Not at all.

一點也不。

She's a Jesuit priest.

她是個耶穌會的牧師

Oh, okay.

哦，好吧。

(laughing)

（笑）

All right, come on, Jesuit.

好吧，來吧，耶穌會士

My wife, when I met her, was in advertising.

我的妻子，我認識她的時候，是做廣告的。

She was an advertising executive,

她是一名廣告主管。

and then when she got pregnant with our first child,

然後當她懷上了我們的第一個孩子，

I think, she started, I think was around then,

我想，她開始，我想是在那時。

she started working on, her real passion is writing.

她開始工作，她真正的激情是寫作。

So she's been writing plays.

所以她一直在寫劇本。

She works with different playwriting organizations

她與不同的劇本創作機構合作

and theater groups, and she's a dramaturge,

和劇組，她是個戲劇家。

which means she reads other people's plays and tries

這意味著她讀別人的劇本，並嘗試。

to help them and gets, gets involved a lot

幫助他們，並得到，得到參與了很多。

in independent theater, and she works really hard,

在獨立劇院，她真的很努力。

very proud of her.

很為她驕傲。

She's a really smart.

她是個很聰明的人

It's hilarious to see that,

看到這裡，我覺得很搞笑。

my bed stand and her bed stand.

我的床架和她的床架。

Hers, you know, mine is always like,

她的，你知道，我的總是喜歡。

some cheesy historical murder mystery,

一些俗氣的歷史謀殺謎案。

and then her, hers is just like the great,

然後她的，她的就像大。

you know, Aristotle and Plato and all the,

你知道，亞里士多德和柏拉圖和所有的。

just the, you know, Beckett, all the great playwrights,

只是，你知道，貝克特， 所有偉大的劇作家。

and she's constantly reading that stuff and I get

和她的不斷閱讀的東西，我得到了

really intimidated because she's, she's really brilliant.

真的很嚇人，因為她的， 她真的很聰明。

She's really smart and creative.

她真的很聰明，很有創意。

Oh, I really like listening to people talk

哦，我很喜歡聽別人說話

about their significant others because you can't

關於他們的另一半，因為你不能

really see it, but I could see it.

真的看到了，但我可以看到它。

Your like, face changed when you talked about her

你說到她的時候，臉色都變了。

and that's like, so magical.

這就像，所以神奇的。

It's truly a dream, and that's what I want.

這真是一個夢想，這也是我想要的。

I want my face to change when I talk

我希望我說話的時候臉色能變

about somebody that I love.

關於我愛的人。

I want their face to change when someone's like,

我希望他們的臉變化時，有人的喜歡。

"Oh, who are you dating?"

"哦，你在和誰約會？"

And it's like,

這就像。

"Oh, Nicole, she's so wonderful."

"哦，妮可，她是如此美妙。"

That, it's so magical.

這，真是太神奇了。

It was really lovely to see.

真的很可愛。

Well, you know, I would tell you, I, this can sound

好吧，你知道，我會告訴你，我，這可能聽起來

very West Coast and granola-y and spiritual

非常西海岸和格蘭諾拉-y和精神

and I'm, I'm so not that person but what I have come

而我，我不是那個人，但我已經來

to believe and I actually, I talk to a lot of the women

相信和我實際上，我跟很多的婦女

in my office about this.

在我的辦公室裡，關於這個。

I, I tell them like, my big thing, when I talk

我，我告訴他們，我的大事情，當我談到

to younger women that work on the staff,

對在工作人員中工作的年輕婦女。

if they ever, you know, holiday party or whatever,

如果他們曾經，你知道，節日聚會或什麼的，

and they're talking about dating and how hard

他們正在談論 約會和如何努力，

it is right now, I just, my big thing is don't settle.

它是現在，我只是，我的大事情是不解決。

Like, do not settle.

喜歡，不解決。

Don't settle.

不要解決。

I did not settle, and there's not a day in my life

我沒有安頓下來，沒有一天在我的生活中。

when I don't think, oh man, I, I've made good.

當我不認為，哦，夥計，我，我已經做好了。

I've had good ideas and bad ideas, but 19 years ago

我有過好的想法，也有過壞的想法，但19年前... ...

I made the exact right call, and that's the way

我做了一個正確的決定，這是我的方式

you want to feel, and that's what you,

你想要的感覺，這就是你。

you just keep going 'til you find that person.

你只是繼續前進，直到你找到那個人。

Like, that's, that's what you deserve.

就像，那是，那是你應得的。

You deserve that, and, and you do, you really do.

你應得的，而且，你確實是，你真的是。

Thank you, Conan.

謝謝你，柯南

I think I deserve it too.

我覺得我也是活該。

You do.

是的

So, so I think that's why, and I think what's gonna,

所以，所以我認為這就是為什麼，我認為什麼是會。

what helps you so much is you really do know what you want

是什麼幫助你這麼多 是你真的知道你想要什麼。

and you're a very confident, attractive person.

你是一個非常自信，有吸引力的人。

So that's just going to happen.

所以，這只是會發生。

It's just a question of when.

只是時間的問題。

It's going to happen when you're not thinking about it.

在你不經意間就會發生。

You know, you're going to be at a CVS

你知道，你要在CVS的時候

and you're going to bump into somebody.

你會撞到別人。

That's when it's, that's when it happens.

那是當它的，那是當它發生。

That's what people say.

這就是人們所說的。

They say, when you're not thinking about it,

他們說，當你不經意間。

you're not looking for it, that's when it happens

人算不如天算，天算不如人算

but I'm always thinking about it and looking for it.

但我總是在想它，尋找它。

(laughing)

（笑）