Um, this is Ronnie, as you know.

嗯，這是羅尼，你知道的。

And you know what?

你知道嗎？

I've bean thinking a lot about the lust, a couple of videos that I've made, and I just really, really I'm just so sorry that I've never thought you guys had to apologize.

我豆豆想了很多關於情慾的事情，我做的幾個視頻，我只是真的，真的很抱歉，我從來沒有想過你們要道歉。

So here's my apology video.

所以這是我的道歉視頻。

Do you need to learn how to apologize to someone?

你需要學習如何向別人道歉嗎？

Let's do it.

我們開始吧

First of all, you need to figure out what are you apologizing for now?

首先，你要搞清楚你現在在為什麼道歉？

What does this mean?

這意味著什麼？

Mm.

嗯。

There's about three different reasons why you need to apologize.

你需要道歉的原因大概有三種。

One.

一。

You did something wrong.

你做錯了什麼。

Okay?

好嗎？

Or you do something bad.

或者你做了什麼壞事。

Let's say that you see a kangaroo on the street and you just take out your gun and shoot it.

比方說，你在街上看到一隻袋鼠，你就拿出槍來射殺它。

That's bad.

這是很糟糕的。

Okay.

好吧，我知道了

No matter how arrogant the kangaroo might seem to you, you just cannot kill them as much as you want to.

不管袋鼠在你看來有多囂張，你就是想殺也殺不死它們。

So what you're gonna do is you're going to admit that you were wrong.

所以你要做的就是承認你錯了。

Are you going to admit that you did something bad and you're going to say I am so, so sorry that I killed your kangaroo?

你要承認你做了壞事，你要說我非常非常抱歉，我殺了你的袋鼠？

Now, the trick about English is the more words that you say the more formal or serious.

現在，英語的訣竅是，你說的詞越多越正式或越嚴肅。

You seem so you can even their win another.

你似乎所以你可以甚至他們贏得另一個。

So here, if you'd like, you could say I am so, so, so sorry.

所以，在這裡，如果你願意，你可以說我很，很，很抱歉。

Helps if you close your eyes a lot.

如果你經常閉上眼睛，就會有幫助。

Fake tears are always a good option that I killed your kangaroo.

假眼淚總是一個不錯的選擇，我殺了你的袋鼠。

You kangaroo is annoying, but don't say that.

你這袋鼠很討厭，但不要說。

Just ending and go off stage.

剛結束就下臺了。

Go.

去吧

Just That's all you need because you don't want to get into more trouble.

你只需要這樣，因為你不想惹上更多的麻煩。

Next one.

下一個

You made him steak, so this could be a work.

你給他做了牛排，所以這可能是一個工作。

Right?

對吧？

Okay, So you're You're working.

好吧，所以你是你的工作。

You're doing your best job.

你在做你最好的工作。

You're hungover.

你宿醉了

But you just made a mistake.

但你只是犯了一個錯誤。

And that's normal.

而這是正常的。

That's natural.

那是自然的。

Why?

為什麼？

Because we're humans.

因為我們是人類。

But maybe your boss or your co workers angry.

但也許你的老闆或你的同事生氣了。

So to smooth things over, which means make things good again.

所以要把事情捋順，也就是讓事情重新變得美好。

You're gonna apologize because you made a mistake and you're gonna say Wow.

你會道歉，因為你犯了一個錯誤，你會說哇。

Oh, that was stupid of me.

哦，那是我的愚蠢。

I'm sorry that I sent the wrong file to my boss.

對不起，我給老闆發錯了文件。

Okay, I just got confused.

好吧，我只是被弄糊塗了。

Blamed some caffeine.

責備一些咖啡因。

Blame it on the coronavirus because of the coronavirus is the greatest excuse right now.

因為冠狀病毒而怪罪於冠狀病毒，是現在最大的藉口。

Blame it on everything, but make sure you tell them what you're sorry for and apologize.

歸咎於一切，但一定要告訴他們你的抱歉和道歉。

I'm sorry that I sent the wrong file.

對不起，我發錯了文件。

Please accept my apology.

請接受我的道歉。

Now there's the thing about accepting an apology.

現在有關於接受道歉的事情。

People will say You need to say you're sorry.

人們會說，你得說對不起。

So you go.

所以你去。

Well, I'm sorry.

好吧，我很抱歉。

And the people know it's not good enough.

而老百姓也知道，這還不夠好。

What do you mean, it's not good enough?

什麼叫不夠好？

I just apologized.

我剛剛道歉了。

So it's better not to ask them if they accept your apology just straight up, apologize and then carry on stage again one more time.

