One.

一。

When I was 11 or 12 I had a crush on a girl and I told my friend she was like Anna, you're just trying to be interesting.

我11、12歲的時候，我喜歡上了一個女孩，我告訴我的朋友，她說："安娜，你只是想變得有趣。

So I have internalized that I'm just a straight girl trying to be interesting to buy.

所以我已經內定，我只是一個直女，想買有趣的東西。

Sexuality is a spectrum, and for the most part, I mean, my pie chart leans more towards being attracted to men.

性是一個譜系，在大多數情況下，我的意思是，我的餅圖更傾向於被男人吸引。

So it felt weird to say I was bisexual if I mostly felt attracted to men.

所以，如果我大部分時間覺得自己被男人吸引，說自己是雙性戀，感覺很奇怪。

And finally, I'd never been physical with the woman.

最後，我從來沒有和那個女人發生過肉體關係。

So how can you really affirm your bisexuality if you've never got down and dirty with a lady?

所以，如果你從來沒有和女士們上床，又怎麼能真正肯定你的雙性戀身份呢？

And then a few things happened?

然後發生了一些事情？

For one?

一個人？

I talked to some amazing queer women, like actually Perez and Gabby Done and Stevie Bobby, who basically said, If you're attracted to both sexes, you're bisexual.

我和一些了不起的同志女性聊過，比如其實佩雷斯和加比-多恩還有史蒂夫-鮑比，他們基本上都說，如果你被兩種性別吸引，你就是雙性戀。

Doesn't matter what your percentages are.

你的百分比是多少並不重要。

It doesn't matter if you've been with a girl.

你和女孩子在一起也無所謂。

If you like both you like both and then I was physically with the woman.

如果你兩個都喜歡你就兩個都喜歡，然後我就和那個女人身體。

Two women at the same time, ways dirt on my shoulder.

兩個女人在同一時間，方式汙垢在我的肩膀。

Just kidding.

開玩笑的

I love and respect those women very much.

我非常喜歡和尊重這些女人。

And finally I got drunk and I won an award at Buffer Festival.

最後我喝醉了，我在Buffer節上得了個獎。

And when I was allowed to engrave this award, I did this.

而當我被允許刻這個獎狀時，我就這樣做了。

And then I promptly sent it to my parents because I figured it's easier news to stomach for Asian parents if it's engraved on an award.

然後我馬上把它發給了我的父母，因為我想如果把它刻在獎狀上，亞洲父母更容易接受這個消息。

And I always thought I wasn't going to come out publicly because, for one, I don't wanna get to monetize on YouTube and two because I made this really embarrassing video years ago about how it was okay for me to kiss the same sex when I was in a relationship, because this is very grand and trying to be really fun.

我一直以為我不會公開出櫃，因為，第一，我不想在YouTube上賺錢，第二，因為幾年前我做了這個非常尷尬的視頻，關於我在戀愛時親吻同性是如何的好，因為這是非常宏大的，並試圖成為真正的樂趣。

But then I got drunk at the stream, is and won another award.

但後來我在溪邊喝醉了，是又得了一個獎。

Please, please, please vote.

請，請，請投票。

People need us more than ever.

人們比以往任何時候都更需要我們。

Marginalized groups need us more than ever.

邊緣化群體比以往任何時候都更需要我們。

I'm not only ah, woman of color, but I'm also a queer woman.

我不僅是啊，女人的顏色， 但我也是一個同志的女人。

So please get out to the polls and vote.

所以，請大家去投票，投票。

Thank you.

謝謝你了

Thank you very much.

非常感謝你。

So there you have it.

所以，你有它。

I can on Lee come out with my sexuality when I'm inebriated and winning in some capacity.

我可以在李上出我的性慾，當我醉酒並以某種身份獲勝。

It's very anti climactic.

這是非常反高潮的。

Anyway.

總之...

Here's what my parents had to say about me being by.

下面是我父母對我由的評價。

How do you feel about homosexuality?

你對同志有什麼看法？

Well, I'm not a participant, but none of my business.

好吧，我不是參與者，但不關我的事。

I'm open to it.

我願意接受

I don't care like you personally.

我不在乎像你個人。

No, no, not me.

不，不，不是我。

I got a lot of cousins that lesbians and gay.

我有很多表兄妹都是女同性戀和男同性戀

So I grew up knowing about it.

所以我從小就知道這個事情。

So there's no big deal.

所以也沒什麼大不了的。

How do you feel about bisexuality?

你對雙性戀有什麼看法？

No big deal either.

也沒什麼大不了的。

I wish it ran in the family.

我希望它是家族遺傳的。

You mean like you wish Mom was my first date with a girl?

你是說你希望媽媽是我第一次和女孩約會嗎？

She joked about us getting married.

她開玩笑說我們要結婚了。

Did you really go out with a girl?

你真的和一個女孩出去了嗎？

Yes.

是的，我知道

Oh, I didn't know that.

哦，我不知道。

So those songs that I kissed a girl, I kissed a girl and I like it.

所以那些我吻了一個女孩的歌，我吻了一個女孩，我喜歡。

That's true.

這倒是真的。

Do you care if I end up with a man or a woman?

