Successful in the eyes of the world, Yes, but also in every area that matters.

在世人眼中是成功的，是的，但在每個重要領域也是成功的。

Sure, he was wealthy.

當然，他很有錢。

He had all the achievements.

他有所有的成就。

But he also had things that money can never buy.

但他也有金錢永遠買不到的東西。

Freedom, passion for life, love, amazing relationships, a beautiful family life, a really sense of peace and genuine joy.

自由，對生活的熱情，愛情，驚人的人際關係，美滿的家庭生活，真正的平安感和真正的快樂。

Curious, I asked this man if he could share any secrets to a success.

我很好奇，就問這個人能否分享一下成功的祕訣。

He told me that he learned five priceless lessons from his father that will make anyone truly rich.

他告訴我，他從父親那裡學到了五條無價之寶，這五條經驗會讓任何人真正富有。

He said these five priceless lessons have the power to change any life.

他說，這五堂無價之寶的課，有能力改變任何人生。

And they are number one.

而他們是第一。

Work hard, but do not put money first number to give without expectation.

努力工作，但不要把錢放在第一位數，不求回報的付出。

Number three be present.

三號在場。

Number four, live with integrity.

第四，誠信生活。

Number five.

第五個。

Smile, laugh and do not take life too seriously.

微笑，大笑，不要把生活看得太重。

This list didn't seem like anything out of the ordinary.

這份名單看起來並沒有什麼特別的地方。

I told him How could these principles make anyone truly wretch?

我告訴他，這些原則怎麼能讓人真正成為可憐蟲呢？

Here's his response.

這是他的迴應。

Number one work hard but never put money first money doesn't make you wretch Passion, purpose and love make you rich.

第一條 努力工作，但永遠不要把錢放在第一位 錢不會讓你成為可憐蟲 熱情、目標和愛讓你變得富有。

If you have all the money in the world and you hate what you do.

如果你有世界上所有的錢，而你又討厭你的工作。

You're not rich if you have all the money in the world but don't have passion for life.

如果你有世界上所有的錢，但對生活沒有激情，你就不是有錢人。

You're not rich if you have all the money in the world but have no love or special relationships in your life, you're not rich.

如果你擁有世界上所有的錢，但在你的生活中沒有愛情或特殊關係，你就不是有錢人。

You cannot be rich with money alone.

光靠錢是發不了財的。

You might have a Ferrari, but that isn't going to make you feel better.

你可能有一輛法拉利，但這不會讓你感覺更好。

It's not going to give your life meaning for all those who say I'd rather cry in a Ferrari.

對於那些說我寧願在法拉利裡哭的人來說，這不會給你的人生帶來意義。

You only say that because you can't afford a Ferrari if you've stepped on everyone to get where you are, if everything you do is for money, if you've burned all your most valuable relationships in your pursuit of success, no amount of money will save the emptiness headed your way.

你之所以這麼說，只是因為你買不起法拉利，如果你踩著所有人的腳步走到現在，如果你做的一切都是為了錢，如果你在追求成功的過程中燒掉了所有最寶貴的人際關係，再多的錢也救不了你的空虛。

The only things that can make a man rich our passion, purpose and love.

唯有如此，才能讓一個男人富有我們的激情、目標和愛。

There's many other names for these things.

這些東西還有很多其他的名字。

Connection, meaning direction.

連接，意味著方向。

Call them whatever you like.

隨便你怎麼稱呼他們。

But they are the three most important factors in living a rich life, passion, purpose, love, he said.

但他說，這些是生活豐富的三個最重要的因素，激情、目標、愛。

Don't get me wrong.

別誤會我的意思

I have money on money is an amazing thing that could do so much good.

我有錢就有錢是一件很神奇的事情，可以做很多好事。

It can buy you a level of freedom, not total freedom, because that can only come from within.

它能給你買到一定程度的自由，而不是完全的自由，因為那隻能來自於內心。

But it can give you the freedom to follow your passion and your purpose, which is so important it can buy amazing things and help many people if you choose to do so.

但它可以讓你自由地追隨你的激情和你的目的，這是如此重要，它可以買到驚人的東西，並幫助許多人，如果你選擇這樣做。

There's nothing wrong with earning money, even large sums of wealth.

掙錢沒有錯，哪怕是大筆的財富。

But if that is your only or primary goal, just toe make money, it will leave you empty.

但如果這是你唯一或主要的目標，只是為了賺錢，那會讓你空虛。

Guaranteed money should never drive.

