Somebody needs your story.

有人需要你的故事。

My mom told me this and I'll never forget.

我媽媽告訴我的，我永遠不會忘記。

He said, Trent, you're assigned to reach people.

他說，特倫特，你的任務是接觸人。

I don't know how many, but you're assigned to reach people that nobody else can reach with you, she said.

我不知道有多少，但你被分配去接觸別人無法與你接觸的人，她說。

Everybody has that.

每個人都有這樣的情況。

And the more you leave your gift wrapped, those people that need your message that need your encouragement.

而你留下的禮物包裝越多，那些需要你資訊的人，需要你的鼓勵。

Whatever it is that need your talent, they're never gonna get it.

不管是什麼東西需要你的天賦，他們都不會得到。

The moment you tell yourself that you can't do something, that's the moment when you won't do it.

當你告訴自己不能做某件事的時候，就是你不會做的時候。

That's what drives me.

這就是我的動力。

It's the things people told me I couldn't become.

是人們告訴我不能成為的東西。

It's the negative circumstances that I come from.

這是我的負面環境來的。

I don't let that limit limit me at all.

我根本不會讓這種限制限制我。

That's my catalyst, because I look at it like Okay, why not me?

這是我的催化劑，因為我看它像 好吧，為什麼不是我？

I've already overcome this.

我已經克服了這個問題。

Why can't I gonna start a company?

為什麼我不能開公司？

Why can't I build something that's meaningful?

為什麼我不能建立有意義的東西？

Why can't I create this new paradigm shift in the way we look at the world as big giant superhero training facility?

為什麼我不能創造這種新的模式轉變，我們看待世界的方式是大的巨型超級英雄訓練設施？

Because if I looked at it the other way and started to take you know, three count of.

因為如果我換個角度看問題，並開始採取你知道的，三個計數的。

Okay, well, I can't do this because of where I come from.

好吧，我不能這樣做，因為我來自哪裡。

I can't do this because of how.

我不能這樣做，因為怎麼。

Look, I can't do this.

你看，我不能這樣做。

I wouldn't start anything.

我不會開始任何事情。

Everybody will wake up each day doing subtraction.

大家每天醒來都會做減法。

I look at my life as addition.

我把我的生活看成是加法。

You know, I wake up and say, What can I do today?

你知道，我醒來後會說，我今天能做什麼？

Toe?

趾頭？

Add to my skill set.

增加我的技能。

What can I do today to add to someone else's joy?

今天我可以做什麼來增加別人的快樂？

What can I do today to serve someone else?

我今天能做什麼來服務別人？

So when you keep a mindset of service, your problems in that darkness become smaller because you're not gonna focus on your own.

所以當你保持一種服務的心態，你在那個黑暗中的問題就會變小，因為你不會關注自己的問題。

Insecurity is your own problems.

不安全感是你自己的問題。

You're gonna figure out a way to amplify someone else's experience.

你要想辦法放大別人的經驗。

So I go through life looking, you know, looking at people as as an opportunity for me to serve, because while I'm waiting on my blessing, I could be a blessing.

所以，我在生活中尋找，你知道，看人 作為一個機會，讓我服務， 因為當我在等待我的祝福， 我可以成為一個祝福。

And that's how I kind of balance that when you focus solely on your darkness, everything becomes about you.

這就是我如何平衡，當你只專注於你的黑暗時，一切都變成了關於你的。

You become selfish and you could be driven to the point where it becomes toxic.

你變得自私，你可能會被逼到成為毒瘤的地步。

And that's why you see some people implode, wants to get to where they're going because they look up and no one around them really wants them there for me.

這就是為什麼你看到有些人內訌，想去哪裡，因為他們抬頭一看，周圍沒有人真的希望他們在那裡我。

I have this mentality that everyone around me is fed, that no one is starving, that I don't have to worry about people being villainous or hungry and trying to take for me.

我有這樣的心態，我身邊的人都吃飽了，沒有人餓肚子，我不用擔心別人小人或餓肚子，想替我拿。

So the way I feed is through time, through joyfulness, through good energy, because sometimes all you need to do is tell the person that they matter and show up.

所以我餵養的方式是通過時間，通過快樂，通過好的能量，因為有時候你需要做的就是告訴對方，他們很重要，然後出現。

That's the greatest gift.

