Name: 為你的婚姻療傷｜喬伊斯-梅耶爾 (Healing for Your Marriage | Joyce Meyer)
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JOYCE: YOU KNOW, I'VE TOLD YOU THAT I HAD ALL

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I MEAN, LIKE, FROM BEING ABUSED FOR 15 YEARS BY MY DAD.

AND I MEAN, THIS WASN'T JUST AN OCCASIONAL THING, THIS WAS ALL

THE TIME, ALL THE TIME, ALL THE TIME, ALL THE TIME.

AND, I'M NOT GOING TO GO THROUGH ALL THE NASTY DETAILS, YOU CAN

BUT, I WAS IN BAD SHAPE BY THE TIME HE GOT DONE WITH ME.

I MEAN, I DIDN'T LOOK LIKE THERE'S ANYTHING WRONG WITH ME.

AND YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU HAVE A MESS IN YOUR SOUL, YOU KNOW

JOYCE: FOR ONE THING, I DIDN'T LIKE MYSELF BECAUSE I

THOUGHT SOMETHING WAS WRONG WITH ME BECAUSE OF WHAT HE HAD

AND IF YOU DON'T LIKE YOURSELF, YOU'RE NOT GOING TO BE ABLE GET

AND SO, I WAS MISERABLE AND THEREFORE, I SET ABOUT TRYING TO

AND MISERABLE PEOPLE DON'T EVEN REALIZE WHAT THEY'RE DOING.

BUT THE HONEST TRUTH IS, IS THAT WHEN YOU'RE MISERABLE YOU

REALLY DON'T WANT ANYBODY ELSE TO BE HAPPY.

YOU WANT OTHER PEOPLE TO BE MISERABLE WITH YOU.

AND YOU MAYBE DON'T EVEN DO IT ON PURPOSE, BUT YOU REALLY JUST

MY FATHER WAS A MISERABLE HUMAN BEING AND HE DID HIS BEST TO

MAKE EVERYBODY ELSE THAT HE WAS AROUND MISERABLE.

AND WE ALL LET HIM DO IT BECAUSE WE DIDN'T KNOW THAT

WELL, DAVE WAS BORN-AGAIN, SPIRIT-FILLED CHRISTIAN, WHO'D

AND HE TOLD GOD, "MAKE IT SOMEBODY THAT NEEDS HELP."

NOW, YOU WANT TO BE VERY CAREFUL HOW YOU PRAY.

JOYCE: CAN YOU IMAGINE SOMEBODY PRAYING THAT?

BUT SEE, THAT'S WHAT A STRONG CHRISTIAN SAYS, YOU KNOW,

I WANT TO BE USED BY YOU, GOD." YOU KNOW, I DON'T EVEN THINK HE

KNEW WHAT HE WAS DOING WHEN HE PRAYED THAT.

I'M SURE IT WAS JUST LIKE, A DIVINE--MAYBE HE WAS IN A

TRANCE OR SOMETHING WHEN HE PRAYED THAT PRAYER...

BUT, DAVE WAS STRONG ENOUGH IN THE LORD THAT HE WOULD NOT LET

AND THE HAPPIER HE STAYED, THE MADDER IT MADE ME.

JOYCE: DOES ANYBODY KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT?

BUT, IT WAS ONE OF THE BEST THINGS HE EVER DID FOR ME.

BECAUSE, I SAW--NOW, LISTEN TO ME, THOSE OF YOU THAT ARE

MARRIED TO SOMEBODY THAT SPENDS ALL THEIR TIME TRYING TO MAKE

OR MAYBE, YOU'RE THE ONE THAT SPENDS ALL YOUR TIME TRYING TO

JOYCE: I DON'T KNOW, IF YOU'RE THE ONE THAT'S

JOYCE: I GOTTA PREACH TO WHO I GOTTA PREACH TO.

JOYCE: BUT, WHAT I BEGAN TO SEE WAS STABILITY.

I BEGAN TO SEE SOMEBODY WHO WASN'T CONTROLLED BY

DAVE LOVED ME UNCONDITIONALLY, BUT I HAD TO RECEIVE THE LOVE.

HE DIDN'T TURN IT ON AND OFF BASED ON MY BEHAVIOR.

AND ONE OF THE THINGS THAT WE NEED TO LEARN IS TO BE WHO GOD

WANTS US TO BE NO MATTER WHAT EVERYBODY ELSE IS DOING.

JOYCE: MAYBE SOMEBODY'S BEEN MEAN TO YOU, THEY HAVEN'T

AND SO NOW, YOUR TEMPTATION IS YOU'RE GOING TO BUILD A WALL,

AND YOU'RE NOT GOING TO LET THEM INTO YOUR LIFE, AND YOU'RE NOT

GOING TO TALK TO 'EM, AND YOU'RE GOING TO GIVE 'EM

WELL, THAT'S NOT THE WAY GOD WANTS YOU TO RESPOND.

BECAUSE, NOW YOU'RE LETTING THEM CONTROL YOU.

AND WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS JUST SAY, "GOD, I'M GOING TO

AND I'M GOING TO TRUST YOU TO TAKE CARE OF THEM."

SO, I'M TELLING YOU THAT YOU DON'T HAVE TO LET OTHER PEOPLE

AND THAT'S SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN DO, BUT ONLY IF YOU HAVE

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