wasn't just risking the pregnancy.

不只是冒著懷孕的風險。

You were at risk of losing your life.

你有生命危險

And I just want you to

我只是想讓你

know for some patients, with-

對於一些患者來說，知道

especially when they've gone through

尤其是當他們經歷了

so much as you have, you both have.

你有這麼多，你們都有。

Um, it's almost like

嗯，這幾乎是像

going through post-traumatic stress.

經歷創傷後的壓力，

You know, returning to the office

你知道，回到辦公室

isn't the easiest thing.

並不是最簡單的事情。

You could've lost your life.

你可能已經失去了你的生活。

You being pregnant again is not an option.

你再次懷孕是不可能的。

Without you, there wouldn't

沒有你，就不會有

be a family. There's-- the-

是一個家庭。有... ...

I, I was almost left with the choice

我，我幾乎只能選擇

of having to decide

的決定。

between you or having a child.

你們之間或有一個孩子。

It may be traumatic or too difficult

它可能是創傷或太困難

to consider having another child

考慮再生一個孩子

and carrying the baby yourself,

並親自抱著孩子。

but surrogacy is a real option

但代孕是一個真實的選擇

that I would have you strongly consider

我希望你能強烈考慮

if you're gonna have another child.

如果你要去有另一個孩子，

-I honestly just

-老實說，我只是

never even considered surrogacy.

甚至從未考慮過代孕。

Um,

嗯。

I-- I was always under the impression

我... 我一直以為

that surrogacy was something

代孕是什麼

that Asians tend to kind of

亞洲人傾向於那種

look down on or stay away from.

看不起或遠離；

I just don't-- I don't want to do anything

我只是不想... 我不想做任何事情。

or make any dec- decisions

或作出任何決定

that would offend your parents

傷風敗俗

and bring shame to your family.

並給你的家庭帶來恥辱。

-Gabe's parents

-Gabe的父母

would hate the idea of surrogacy.

會討厭代孕的想法。

They are very traditional,

他們是非常傳統的。

and surrogacy is not something that's accepted.

和代孕是不被接受的東西。

I literally just got out

我真的剛出來

of the doghouse with my in-laws,

的狗窩與我的親家。

and I just don't wanna

我只是不想

go through that all over again.

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