這就是最大的禮物。

Just acknowledge people in the world that's so busy and so hurried to slow down and be present, and to acknowledge a person's existence is to me how you balance out the darkness with the light when you're driven way.

只要承認人在這個忙忙碌碌、匆匆忙忙的世界裡，放慢腳步，承認一個人的存在，對我來說，就是當你被逼得走投無路的時候，如何平衡黑暗與光明。

Read a bunch of books nowadays, as as humans, we way want to find out how to be someone else.

現在讀了一堆書，作為人類，我們方式想找出如何成為別人。

What we don't do is we don't go inside so literally turn yourself inside out, read the book that says, like we're writing a book every day of our lives, but we never read that book.

我們沒有做的是我們沒有去做，所以從字面上把自己的內心翻出來，看那本書說，就像我們每天都在寫一本書，但是我們從來沒有看過那本書。

So what?

那又怎樣？

Our challenge, this young man or young women to do is you have to look inside of yourself to see what you really want.

我們的挑戰，這個年輕人或者年輕女性要做的就是你要看清楚自己的內心，看清楚自己真正想要的是什麼。

What are you passionate about?

你對什麼感興趣？

We use these words and these little phrases off only the strong survive and all this other crap They're all just fucking words.

我們用這些詞和這些小短語只有強者才能生存，還有其他的廢話，他們都只是他媽的詞。

E Get so tired of hearing people just talking like right now someone may think God is just talking.

E聽得太累了，就像現在有人可能認為上帝只是在說話。

You don't know me.

你不瞭解我

So when I speak, I speak from Pasha.

所以，當我說話時，我從帕夏說起。

I speak from experience.

我的經驗之談。

I speak from suffering.

我從痛苦中說話。

I have to tell this young man and woman that the Onley way I believe this is this my experience in life.

我要告訴這個年輕人和女人，安利方式我相信這是我的人生經驗。

The only way you're ever going to get to the other side of this journey is you have got to suffer, to grow, to grow.

你要想到達這個旅程的彼岸，唯一的辦法就是你必須要吃苦，要成長，要壯大。

You must suffer and some people get it.

你一定要吃苦，有些人就會明白。

And some people won't.

而有些人不會。

But they have to see what their journey years to start their journey.

但他們要看清自己的旅程年限，才能開始自己的旅程。

Several people live to be 100 years old and they have great lives and they have great kids.

有幾個人活到了100歲，他們的生活很好，他們的孩子也很好。

Their kids go to college and also our stuff.

他們的孩子上大學，也是我們的東西。

But somewhere in their life, there was a point where they had a decision to make.

但在他們生命中的某個時刻，他們要做出一個決定。

They can go left or right on this path left was the easy route, right?

他們可以在這條路上向左或向右走 左邊是簡單的路線，對嗎？

Was the hard route.

是艱難的路線。

Ah, lot of people take the easy route and they had a good life that way.

啊，很多人走的是簡單的路線，他們這樣的生活很好。

But the better life was going to the right side.

但更好的生活是向右走。

And you may have 20 years of pain and suffering to get past it.

而你可能有20年的痛苦和折磨才能過去。

But a lot of us died never truly starting our journey.

但我們很多人死了都沒有真正開始我們的旅程。

And I would tell this young person you've got to start your journey.

我想告訴這個年輕人，你得開始你的旅程。

It may suck, but it will.

可能會很爛，但會的。

It will come out the other side.

它會從另一邊出來。

People look at success in many different ways.

人們看待成功的方式多種多樣。

You know, success is to be healthy.

你知道，成功就是要健康。

Success is to be a good father.

成功就是要做一個好父親。

Have ah, good family.

有啊，好的家庭。

Uh, you know, it can be in many different ways.

呃，你知道，它可以在許多不同的方式。

Life is not about getting to the top of the mountain.

人生不是為了登上山頂。

Life isn't the start of a new life.

生活不是新生活的開始。

A new day, new month, a new year, a new decade.

新的一天，新的一個月，新的一年，新的十年。

These are all moments when life stops.

這些都是生命停止的時刻。

Life happens when you get out of bad life.

當你擺脫糟糕的生活時，生活就會發生。

Is brushing your teeth, washing your body walking out of the door each day Life is to journey off every day.

