Name: 如果你想知道如何才能找到並保持愛情--請看這個! (If You Want To Know What It Takes To FIND and KEEP LOVE - WATCH THIS!)
Uploaded: 2020-09-14T19:20:38.000Z
Duration: 11 min 33 s

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是的，證明它像，什麼是度量衡？

No, right, Because when you met her, you didn't love her.

不，對，因為當你遇到她時，你並不愛她。

It's that it's much easier to prove over time.

就是時間長了，證明起來就容易多了。

So if you were, if you were to go to the gym like exercise, right, If you go to the gym and you work out and you come back and you look in the mirror, you will see nothing.

所以，如果你是，如果你是去健身房像鍛鍊，對吧，如果你去健身房，你的工作，你回來，你看鏡子，你會看到什麼。

And if you go to the gym the next day and you come back and you look in the mirror, you will see nothing, right?

如果你第二天去健身房，回來照鏡子的時候，你什麼都看不到，對吧？

So he clearly there's no results can't be measured.

所以他明確的是沒有結果無法衡量。

Or if you fundamentally believe, that this is the right course of action and you stick with it like in a relationship.

或者說，如果你從根本上相信，這是正確的行動路線，你就像談戀愛一樣堅持下去。

I bought her flowers and I wish her happy birthday and she doesn't love me.

我給她買了花，我祝她生日快樂，她卻不愛我。

That's not what happens if you if you believe there's something there, you commit yourself to act on active service.

這不是發生了什麼，如果你如果你相信有什麼東西在那裡，你承諾自己採取行動的積極服務。

You commit yourself to the regime, be exercise.

你要承諾自己的制度，要鍛鍊。

But if you stick with it consistently, I'm not exactly sure what day.

但如果你始終如一的堅持下去，我也不知道到底是哪一天。

But I know you'll start getting into shape.

I know on the same with the relationship.

You go to the dentist twice a year, your teeth will fall out.

你每年去看兩次牙醫，你的牙齒就會脫落。

You have to brush your teeth every day for two minutes.

What is brushing your day twice a day for two minutes?

每天刷兩次，每次刷兩分鐘是什麼？

Do nothing unless you do it every day, twice a day for two minutes, right?

什麼都不做，除非你每天都做，每天兩次，每次兩分鐘，對吧？

Going to the gym for nine hours does not get you into shape.

去健身房9個小時，並不能讓你進入狀態。

Working out every day for 20 minutes gets you into shape.

每天鍛鍊20分鐘，就能讓你的身材變好。

So the problem is we treat leadership with intensity.

所以，問題是我們對待上司的力度。

We give everybody certificate your leader right.

Those things were like going to the dentist.

That good for reminding us or getting us back on track, learning new lessons.

這很好的提醒我們或讓我們回到正軌，吸取新的教訓。

But it's the daily practice of all the monotonous little boring things.

但這是每天都在練習的所有單調的小無聊的事情。

Like brushing your teeth that matter the most.

She didn't fall in love with you because you remembered her birthday and bought her flowers on Valentine's Day.

她之所以愛上你，並不是因為你記得她的生日，在情人節給她買了花。

She fell in love with you because when you woke up in the morning, you said good morning to her.

她愛上了你，因為當你早上醒來的時候，你對她說早安。

She fell in love with you because when you went to the fridge to get yourself a drink, you got her one without even asking.

她愛上了你，因為當你去冰箱給自己買飲料的時候，你連問都不問就給她買了一杯。

She fell in love with you because when you had an amazing day at work and she came home and she had a terrible day at work, you didn't say Yeah, yeah, yeah, but let me tell you about my day.

她愛上了你，因為當你有一個驚人的一天的工作，她回家，她有一個可怕的一天的工作，你沒有說是啊，是啊，是啊，但讓我告訴你我的一天。

You sat and listened to her awful day and you didn't say a thing about your amazing day.

你坐在那裡聽著她糟糕的一天，你卻對你令人驚奇的一天隻字不提。

I can't tell you exactly what day and it was.

我不能告訴你到底是哪一天，是什麼日子。

It was the accumulation of all of those little things that she woke up one days and a Ziff.

正是這些小事的積累，她才會在某一天醒來，一個齊夫。

It's It's an accumulation of lots and lots of little things that anyone, by themselves is innocuous and useless, literally pointless by themselves.

它是它是很多很多小東西的積累，任何人，自己都是無害的，無用的，自己根本就沒有意義。

People will look at little things that are good leadership practice and say that won't work and you're absolutely right.

人們會看一些小事，是很好的上司做法，就說那不行，你說的很對。

But if you do it consistently and you do it in combination with lots of other little things, like saying good morning to someone that looking him in the eye my friend George was there a three star general in the Marine Corps, he says, His test for leadership and I love this.

但是，如果你持續地做它，你做它與許多其他的小事情相結合，比如說早上好的人，看著他的眼睛，我的朋友喬治是有一個三星將軍在海軍陸戰隊，他說，他的測試領導力，我喜歡這個。

他去他的測試真的是一個好上司。

If you ask somebody how their day is going, you actually care about the answer.

如果你問一個人今天過得怎麼樣，其實你很關心答案。

Number of times were walking to a meeting were rushing.

走去開會的次數都是匆匆忙忙。

If you ask the question, you were standing there and you're listening to the answer.

如果你問了這個問題，你當時站在那裡，你在聽答案。

It's those little innocuous things that you do over and over and over and over that people will say, I love my job, but I like my job.

就是那些無傷大雅的小事，你做了一遍又一遍，人們會說，我愛我的工作，但我喜歡我的工作。

They pay me Well, I like the people I love.

My job means I don't wanna work anywhere else.

我的工作意味著我不想去別的地方工作。

I don't care how much somebody else is willing to pay me.

我不在乎別人願意給我多少錢。

I'm devoted to the people here and I care desperately about the people.

我對這裡的人是忠心耿耿的，我對這裡的人是極度關心的。

Here is if they were my family in business, we have colleagues and coworkers in the military.

這裡是如果他們是我做生意的家人，我們有同事和同事在部隊。

If you really have a strong corporate culture, the people will think of each other like brothers and sisters.

如果你真的有很強的企業文化，大家就會把對方當成兄弟姐妹。

The love doesn't go away and I'll fight with my sister.

愛不釋手，我和姐姐一起奮鬥。

But if you threaten my sister, you're gonna have to deal with me, right?

但如果你威脅我妹妹，你就得對付我，對吧？

Well, bicker with each other, but nobody's gonna hurt each other.

好吧，互相爭吵，但沒有人會互相傷害。

And if anything from the outside shows up, you're looking at a unified front.

如果外面有什麼東西出現，你就會看到一個統一戰線。

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