Name: 嫉妒別人的成功 (Jealous of other people's success)
Uploaded: 2020-10-23T22:27:04.000Z
Duration: 3 min 41 s

But usually when I tell people I have five cats, I get this reaction.

但通常當我告訴別人我有五隻貓時，我會得到這樣的反應。

I expect nothing less than this reaction unless you're like a fellow cat lady with a comparable amount of cats, in which case we shall bond for life.

我希望你的反應不會比這個少，除非你像一個有相當數量貓咪的女同胞一樣，這樣的話，我們將終身相伴。

But when I was at a party and I told someone I had five cats and they said, Wow, five cats e.

但當我在一個聚會上，我告訴別人我有五隻貓，他們說，哇，五隻貓e。

I mean, that's much less than Bella Thorne.

我是說，這比貝拉-索恩少多了。

I mean, immediately, my five cats paled in comparison, and I started to wonder, Should I get 15 more?

我的意思是，馬上，我的五隻貓就黯然失色了，我開始想，我應該再買15只貓嗎？

我的意思是，這是不可接受的。

People are gonna think that I'm not serious about cats.

Like I told you, it sounds stupid, but I use this analogy because it also sounds stupid when a friend says so I got a promotion.

就像我告訴你的，這聽起來很愚蠢，但我用這個比喻，因為當朋友說所以我得到了晉升，這聽起來也很愚蠢。

Your success makes me feel like a failure.

你的成功讓我覺得自己很失敗。

And I wish you would just stop growing in any professional or personal capacity because it makes me feel insecure.

我希望你能停止在任何專業或個人能力上的成長，因為這讓我覺得沒有安全感。

Now it's natural for us to feel envy when someone else succeeds.

現在，當別人成功的時候，我們自然會感到羨慕。

But the important thing is, if you're using that envy to serve you or if you're using it to self criticized.

但重要的是，你是用這種羨慕來為你服務，還是用它來自我批評。

For example, if I look at a picture of a delicious glutinous Maximus and I feel jelly, I could react one of two ways the first way.

例如，如果我看了一張美味的糯米西米露的圖片，我覺得果凍，我可能會有兩種反應第一種方式。

All she cares about is showing off her body like, yeah, we get it, you go to the gym or oh my God, Becky's look at this.

她只關心的是炫耀她的身體，就像，是的，我們明白了，你去健身房或哦，我的上帝，貝基的看看這個。

I mean, she must have done like thousands and thousands of squat.

我的意思是，她一定是做了幾千幾萬個蹲位。

This is what happens when you stick to your glutes.

Oh my God, I am just I'm so inspired by this.

哦，我的上帝，我只是... ...我是如此的啟發了這一點。

So whenever I feel jealous of someone else's success or body or intelligence, I remind myself what reaction is gonna help me achieve what I want.

所以，每當我對別人的成功、身材或智慧感到嫉妒時，我就會提醒自己，什麼樣的反應才能幫助我實現自己的願望。

Internalizing this envy as insecurity or as inspiration.

將這種羨慕內化為不安全感或靈感。

And I don't know about you, but I like feeling inspired a hell of a lot more than I do feeling insecure and What's wonderful is that when you do feel inspired by someone else's success, the next natural question is, Well, how did they get there?

我不知道你怎麼想的，但我喜歡感覺到靈感比我感覺到不安全要多得多。 最奇妙的是，當你感覺到別人的成功所帶來的靈感時，下一個自然而然的問題是，他們是怎麼做到的？

What can I do that they did to get where they are versus if you let your jealousy fester into resentment?

我可以做什麼，他們做了什麼，才能得到他們的位置與如果你讓你的嫉妒心發酵成怨恨？

I'm sure she just got lucky or had connections or something.

我相信她只是運氣好或者有關係之類的。

You dismiss their success without ever exploring the methods of how they achieved it.

你否定了他們的成功，卻從來沒有探討過他們如何實現成功的方法。

So when you feel jealous and we all dio you have a choice, you can let that jealousy make you feel like you're not good enough or you can turn it into ambition on I think it's pretty obvious which path is gonna help you get to the same level of success that will, in turn inspired jealousy and others.

所以，當你感到嫉妒，我們都dio你有一個選擇，你可以讓這種嫉妒讓你覺得你不夠好，或者你可以把它變成野心上我認為這是非常明顯的哪條道路是要幫助你獲得相同的成功，將，反過來激發嫉妒和其他人。

I'm an Americana, and I'm gonna get every cat in the world.

我是個美國人，我要把世界上所有的貓都抓來。

I would like to say Thank you to fill in for sponsoring today's video.

在此，我想說感謝填報對今天視頻的贊助。

Fillon is a clean beauty retailer that has incredibly safe products.

芙蓉是一家清潔美容零售商，其產品的安全性令人難以置信。

There are 100% nontoxic, vegan and cruelty free.

I'm a health not about what I eat, making sure I get enough exercise and sleep and of course, the products that I put on my skin because I'm a vain actor.

我是一個健康不關乎吃什麼的人，保證自己有足夠的運動和睡眠，當然，還有我塗抹在皮膚上的產品，因為我是一個虛榮的演員。

But for real, our skin is our largest organ, absorbing up to 60% of the products that we put on it.

但實際上，我們的皮膚是我們最大的器官，對我們塗抹在皮膚上的產品吸收率高達60%。

Which is why every product on Elaine Shelf goes through a rigorous five step approval process, the complete opposite of how I choose my partners.

這也是為什麼伊萊恩貨架上的每一件產品都要經過嚴格的五步審批程序，與我選擇合作伙伴的方式完全相反。

Kit is the most adorable and practical thing that I now own for traveling, and it's already TSA approved.

Kit是我現在擁有的最可愛最實用的旅行用品，而且已經通過了TSA認證。

Thank God it comes with, ah, cleanser, a toner, a moisturizer and this adorable cute soap that you can literally use on anything all in this adorable emerald pouch.

謝天謝地，它自帶啊，潔面乳，爽膚水，保溼霜，還有這塊可愛的香皂，你真的可以用在任何東西上，都可以用在這個可愛的翡翠袋裡。

Think it is usually $45 but the 1st 100 people to click on the link in the description will get 50% off and free delivery, making it only $22.

認為它通常是45美元，但第100人點擊描述中的鏈接將獲得50％的折扣和免費送貨，使其僅22美元。