Nobody sees that our grocery bill was insane.

沒有人看到，我們的雜貨賬單是瘋狂的。

Black tax can be summed up as a duty that the child has to the family.

黑稅可以概括為孩子對家庭的一種責任。

Most off the time we find that our families give up so much to ensure that we get the degree.

大多數時候我們會發現，我們的家人為了保證我們拿到學位，放棄了很多。

And once we get the job, it is payback time.

而一旦我們得到了工作，就是回報的時候了。

To me, the time is still foreign.

對我來說，時間還很陌生。

I don't think to me as an African man.

我不認為我是一個非洲人。

I agree with the weight, especially the text.

我同意這個重量，尤其是文字。

I would rather say family responsibility.

我寧願說是家庭責任。

Okay, we do grow up in communities that are far behind.

好吧，我們確實是在遠遠落後的社區里長大的。

Sometimes it's actually quite nice to start empowering people in our communities.

有時候，在我們的社區裡開始賦予人們權力，其實也挺好的。

If 123 people are giving you know through it means the greater community is gaining.

如果123人給你知道通過它意味著大社會的收益。

So in order for toe uplift our people, I'm happy toe really do what I can.

所以，為了讓我們的人民振奮起來，我很高興能真正地做一些力所能及的事情。

Black Tex has both negatives and positive.

黑德士有消極的一面，也有積極的一面。

The positive thing for me is ensuring that a nephew get the much needed education.

對我來說，積極的事情是確保侄子得到急需的教育。

But on the downside, it means that I personally have to make a lot off sacrifices.

但缺點是，這意味著我個人要做出很多犧牲。

So a lot of people do struggle with that, mainly because the obligation is engraved within us like deep mentally, it has definitely going to find.

所以很多人確實很苦惱，主要是義務刻在我們內心深處一樣，心理上，它肯定有去找。

I think it's still going too far for a number of people, mainly because off the inability to set boundaries.

我覺得這對不少人來說還是太過分了，主要是因為關無法設定界限。

At one point I had to pay for my younger sister's tuition fee.

有一次，我不得不為妹妹交學費。

E didn't look at it as something that I was forced to do.

E並沒有把它看成是我被迫做的事情。

I had to do it because I was not going to look at suffering in my presence.

我不得不這麼做，因為我不願意在我面前看苦頭。

While I can help.

雖然我可以幫助。

I love to be valued because off what I have done for myself and the others members off the community, I think that it's wealth.

我喜歡被重視，因為我為自己和社區其他成員所做的一切，我認為那是財富。

The thing is, if you're always coughing up money, you're not actually not going to be able to progress because it's a lifetime commitment.

問題是，如果你總是在掏錢，其實你並不是不能進步，因為這是一輩子的承諾。

Actually, I think that the budget off, how much you can afford, how much you can give them and how far you are willing to do it for.

其實，我覺得，預算關，你能承受多少，你能給他們多少，你願意做多遠。

I think so.

我想是的

But I think it's going to take some time and I think it's going to take us, which is the new generation coming up from like the 94 upwards to change it.

但是我覺得這需要一些時間，我覺得這需要我們，也就是新一代的從像94年往上走，來改變它。

It is definitely about breaking that cycle We don't want to burden our Children as well.

肯定是要打破這個循環，我們不想讓我們的孩子也有負擔。

We want to set them up for a great future.

我們要為他們建立一個美好的未來。

We want our kids to be the first generation that actually builds trust funds for their own kids.

我們希望我們的孩子是第一代真正為自己的孩子建立信託基金的人。