刷牙、洗身是每天走出家門嗎 生命是每天都要出發的旅程。

Every day is life where time is present Life is living each and every day and embracing the moment.

每一天都是生活，時間就在這裡 生活就是過好每一天，擁抱當下。

Life is taking time, having time owning time.

生活是需要時間，擁有時間擁有時間。

Life is enjoying time.

生活就是享受時間。

Life is all the little moments that join the dots that make you whole.

生活就是那些點點滴滴的連接，讓你變得完整。

And when those moments connect, life happens.

當這些時刻聯繫在一起，生活就會發生。

You know, if I ever feel like in any moment life is not going the way that I think it should be going, it's because I'm resisting what ISS you know.

你知道，如果我覺得在任何時刻，生活沒有按照我認為的方式進行，那是因為我在抵制ISS，你知道的。

If someone didn't turn in their work on time, and I'm just like, you know, getting that way or something didn't come out right or the delivery doesn't come or the technology breaks again, we could list anything in that slot, right?

如果有人沒有按時交工，我就像，你知道，得到了這樣的結果，或者有的東西沒有交對，或者快遞沒有來，或者技術又壞了，我們可以在這個槽裡列出任何東西，對吧？

It's me arguing with reality.

這是我在和現實爭論。

I'm making myself miserable in that moment because I'm choosing toe argue with what is.

我在那一刻讓自己變得很痛苦，因為我選擇了趾高氣揚地爭論什麼。

That's always a losing proposition.

這總是一個失敗的命題。

So the more awareness I could bring to that and go like, Is this really how you wanna live your life in this moment, Marie, Because every single moment, as you know, set you up for the next moment and you string these moments together and guess what?

所以，我越是能意識到這一點，就會想，這真的是你此刻想要的生活方式嗎，瑪麗，因為每一個時刻，你知道，都在為下一個時刻做準備，你把這些時刻串聯起來，你猜怎麼著？

You have your life until we get to that incredible deathbed We never know when that's coming, so every single moment is an opportunity for us to check ourselves before we wreck ourselves.

你有你的生活，直到我們到達那個不可思議的死亡之床 我們永遠不知道什麼時候會來，所以每一個時刻都是我們檢查自己的機會，在我們毀掉自己之前。

And so I just try and play the game.

所以我只是試著玩遊戲。

If I'm miserable, if I'm upset, if I'm angry, if I'm cranky, it is my responsibility because it's based on what I'm thinking or believing in that moment.

如果我很痛苦，如果我很不高興，如果我很生氣，如果我很暴躁，這是我的責任，因為它是基於我在那一刻的想法或信念。

It's not the outside world causing me to feel this.

不是外界讓我有這種感覺。

It's what I'm doing up here that's making me have that reaction.

是我在這裡做的事情讓我有這種反應。

And if I'm the problem, I am also the solution.

如果我是問題，我也是解決方案。

I'm real with myself and I'm honest like we're humans.

我對自己很真實，我像我們人類一樣誠實。

E.

E.

I mean, everybody isn't on all the time.

我的意思是，每個人都不是在所有的時間。

You know we all have.

你知道我們都有。

Our struggles are silent battles.

我們的奮鬥是無聲的戰鬥。

I like to call them, and instead of ignoring the silent battles, I let him out.

我喜歡叫他們，與其無視無聲的戰鬥，不如讓他出來。

But yes, I am a person that will tell you, make the world respect your greatness.

但是是的，我是一個會告訴你，讓世界尊重你的偉大的人。

I'm very firm on that.

我非常堅定地認為。

I'm a person that believes in myself.

我是一個相信自己的人。

I'm a person that once you because I believe that's contagious, be transparent, like in a real way, because that creates connection.

我是一個人，一旦你，因為我相信那是有感染力的，是透明的，像一個真實的方式，因為這創造了連接。

Now it's like I can relate to that person, you know, growing up in the church.

現在，它就像我可以涉及到的人， 你知道，成長在教會。

I'm gonna be real with you, Tom.

我跟你說實話，湯姆。

Like I would watch pastors and preachers on, I would be like, I could never be done because it was always perfection was like I could never be them.

就像我看牧師和傳道人上，我會喜歡，我永遠無法完成，因為它總是完美的是像我永遠無法成為他們。

So I just chose a different lifestyle.