保證資金千萬不要開。

You do what you're passionate about and the money will come work hard every day doing something you love, something that makes you jump out of bed every morning, excited to begin the day.

你做你熱衷的事，錢就會來每天努力工作，做你喜歡的事，做讓你每天早上跳下床，興奮地開始一天的工作。

Something that has a bigger purpose for the world.

對世界有更大的意義的東西。

But never put that work before.

但以前從來沒有把這個工作。

Love connection on time to create your own best self.

愛的連接準時，創造最好的自己。

If you have passion and purpose for what you dio, there will be no resistance to consistent hard work.

如果你對自己dio的事情有激情和目標，就不會對持續的努力工作產生牴觸情緒。

You will thrive on working hard to achieve your goals because they will have meaning.

你會在努力實現目標的過程中茁壯成長，因為它們會有意義。

Find that meaning first on, the money will find you.

先找到這個意思上，錢就會找到你。

Number two.

二號

Give wherever you can, but never count What is old?

能給的地方就給，但千萬不要計較什麼是老？

What does this mean?

這意味著什麼？

I asked.

我問道。

He said My dad taught me to give but to give without expecting anything in return Most people give Onley because they want something in return.

他說我爸爸教我要付出，但要不求回報的付出 大多數人付出安利，是因為他們想要回報。

Their intentions aren't pure.

他們的意圖並不單純。

They give Onley because they want something back and they keep tabs You only this because I did this.

他們給安利是因為他們想要回報，他們一直在監視你，你只是因為我做了這個。

My father was genuinely generous even when he didn't have much he would give sometimes is money.

我的父親是真正的慷慨，即使在他沒有多少錢的時候，他有時也會給是錢。

But most importantly his time and his full presence.

但最重要的是他的時間和他的全部存在。

Although he never expected anything in return.

雖然他從來沒有期待過什麼回報。

Of course he was always paid back tenfold because that is how this universe operates.

當然，他總是十倍奉還，因為這個宇宙就是這樣運作的。

Its called karma.

這叫因果報應。

He gave love on he got it back with interest.

他付出的愛在他身上得到了利益的回報。

He gave his time and presence on.

他把自己的時間和存在上。

He was paid back with others.

他是用別人來償還的。

Time on interest.

利息的時間。

He gave money on money, came back naturally He didn't hold on tightly.

他給錢就給錢，回來自然就回來了，他沒有緊緊抓住。

He didn't hold back because others held back and as a result everything flowed back perfectly.

他沒有因為別人的退縮而退縮，結果一切都完美地流了回去。

He taught me to treat others how I would like to be treated on.

他教會了我如何對待別人，我願意如何對待上。

So now I give wherever I can in much the same way.

所以現在我在任何地方都會以同樣的方式給予。

I don't keep tabs, but my life is pretty abundant.

我不記賬，但我的生活很豐富。

So I guess I have given a lot number three be present.

所以我想我已經給了很多三號存在。

What does it mean to be present on?

什麼叫在場上？

How could this have any meaningful effect on your life?

這對你的生活有什麼意義呢？

I asked his answer.

我問他的答案。

Surprised me.

讓我很驚訝。

A Z said this was the one thing that made his father his hero on also, the one thing that he believed made his life so rich, he said.

阿Z說這是一件讓他的父親成為他的英雄上也，他認為讓他的生活如此豐富的一件事，他說。

I couldn't articulate it when I was younger, but my dad always had a special energy about every time he was around.

我小的時候也說不清楚，但我爸每次在身邊總是有一種特別的能量。

He made you feel special without ever really doing anything noticeable or out of the ordinary.

他讓你覺得自己很特別，卻沒有真正做過什麼引人注目的事，也沒有做過什麼出格的事。

When I was older, I read somewhere that the only thing any child ever once including adult Children is to be seen by their parents is for their parents.

當我長大後，我在某處讀到，任何一個孩子曾經包括成年的孩子，唯一被父母看到的是他們的父母。

Eyes toe light up when they enter the room.

當他們進入房間時，眼睛會亮起來。

Well, that was my dad.

嗯，那是我爸爸。

Whenever any of us entered the room, his eyes and his entire being would light up.

每當我們任何一個人進入房間，他的眼睛和整個人都會亮起來。

There's no amounts of money in the world that could buy that genuine love and presence, and no amount of money can buy the effect it has on someone throughout their life.

