Yes, Here in my Arab community, it is expected for the parents to pay for the kids to pay for their car for their wedding, for their school, college education and even for their house.

是的，在我的阿拉伯社區裡，人們希望父母為孩子們出錢，為他們的婚禮出錢，為他們的學校、大學教育出錢，甚至為他們的房子出錢。

And in many off these cases, parents have to take loans.

而在很多情況下，父母不得不貸款。

It's just part off the culture.

這只是文化的一部分。

We love our kids.

我們愛我們的孩子。

I, too, could get a free car at a free house, but I had to turn it down because off dependence, scared of getting too dependent on parents free money.

我也是，可以在免費的房子裡得到一輛免費的車，但我不得不拒絕，因為關依賴，怕太依賴父母的免費錢。

My parents and everyone's parents here are so loving, well, meaning and generous, and I feel lucky to have them.

我的父母和這裡的每一個人的父母都是那麼的有愛，那麼的好，那麼的有意義，那麼的大方，我覺得有他們是幸運的。

But maybe the best gift they can give us is not a car or a house, but the gift off love and independence.

但也許他們能給我們最好的禮物不是汽車或房子，而是愛和獨立的禮物。