-No. -Er, sharenting? No.

-不 呃，親子關係？不是

Sharing about being a parent?

關於做父母的分享？

Those parents that share everything about their children online?

那些在網上分享孩子一切的父母？

Sharenting.

分享。

It's something that I do quite regularly to be honest.

說實話，這是我經常做的事情。

People come to this country, they haven't been back,

人們來到這個國家，他們還沒有回來。

they have kids and make their life here.

他們有孩子，讓他們的生活在這裡。

Some of my family back home have never seen them before.

我家鄉的一些家人從未見過他們。

If I didn't put them on social media they wouldn't see them.

如果我不把它們放在社交媒體上，他們就不會看到它們。

Sometimes I get really embarrassed

有時候我真的很尷尬

when my mum posts stuff on her Facebook page

當我媽媽在她的Facebook頁面上發佈的東西。

or her Instagram or whatever, very embarrassing.

或者她的Instagram什麼的，非常尷尬。

Very.

很好

-Very? -Mmm.

-非常？-嗯

They might not want their friends to see them that way.

他們可能不希望自己的朋友看到他們這樣。

They want to have some kind of control over their image.

他們希望對自己的形象有某種控制。

There's a famous case of Gwyneth Paltrow

有一個著名的案例，格溫妮絲-帕特洛。

posting a picture of her daughter Apple and it was a selfie.

發一張女兒蘋果的照片，而且是自拍。

There was nothing really, you would think, contentious about it,

你會覺得，這其實沒什麼好爭的。

yet her daughter complained about it.

但她的女兒卻對此抱怨不已。

Wow, I'd be in trouble.

哇，我就麻煩了。

They're posting about people who are not themselves

他們發帖的人不是他們自己

and that could impact us when we go out into the real world

這可能會影響我們當我們走到現實世界中去

and try to get a job, for example.

並試圖找到一份工作，例如。

There is an element of trust there between a parent and a child

父母和孩子之間有一種信任的因素。

I'm not comfortable with my face being shown

我不喜歡讓人看到我的臉。

without me knowing what actually I'm being perceived as on their platform.

而我卻不知道其實我在他們的平臺上被認為是什麼。

It may not seem like something which is particularly significant.

這可能看起來不是什麼特別重要的事情。

It may be very personally upsetting to individuals

這可能會讓個人非常不爽

what parents put up on the internet.

父母在互聯網上放的東西。

For people of our generation,

對於我們這一代人來說。

your online identity isn't so much seen as separate

你的在線身份並不那麼被視為獨立的。

from your real-life identity but just an extension of it.

從你現實生活中的身份，但只是它的延伸。

Social media profiles are identity projects.

社交媒體資料是身份工程。

I don't think that the government as well as parents

我覺得政府和家長都不應該這樣做

should take control over our online identities

應該控制我們的在線身份

because it is a part of who we are

因為它是我們的一部分

and we use our posts and stuff like that to express ourselves.

我們用我們的帖子之類的東西來表達自己。

-It draws attention to

-它提請人們注意

the kind of complex everyday work that those posts are doing

這些職位所做的複雜的日常工作。

which are not about showing off.

哪些不是為了炫耀。

Sharenting isn't new. Those of us that can remember cringy moments

分享並不新鮮。我們這些人，可以記住皺巴巴的時刻。

seeing kids' photo albums handed around to friends and family

看到孩子們的相冊被親朋好友傳來傳去。

know all too well that this is a fairly fundamental urge

清楚知道這是一種相當基本的衝動。

on behalf of parents to share their pride about their children.

代表家長分享他們對孩子的自豪感。

It's a way of showing that you're doing that parenting.

這是你做父母的一種表現方式。

What is new about sharenting in the digital context is of course that

數字語境下的共享化，新的地方當然在於

we are leaving a fairly extensive and lengthy digital stream

我們留下了一個相當廣泛和漫長的數字流。

of photos, comments, stories.

的照片、評論、故事。

We didn't want to invade her privacy, even though she's just a baby.

我們不想侵犯她的隱私，儘管她只是個孩子。

That's going to stay online forever.

這將永遠留在網上。

Any image you post now is going to be on the internet forever

你現在發佈的任何圖片都會永遠在互聯網上傳播

and then we don't know what's going to happen in the future

然後我們就不知道未來會發生什麼事了

with things coming up like deepfake

冒充

and you're just giving your kid's image away.

你只是給你的孩子的形象了。

Especially now with face-recognition software

尤其是現在有了人臉識別軟件

by posting facial images online

通過在網上發佈面部影像

you're helping them create a database.

你在幫助他們創建一個數據庫。

You don't know how these images that you've posted are going to be used.

你不知道你發的這些圖片要怎麼用。

Unfortunately we have paedophile groups who will literally

不幸的是，我們有戀童癖團體，他們會從字面上看。

sort of scan videos to take out single shots

排序掃描視頻取出單鏡頭

which seem to expose parts of a child's body or--

這似乎暴露了一個孩子的身體的部分或 -

And that's a horrifying thought

這是一個可怕的想法

so I think a lot of this is about education and changing social norms.

所以我覺得這其中有很多是關於教育和改變社會規範的。

One of the strategies that I use is

我使用的策略之一是

taking pictures of them when they're not actually facing the camera

在他們沒有面對鏡頭的時候給他們拍照。

so you can't see her face.

所以你不能看到她的臉。

These new digital tools enable us to look back on

這些新的數字工具使我們能夠回溯到

nice moments from our child's early days,

我們孩子早期的美好瞬間。

early years, development, etc.

幼年、發展等。

Funny little things that you write on there and then it's like,

有趣的小東西，你寫在那裡，然後它就像。

"Oh yeah that happened then, like a whole year ago."

"哦，是的，那時候發生的事，好像是一整年前的事了。"

It's pretty good to let all her friends know that

讓她所有的朋友都知道，這是很好的。

I did this, oh, I went to this school and like,

我做了這個，哦，我去這個學校，喜歡。

knowing that, oh like, I'm really happy.

知道，哦，喜歡，我真的很高興。

If sharenting is done in a responsible way

如果以負責任的方式進行分擔責任；

and it enables families to have conversations,

而且它能讓家庭進行對話。

for example with their kids as they get older

例如，隨著年齡的增長，他們與孩子

about what you want to have online, how you portray yourself,

關於你想在網上擁有什麼，如何塑造自己的形象。

then actually I think it can be a really important step

那麼實際上我認為它可以是一個非常重要的步驟。

towards keeping kids themselves safe

朝著保護孩子們自己的安全

as they become digitally enabled adults.

當他們成為具有數字能力的成年人時。