What do you want from your life?

你想從你的生活中得到什麼？

Ask that question.

問這個問題。

And once you know the answer, write it down.

而一旦你知道了答案，就把它寫下來。

Write down exactly what you want for your life, your life, vision, your life purpose.

準確地寫下你想要的生活，你的人生，願景，你的人生目標。

And once you have that, go over it every single day, every single day.

一旦你有了這些，每天都要去看，每天都要去看。

Create pictures in your mind.

在你的腦海中創造圖片。

Write down how you were going to get that life.

寫下你要如何獲得這種生活。

What do you have to do to claim that life?

你要怎麼做才能認領這條生命？

Who do you have to become to claim that life?

你要成為誰，才能要求這種生活？

You see, most people when asked that question, can't answer it.

你看，大多數人被問到這個問題時，都答不上來。

Most people would ask, What do you want from life?

大多數人會問，你想從生活中得到什麼？

Cannot answer the question.

不能回答這個問題。

They don't know what they want for their own life.

他們不知道自己想要的生活是什麼。

They're just wandering around here aimlessly.

他們只是在這裡漫無目的地遊蕩。

Most people don't even know what they really want for their own life.

大多數人甚至不知道自己真正想要的生活是什麼。

And guess what?

你猜怎麼著？

People who don't know where they're going to end up, end up some place they don't want to be.

不知道自己最後會去哪裡的人，最後都會去一些自己不想去的地方。

That does not have to be you.

那不一定是你。

First key is to get quiet, get into space alone and ask yourself, Who am I?

首先關鍵是要安靜下來，獨自進入空間，問自己，我是誰？

What do I really want for my life?

我這輩子到底想要什麼？

What do I need to do to live my best life.

我需要做什麼才能過上最好的生活。

What is my purpose?

我的目的是什麼？

Why must I do this?

為什麼我一定要這樣做？

What example do I want to set toe everyone around me?

我想給身邊的人樹立什麼榜樣？

Especially those I love those close to me.

尤其是那些我愛的那些親近的人。

What legacy do I want to leave?

我想留下什麼遺產？

Once you have that clarity and clear purpose you can get toe work making everyday your best day growing and evolving every day.

一旦你有了這種清晰和明確的目的，你就可以去工作，讓每天都成為你最好的一天，每天都在成長和發展。

Setting the example of a great life every day loving the life you are living every day claim that life today.

樹立榜樣，每天都在熱愛自己的生活，每天都在索取今天的生活。

Don't put it off any longer.

不要再拖了。

You deserve this.

這是你應得的。

Who are you?

你是誰？

Have you really been living the life you wanna live?

你真的過上了你想過的生活嗎？

Or are you living the life others expect of you?

還是說你過的是別人期待的生活？

Have you settled for something you don't really want?

你是否為一些你並不真正想要的東西而安定下來？

Just so you can fit into this world Because it was easy.

只是為了讓你能融入這個世界，因為這很容易。

Do you change who you really are to fit in with others?

你會為了適應別人而改變自己的真實身份嗎？

I'm here to tell you that you deserve better.

我是來告訴你，你應該得到更好的。

You deserve to live a life as yourself to speak and live your truth.

你理應以自己的身份生活，說出和活出自己的真實。

To live your fullest potential.

要充分發揮自己的潛能。

Not only do you deserve it, but you owe it to the future generations to set that example you owe it to this world to inspire others to follow their dream life to live their fullest, tightest expression of themselves.

你不僅配得上，而且你有責任為後代樹立這樣的榜樣，你有責任為這個世界激勵他人追尋夢想的生活，活出最完整、最緊密的自我表達。

You could decide to conform.

你可以決定遵守。

You could decide to fit in.

你可以決定去適應。

That's certainly easier.

那當然更容易。

Certainly more comfortable.

當然更舒適。

But you can also decide to live your best life while you are alive.

但你也可以決定在你活著的時候過上最好的生活。

Way Don't get long on this earth in these bodies.

方式不要在這個地球上得到長在這些身體。

Why not make the most of it before we go out?

為什麼不在出門前好好利用呢？

Why not leave the lasting impression on our family, our loved ones and future generations?

為什麼不給我們的家庭、親人和後代留下深刻的印象呢？

Why not set the example, Theo Example of happiness, the example of a fully lived life, the example of love, peace and true joy that all come from being free of opinions and just going for what you want in life.

為什麼不以身作則呢，西奧榜樣的幸福，榜樣的幸福，榜樣的幸福是一個完整的生活，榜樣的幸福是愛、和平和真正的快樂，而這一切都來自於沒有意見，只是去追求自己想要的生活。

Live big.

大膽地活。

You deserve it.

你應該得到它。

Live brave.

勇敢地活著。

Others accounting on it.

其他人對其進行核算。

Live happy, lives free.

快樂的生活，自由的生命。

That's your true nature.

這就是你的真性情。

Yeah, but just these three things will carry you if you let them first and foremost knowing who you are, knowing who you are being able to answer this question, Who am I and what do I want?

是的，但就這三件事會帶著你，如果你讓它們首先知道你是誰，知道你是誰能夠回答這個問題，我是誰，我想要什麼？

Understanding that because I am connected to the source off all that is all that is possible is possible for me, that's who I am and what do I want?

