，因為他們知道他們可以再次踏上這段旅程。

and again. 

和再次。


 I wanted to make this video longer and include

我想讓這個視頻更長，幷包括

another 7 signs of superior people, but I think this video is already a bit too long.

另外7個高人的標誌，但我認為這個視頻已經有點太長了。

If you find this video helpful, I will definitely make part 2.

如果你覺得這個視頻有幫助，我一定會做第二部分。

Enjoy this video that is appearing on the screen or check out our investing playlist

請欣賞螢幕上出現的這段視頻，或查看我們的投資播放列表

that will teach you everything you need to know to start investing.

這將教會你開始投資所需的一切知識。

Now give me a thumbs up and make sure to subscribe if you're new around here.

現在給我一個大拇指，如果你是這裡的新人，請務必訂閱。

Thanks for Watching and see you in the next one.

謝謝你的觀看，下一次見。