世界上沒有多少錢能買到那種真正的愛和存在，也沒有多少錢能買到它對一個人一生的影響。

Imagine if you gave this kind of presence to everyone you cared about.

想象一下，如果你把這種存在感給了你關心的每個人。

Imagine if you gave this kind of presence to everyone.

試想一下，如果你把這種存在感給了大家。

You came into contact with the kind of presence where they can see visually how you really feel about them kind of presence that makes everyone you come into contact with.

你接觸到的那種存在，他們可以直觀地看到你對他們的真實感受那種存在，讓你接觸到的每一個人。

Feel special, unique, important worthy.

覺得自己很特別，很獨特，很重要很有價值。

When you receive this, you are given a gift that enhances your life.

當你收到這個禮物時，你就會得到一份能提升你生活品質的禮物。

When you give this gift, the receiver feels it so deeply.

當你送出這份禮物的時候，接受者的感受是如此深刻。

Perhaps they aren't conscious enough to articulate it or understand it, even to return the favor.

也許他們沒有足夠的意識去表達，也沒有足夠的理解，甚至連回報都沒有。

But if you give it genuinely your life, your relationships, they will never be the same.

但如果你真心付出，你的生活，你的人際關係，將永遠不會改變。

Love will never leave you when you need it.

當你需要的時候，愛永遠不會離開你。

It will be there.

它將在那裡。

There's nothing mawr important than genuine presence and showing everyone you love.

沒有什麼比真誠的存在和向每個人展示你的愛更重要。

How much you care for them.

你有多關心他們。

Be present.

在場。

Treat others, especially those you love like they're the only person that exists in this world.

對待別人，尤其是你愛的人，就像他們是這個世界上唯一存在的人。

Treat them like they matter, not Onley that they matter, but, like they're special to you.

對待他們就像他們很重要，不是Onley說他們很重要，而是，就像他們對你很特別。

Make everyone feel special, unique, important.

讓每個人都覺得自己很特別，很獨特，很重要。

It builds the strongest bonds, the greatest friendships, the best relationships.

它建立了最牢固的紐帶，最偉大的友誼，最好的關係。

Number four live with integrity.

第四條 誠信生活。

My father always taught me to lead by example on toe.

父親總是教育我，要以身作則，腳踏實地。

Live with integrity, do the right thing by yourself and by others, live with integrity, knowing you have always done the right thing by other people.

誠信地活著，做對自己和別人的事，誠信地活著，知道自己一直在做對別人的事。

Those who put others down to get ahead won't stay ahead for long.

為了出人頭地而貶低別人的人，是不會長久的。

Do the right thing by others and they will do the right thing by you.

別人做正確的事，別人也會做正確的事。

When no one is watching live as if everyone is watching.

當沒有人看直播的時候，好像大家都在看。

Do the right thing.

做正確的事情。

Never do anything that you would not want done to yourself or anyone you love.

永遠不要做任何你不希望對自己或你愛的人做的事情。

Number five.

第五個。

Smile, laugh on.

笑，笑下去。

Do not take life too seriously.

不要把生活看得太重。

Lastly, my father taught me by his example to enjoy life as much as possible.

最後，父親以他的榜樣教育我，要儘可能地享受生活。

Smile, laugh, play.

笑，笑，玩。

Enjoy every day and every moment with those you love, don't hold onto negativity or resentment.

享受與你所愛的人在一起的每一天、每一刻，不要抱有負面情緒或怨恨。

Let it go and move back to joy.

讓它去吧，讓它回到快樂中去。

Who knows how short this life ISS You don't.

誰知道這輩子有多短，你不知道。

I don't.

我不知道

We're all chasing something, hoping it will make us smile.

我們都在追逐一些東西，希望它能讓我們微笑。

Make us happy.

讓我們高興。

Why not just be happy?

為什麼不開心呢？

The funny thing is, when you stop chasing on, start being more of those things come to you naturally, when your mind is clear, you make better decisions on better decisions lead to better results, results or no results.

有趣的是，當你不再追逐上，開始做更多的那些事情自然而然地來到你身邊，當你的頭腦是清晰的，你做出更好的決定上更好的決定導致更好的結果，結果或沒有結果。

Nothing is better than a life full of joy.

沒有什麼比充滿快樂的生活更好。

That should be the primary goal of every day.

這應該是每天的首要目標。

Filling it up with joy, Yeah.

充滿了快樂，是的。