明白了因為我與源頭關所有的一切都有可能是我的可能，這就是我的身份，我想要什麼？

I don't want to just be successful in the world.

我不想只在這個世界上成功。

I don't want to just make a mark or have a legacy.

我不想只是做個記號，也不想有遺產。

The answer to that question for me is I want to fulfill the highest, truest expression off myself as a human being.

對我來說，這個問題的答案是，我想實現最高的，最真實的表達自己作為一個人。

I want to fulfill the promise that the creator dreamed when he dreamed of cells that made up me what I want.

我想實現創世主夢見細胞時的承諾，組成我想要的東西。

You must have some kind of vision for your life.

你一定對自己的人生有某種願景。

Even if you don't know the plan, you have to have a direction in which you choose to go.

即使你不知道計劃，也要有一個自己選擇的方向。

I never was the kind of woman who like to get in a car and just go for a ride.

我從來不是那種喜歡上車就去兜風的女人。

I had a boyfriend would say, Let's just go for a ride.

我有個男朋友會說，我們就去兜風吧。

I want to know where are we going?

我想知道我們要去哪裡？

Do we have a destination?

我們有目的地嗎？

Is there a plan or we just riding?

是有計劃還是我們只是騎馬？

What I've learned is that took great metaphor for life.

我所瞭解到的是，花了很大的生命隱喻。

You want to be in the driver's seat of your own life because if you're not, life will drive you.

你想成為你自己生活的駕駛座，因為如果你不這樣做，生活會驅使你。

Number two you must find a way to serve Martin Luther King said that not everybody can be famous, but everybody can be great because greatness is determined by service.

第二條你必須想辦法服務馬丁-路德-金說過，不是每個人都能成名，但每個人都能成為偉大的人，因為偉大是由服務決定的。

Now we live in a world where everybody wants to be famous and where we admire people for just being famous.

現在我們生活在一個人人都想出名的世界裡，我們羨慕別人只是出名。

We think being known brings us value.

我們認為被人熟知能給我們帶來價值。

The truth is, all of that will fade in time.

事實上，這些都會隨著時間的推移而逐漸消失。

The real truth is that service and significance service and the significant that you bring to your service is that which is lasting.

真正的事實是，服務和意義服務，你帶來的意義才是持久的。

And if you look at all the most successful people in the world, whether they know it or not, they have that paradigm of service.

如果你看看世界上所有最成功的人，不管他們是否知道，他們都有這種服務範式。

For many years, I was really just happy to be on TV and people would stop and say, Oh, you on TV?

很多年來，我真的只是很高興能上電視，人們會停下來說，哦，你上電視了？

Yeah, I'm on TV.

是的，我在電視上。

I like being on TV.

我喜歡上電視

It's a nice job and it was about the time that I received my honorary doctorate from Spelman around 1993 that I went back and I took a long look at what it was I was doing on on TV and made a decision that I was no longer going to just be on TV.

這是一份不錯的工作，大約是在1993年左右，我從斯佩爾曼獲得榮譽博士學位的時候，我回去仔細看了看我在電視上做的事情，做了一個決定，我不再只是在電視上做。

But I was going to use TV as a platform as a force for good and not be used by TV.

但我打算把電視這個平臺作為一種力量，不被電視利用。

And I will tell you my decision to make that significant change in the way I operated on television using television as a service changed my career exponentially service using whatever it is, you produce your product as a way of giving back to the world.

我會告訴你我的決定，讓我在電視上的經營方式發生了重大的變化，使用電視作為服務，改變了我的職業生涯指數服務使用什麼，你生產你的產品，作為一種回饋世界的方式。

When you shift the paradigm of whatever it is you choose to do to service and you bring significance to that success will, I promise you follow you service and significance equals success.

當你把你選擇做的任何事情的模式轉移到服務上，你把意義帶到成功會，我保證你跟著你服務，意義等於成功。

That's number two number three.

那是二號三號。

It's so simple, but so hard to do always do the right thing.

很簡單，但要做到永遠做正確的事卻很難。

Always be excellent.

永遠是優秀的。

People notice.

人們注意到。

Think of how you notice you go to Taco Bell.

想想你是如何注意到你去塔克鐘的。

Somebody gives you extra napkin and some sauce, you notice you wanna go back to that person.

有人給了你額外的餐巾紙和一些醬料，你會發現你想回到那個人身邊。

Because even at Taco Bell, excellence shows itself be excellent.

因為即使是在塔可鍾，卓越也會表現得很出色。

Let excellence be your brand.

讓卓越成為你的品牌。

So doing the right thing even when nobody knows you're doing the right thing will always bring the right thing to you.

所以，做正確的事，即使沒有人知道你在做正確的事，也總會給你帶來正確的事。

I promise you that.

我向你保證

Why?

為什麼？

Because the third Law of Motion is always at work For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction that is so true in all of our lives.

因為運動第三定律總是在起作用 每一個動作，都有一個相等和相反的反應，在我們的生活中都是如此。

Yeah, right.

是的，沒錯。