所以最好不要問他們是否接受你的道歉就直接說，道歉後再進行一次上臺。

Now, this one, it's a very special one.

現在，這個，是一個非常特別的。

Mhm.

嗯

Somebody else is upset.

有人不高興了。

Maybe you said something.

也許你說了什麼。

Or maybe you did something that the other person didn't like.

或者你做了一些對方不喜歡的事情。

We use this a lot in our relationship, and I'm getting a feeling it has a lot to do with men.

我們在感情中經常用這個，我感覺這和男人有很大關係。

Okay, I have a feeling that women get upset about things because we're very emotional people.

好吧，我有一種感覺，女人會對一些事情感到不安，因為我們是非常情緒化的人。

Most of us, and you know your boyfriend or your husband or your partner.

我們大多數人，你知道你的男朋友或你的丈夫或你的伴侶。

Somebody else does something that upsets you.

別人做的事情讓你不爽。

So you tell them I'm upset.

所以你告訴他們我很不高興。

I want an apology, and that's normal.

我想要一個道歉，這很正常。

I do that, um, or you say something that you believe to be true, But other people don't think so.

我這樣做，嗯，或者你說的東西 你相信是真實的， 但其他人不這麼認為。

And then they get mad.

然後他們就會生氣。

Okay, so you can very easily say to the people, I'm sorry that you feel that way, but it's not my intention.

好吧，所以你可以很容易地對人們說，我很抱歉，你有這樣的感覺，但這不是我的意圖。

So you're not really apologizing for something you did?

所以你並不是真的在為自己做的事情道歉？

Because, honestly, you don't think you did anything wrong And the other person says, Oh, yeah, he apologized to me.

因為老實說，你不認為自己做錯了什麼 而另一個人說，哦，是的，他向我道歉了。

This actually has a cool meaning to It's called a backhanded apology.

這其實有一個很酷的意思，這叫反手道歉。

So that means that you are apologizing, but not really apologizing.

所以，這意味著你是在道歉，但不是真正的道歉。

But we're not gonna go into that.

但我們不會去討論這個問題。

I'm sorry.

我很抱歉

Works very well.

效果非常好。

Um, but make sure you know exactly what the person's angry at because you could get into more trouble.

嗯，但要確保你知道這個人到底在生什麼氣，因為你可能會遇到更多的麻煩。

Now, the last one is we use this so much in Canada is so crazy just to be polite.

現在，最後一個是我們在加拿大用這個太瘋狂了，只是為了禮貌。

Um, I've talked about this before.

嗯，我以前談過這個問題。

I'm going to the supermarket.

我要去超市。

I have my cart, remember, and somebody walks in front of me.

我有我的車，記得，有人走在我前面。

They say I'm sorry.

他們說我很抱歉。

Meanwhile, I kind of walked in front of them.

同時，我也算是走在了他們的前面。

So we say Sorry.

所以我們說對不起。

Sorry.

對不起，我不知道

Sorry.

對不起，我不知道

Sorry to be polite to people.

對不起，對人家客氣了。

Um, if I'm walking behind someone and they don't hold the door open for me, which happens, actually, people say Oh, I'm sorry.

嗯，如果我走在別人身後，他們沒有為我開門，這種情況，實際上，人們會說哦，對不起。

I say, Oh, that's cool.

我說，哦，這很酷。

I'll get the door myself.

我自己去開門。

That's fine.

那就好

Eso We use this a lot to be polite.

埃索我們經常用這個來表示禮貌。

We don't really mean.

我們不是真心的

Oh, my God.

哦，我的上帝。

I'm so story.

我是如此的故事。

I didn't know the door.

我不知道門。

We're just saying, like, excuse me, it's more.

我們只是說，像，對不起，它的更多。

Excuse me, Another way that we say this is my bad things is very common slang expression.

對不起，我們說的另一種方式是我的壞事是很常見的俚語表達。

My bad.

我的錯。

And I was like, Well, that's an apology.

我當時想，好吧，這就是道歉。

Now, that's cool.

現在，這很酷。

So, yeah, my apology video is make sure that you know what you're apologizing for.

所以，是的，我的道歉視頻是確保你知道你在為什麼道歉。

And don't apologize for things that you're not really sorry for.

而不要為那些你並不真正後悔的事情道歉。

Well, maybe if it's in a relationship, you got to do that.

好吧，也許如果它是在一個關係， 你必須這樣做。

Okay, So good luck out there.

好了，所以，祝你好運了。

I hope everyone has a fantastic time and sorry.

希望大家玩得開心，也對不起。