你在乎我最後是和男人還是女人在一起嗎？

Not really along.

不太沿。

Is there nice?

有好的嗎？

As long as you're happy, I really don't care.

只要你開心，我真的不在乎。

Do you believe in polyamory?

你相信一夫多妻制嗎？

What is that?

那是什麼？

I don't know what that means.

我不知道那是什麼意思。

It's okay.

沒事的

Mhm E would have to believe it from the fact that it exists in a lot of cultures.

從很多文化中存在的事實來看，E不得不相信。

Mormons, they believe in polygamy.

摩門教徒，他們相信一夫多妻制。

The Muslims believe in polygamy.

穆斯林相信一夫多妻制。

And I've met quite a few on both sides.

而且兩邊的人我都見過不少。

Uh, they're very happy with multiple partners.

呃，他們對多個合作伙伴非常滿意。

Well, if it works for them, it's not my business.

好吧，如果這對他們有用，那就不關我的事了。

I don't care.

我不在乎。

But you are monogamous, monogamous?

但你是一夫一妻制，一夫一妻制？

Meaning just one person.

意思就是隻有一個人。

Yes, I've already I've already broached the question with your mother.

是的，我已經... ...我已經跟你媽媽提過這個問題了。

That is not a topic for discussion.

這不是一個討論的話題。

Ever.

從來沒有。

Ever, ever.

永遠，永遠。

Have you ever had a threesome?

你有過3P嗎？

No.

不知道

No.

不知道

Do you wanna have a threesome?

你想玩3P嗎？

Never.

從來沒有。

Things is.

事情是。

For the record, I have to say.

鄭重聲明，我不得不說。

Now, have you ever had crushes on girls?

現在，你有沒有暗戀過女孩？

No, but I did like my teacher before in high school.

沒有，但我以前在高中時確實喜歡我的老師。

She is really pretty like her, but not like it.

她真的很像她，但又不像。

But I loved the way and face looks.

但我喜歡這種方式和麵孔的樣子。

I have looked at men and thought I bet women would literally like him based on the way he looks.

我看過男人，覺得根據他的長相，我打賭女人一定會真的喜歡他。

But that's a far as it goes.

但這是最遠的事。

Do you ever question your own sexuality?

你有沒有質疑過自己的性取向？

No.

不知道

The no.

的號。

I just want to do it with Daddy and nobody else.

我只想和爸爸一起做，沒有其他人。

Oh, he told us that you will not consider a threesome at any point ever.

哦，他告訴我們，你不會考慮在任何時候3P。

He's yours.

他是你的了

No, I'm kind of kind of old fashioned, I think.

不，我是那種老式的，我想。

What do you think?

你覺得呢？

When I sent you that message, I thought it was Photoshopped Photo E.

我給你發資訊的時候，還以為是Photoshop的照片E。

Yes, because I didn't think that's something that they would present to you on stage in front of the cameras and a bunch of people.

是的，因為我不認為這是什麼 他們會呈現給你在舞臺上 在攝影機和一堆人面前。

No, I got it engraved afterwards.

不，我是後來才刻上去的。

Well, I didn't get it at first because I didn't know what the hell was like.

好吧，我一開始不懂，因為我不知道這到底是什麼樣子。

What is this, b b i What?

這是什麼，b b i什麼？

At what the heck or a buy?

在什麼情況下還是買了？

And that's why I was like, It's on a goodbye that it goes like, I don't know.

這就是為什麼我當時想，這是在一個再見，它去像，我不知道。

We're surprised.

我們很驚訝。

Not really.

不見得

I mean, not that I suspected or anything, but it wasn't shocking.

我的意思是，不是說我懷疑或任何東西， 但它並不令人震驚。

It's like you're telling me about a new dress e dress by by cool.

這就像你告訴我一個新的禮服E禮服由酷。

Like I said, as long as you're happy, I'm happy for you know, once you find a good partner, think the partner that would love you take care of you, not hurt you.

就像我說的，只要你幸福，我就為你高興，你知道嗎，一旦你找到一個好的伴侶，想必愛你的伴侶會照顧你，而不是傷害你。

I think that's that's all parents want for their kids.

我想這就是父母對孩子的全部要求。

Just to be happy Way did mention it does not mean your mother didn't know what it meant.

幸福路有提過，不代表你媽媽不知道是什麼意思。

I kind of explain a little bit Google.

我算是解釋一下谷歌。

Did I have to go?

我一定要去嗎？

You know I didn't have to go.

你知道我沒必要去。

That's a person.

那是一個人。

It doesn't matter if you're with a woman over the guy, You know?

如果你和女人在一起，而不是和男人在一起，這並不重要，你知道嗎？

Like I said, you just have to be in love.

就像我說的，你只需要在愛情中。

You're happy with them.

你對他們很滿意。

And as long as the partner is good, good with you.

而且只要伴侶好，跟你好。

Good for you And respect this other.

對你有好處，並尊重對方。

I don't see any problem with it.

我看不出有什麼問題。

Don't say anything to the gay community.

不要對同志群體說什麼。

Hi, Timmy.

嗨，蒂米。