Name: 當你是一個連續的一夫一妻制的人時，如何隨便地約會 (How to casually date when you’re a serial monogamist)
Uploaded: 2020-11-13T20:06:02.000Z
Duration: 3 min 34 s

I've made videos about why I can't do one night stands.

我做了視頻，關於為什麼我不能做一夜情。

Now that I have acquired his dick, I have to acquire his heart.

既然我已經得到了他的小弟弟，我就必須得到他的心。

我認定自己是一個連續的一夫一妻制。

I promise I will only eat you every morning forever and the fulfillment I get out of relationships.

我保證我只會永遠每天早上吃你，以及我在感情中得到的滿足。

E was talking to a friend of mine who happens to be a dating coach about how I'm seriously ready to find my person.

E和我的一個朋友哈拉，他恰好是一個約會教練，他說我已經認真準備好找到我的人了。

I wanna build a life and a family with someone so you can imagine my shock and utter surprise.

我想和一個人建立一個生活和家庭 所以你可以想象我的震驚和徹底的驚喜。

When she suggested I start casually dating.

當她建議我開始隨便約會的時候。

我當時想，我為什麼要這麼做？

Did you not just watch the last 20 seconds of the video?

你不是剛看了視頻的最後20秒嗎？

Should I rewind E and on dating is a mirror.

我應該倒退E和約會上是一面鏡子。

Interacting with others in a romantic context reveals more about you.

在浪漫的情境中與他人互動，會透露出更多關於你的資訊。

What your needs are dating is important because it helps you hone in on exactly the type of partner that's compatible for you.

你的需求是什麼約會是很重要的，因為它可以幫助你準確地磨練出適合你的伴侶類型。

We'll also illuminating that information for the other person.

我們也會為對方點亮這些資訊。

So if you're looking to get married in the next five years.

所以如果你想在未來五年內結婚。

I think you should casually date now to really figure out the process of identifying the kind of partner that works for you.

我覺得你現在應該隨便約會一下，真正弄清楚確定適合自己的伴侶的過程。

And I was like, Okay, maybe, but I have a lot of questions.

我當時想，好吧，也許，但我有很多問題。

Okay, But what are like the rules of casual dating?

好吧，但休閒約會的規則是什麼樣子的？

Everyone makes up their own rules, but mine are one honesty be upfront about your expectations and intentions to always use protection and three respect.

每個人都會制定自己的規則，但我的規則是一誠實要直面你的期望和意圖，始終使用保護和三尊重。

Even casual relationships are still relationships.

即使是偶然的關係，也是關係。

So respect their feelings, their time, their boundaries.

所以要尊重他們的感受，他們的時間，他們的界限。

Yeah, but when I date two people at once, I just feel like I'm cheating Honesty.

是啊，但當我同時和兩個人約會時，我就覺得自己在欺騙誠實。

I mean, if they ask, you tell them what if I don't want to see me after that respect, If they stated a boundary, then be fine with it.

我的意思是，如果他們問，你告訴他們，如果我不想看到我後，那尊重，如果他們說的邊界，那麼是好的。

Well, then a conversation about exclusivity or moving towards a relationship could be had, but the whole point is to get to know a variety of people and really know them prior to committing.

好吧，那麼可以進行關於獨佔性或走向關係的談話，但整個要點是在承諾之前認識各種人並真正瞭解他們。

So I have been casually dating, and it's been illuminating.

所以我一直在隨便約會，而且很有啟發。

I've met so many different kinds of people who initially I may have never considered to be a potential partner because I'm realizing I approach everything very seriously, especially my love life.

我遇到了很多不同類型的人，最初我可能從來沒有考慮過他們是一個潛在的合作伙伴，因為我意識到我對待一切都很認真，特別是我的愛情生活。

Haven't why did you and your last girlfriend break up?

還沒有為什麼你和上一個女朋友分手了？

And meeting people under these lower expectations in my head but still having an end goal of finding a long term compatible partner.

而在我腦海中這些較低的期望值下認識的人，但仍有一個最終的目標，那就是找到一個長期相容的伴侶。

I really like it so far, and I will keep you updated on how it goes.

到目前為止，我真的很喜歡它，我會讓你瞭解它的最新情況。

Uh, now that I have acquired his dick, I have to acquire his heart.

既然我已經得到了他的老二，我就得得到他的心臟。

I'm Anaconda and thank you to privacy for sponsoring today's video privacy is actually a pretty genius idea.

我是蟒蛇，感謝隱私贊助今天的視頻隱私其實是一個很天才的想法。

The service is completely free, easy to set up and allows you to generate a brand new virtual card number for every purchase that you make online, which basically protects your actual card from hackers and identity thieves.

這項服務是完全免費的，設置簡單，而且你在網上的每一次消費都可以生成一個全新的虛擬卡號，這基本上可以保護你的實際卡不受黑客和身份竊賊的攻擊。

You could make many cards as you want and set a maximum spending limit on each of them.

你可以製作很多張你想要的卡片，併為每張卡片設置最高消費限額。

If I wanna go on ghost OnStar's dot com and pick up a sweet cats.

如果我想上鬼魂OnStar的點子網，拿起一隻可愛的貓咪。

I can even install a browser extension that makes the process even faster.

我甚至可以安裝一個瀏覽器擴展，讓這個過程更加快速。

Privacy has military grade encryption does not sell your information, and they make their money from merchants so they're completely free for you to use.

隱私有軍工級加密不出售你的資訊，他們的錢來自商家，所以你完全可以免費使用。

All you do is create an account link, a checking account or a debit card and bingo bango.

你要做的就是創建一個賬戶鏈接，一個支票賬戶或借記卡，然後bingo bango。

Go to privacy dot com slash anna Kana to sign up today and get $5 to spend on your first purchase.

前往privacy dot com slash anna Kana註冊，今天就可以在第一次購物時獲得5美元的消費。

 Maybe you get those sweet, sweet leggings from ghosts and stars wherever you want to spend that free $5 go to privacy dot com slash anna Kana to sign up now. 

也許你會得到那些來自鬼魂和星星的甜美的褲襪，無論你想在哪裡消費，免費的5美元去隱私點com斜槓安娜卡娜現在就註冊。