所以我只是選擇了一種不同的生活方式。

But now, when I see people like, say, you know what I struggle with this I struggle with addiction.

但現在，當我看到人們喜歡，說，你知道什麼我掙扎這個我掙扎上癮。

Doesn't mean you're not awesome because you have addictions.

並不意味著你不厲害，因為你有毒癮。

Everybody has addictions.

每個人都有癮。

Everybody has battles.

每個人都有戰鬥。

Some people just hot.

有些人只是熱。

There is better.

還有更好的。

So I relate more to that, because now it becomes attainable.

所以我更能體會到這一點，因為現在它變得可以實現了。

Now you become relatable to me and I could be like, wow, like I can still go through.

現在，你變得可親我，我可以像，哇，像我還可以通過。

This is nothing wrong with me.

這對我來說沒什麼不好。

I'm a human.

我是一個人。

I'm gonna have my insecurities, my flaws, and I can actually grow from it.

我會有我的不安全感，我的缺點，其實我可以從中成長。

So I think we need more examples of the world of that.

所以我覺得我們需要更多的例子來說明這個世界的情況。

And that's what I just try to give people a much as I can.

而這也是我只想給人們一個儘可能多的機會。

This is gonna be my life.

這將是我的生活。

This'd is I'm gonna be obsessed, completely obsessed with everything that concerns getting better.

這是我要去迷戀，完全迷戀一切關注變得更好。

Like, there's nothing that you know if if, like if someone invites me toe a party or a drink out late in the next 16 weeks.

就像，沒有什麼，你知道，如果 如果，如果有人邀請我去參加一個聚會或喝酒 晚在未來16周。

Do you think you're gonna go out?

你覺得你會出去嗎？

Oh, hell, no.

哦，地獄，沒有。

I'm the one that has to do the work.

我才是那個必須要做的工作。

I'm the one that has to eat the food.

我才是那個要吃東西的人。

I'm the one that has to, like, dual these things like, Yeah, you can have the best cuts in the world, but that made us may just may make your champion.

我是一個有，喜歡，雙這些東西，如，是的，你可以有世界上最好的削減，但這使我們可能只是可能使你的冠軍。

You have to work for yourself.

你必須為自己工作。

This is your opportunity to be better to constantly look for something mawr always looking to be dynamic in your decision, constantly looking up, looking beyond what's right in front of you at this very minute.

這是你更好的機會，要不斷地尋找一些東西mawr總是在你的決定中尋找動態，不斷地向上看，超越你眼前的這一分鐘。

Tomorrow is your opportunity to change people out there that are going through fear for a moment.

明天是你改變外面那些正在經歷恐懼的人的機會。

It's kind of like this.

這有點像這樣。

You will never step into the ring.

你永遠也不會踏上擂臺。

If you're already telling yourself that you're gonna lose before the fighting, you'll never do that.

如果你在戰鬥之前就已經告訴自己，你會輸，你就永遠不會這麼做。

Why would you write?

你為什麼要寫？

So tell yourself you're gonna win even if you get knocked down.

所以告訴自己，即使被打倒了也會贏。

Guess what?

你猜怎麼著？

You never knocked out in life until you actually tap out to your last day.

在你真正拍出最後一天之前，你永遠不會被淘汰。

So figure out that leverage point with your fear.

所以要想好那個槓桿點與你的恐懼。

What's gonna help you walk through the door and then you have to just give it to the world.

有什麼能幫你走過這道門，然後你就得把它交給世界。

I never knew speaking was my gift until I actually went out there and failed.

我從來不知道演講是我的天賦，直到我真的出去失敗了。

Actually went out there and embarrass myself, and I realized, like, Wow, this is what I was created to do.

其實走出去，讓自己難堪，我意識到，就像，哇，這是我被創造出來要做的事。

And I knew that because e like to put it like this.

我知道，因為我喜歡這樣說。

I hope they get it.

我希望他們得到它。

That's watching this.

這是看這個。

But I've never had so much like peace in the midst of like fear never had so much confidence in the midst of like my weakness in that moment.

但我從來沒有在像恐懼中得到過這麼多的像平靜從來沒有在像我的軟弱中得到過這麼多的自信在那一刻。

You have direction, you write the rules, step up to your authority and take it.

你有方向，你寫規則，站到你的權限上，接受它。

Take the opportunity.

趁著這個機會。