Name: 我為什麼要搬回父母家住？（作為一個百萬富翁） (Why I'm moving back in with my parents. (as a millionaire))
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As a fully grown adult man, a mother here, this apartment.

It costs about $4000 a month, and I'm getting rid of it because it just doesn't make sense anymore.

For me, 2019 has been absolutely ridiculous.

I started this year with a fully intact family, a wife, a kid, a good job over at Facebook, work, answer staff, software engineer And somewhere halfway.

Everything just went through trash so fast my marriage fell apart.

I was fired from my job, and these are really the two components that really keep you locked down and anchored somewhere.

They justify the reason for only in your own place an apartment.

But now, after 4 to 5 years of living that married life, everything just vanished.

And so I really don't have any good reason to be here.

And by the way, I would recommend you guys also to be moving back in with your parents because it's cool now or you haven't heard it's trendy these days to be living with your parents.

I'm making it cool because there are so many benefits to living with their parents.

Number one cooking, doing laundry that can usually be combined.

It doesn't cause anybody in the additional work, really, and you can just benefit from that, so you don't have to do that.

In that regard, a lot of things can be shared, like Internet Bill's utility water guess, furniture, small kitchen appliances, washer dryer, vacuum cleaners, tables, chairs, pots and pans, even food.

Amazon prime subscriptions, not to mention pet.

Right now, my parents are taking care of my dog, who I absolutely love.

But as a single person living here, I just don't have the band with to be taking care of a pet.

But if I were to go live with my parents, I can spend more time with my dog.

And then the maintenance burden of taking care of this pen is just shared among many people going out to restaurants like if it's a family type of restaurant, I could just sample more different types of food is just fun or more social.

I can ask people to help do things for me.

I would say, for single people who don't really have a strong reason to be living on their own, they just be living with their parents.

Sure, you can go live with some roommates, but you know, that really just multiplies the cost.

Like if you have four roommates living together, you just have four people wasting money.

And the biggest savings is not so much about money.

It is about the time that you were able to save my time is extremely valuable.

And if there's other people who could help take care of small, little misleading, these tasks for me and there were turned, I also helped do my share of the housework in chores.

Then everybody is just able to benefit in the symbiotic relationship.

I believe that back in the day in China or something, people would just you would have multigenerational families just all living within one roof, and I have a feeling that as we approach the future as we have pushed the digital age in which people are able to work remotely, we're going to get back to that because think about it.

What causes you to live in your apartment?

What made you move out beyond just for dating reasons which in my opinion, cannot justify 2 to $4000 worth of monthly rent is just not worth it.

If you want to date, you can just get a hotel.

So, really, the reason is number one, your parents are living in, like, the middle of Idaho, and then you want to go work in the city.

So, yeah, that's a reason you need the job.

But think about that as people start to work online and remotely, and I have a feeling that one day in the future, everybody would just be working remotely.

There's not going to be a need for people to be living in expensive cities like San Francisco, New York, London.

Actually, people would just want to go live and say Hawaii.

If you could work remotely, then sure, why not?

And then the second reason is there just may not be enough space in the house.

And at that point, then yeah, I would say you could be moving out.

But barring that heavy and family, I just can't seem to justify in my head why I would be spending thousands of dollars a month on the place just so that I can feel the sense of independence, which is something.

It's an outdated concept that was invented after the second war about the whole nuclear family unit.

But in reality it's probably set America back decades just because of the amount of time and money and resources that we've been waiting on this stuff on the independent life.

And the other thing is, you may think that living out here, you were able to gain your own freedom quite the opposite.

You just shackled and chained yourself to this apartment when I moved back home, then I would truly have freedom.

I'll have freed up a lot of my funds so I could just go travel wherever I want to go.

And I could use my parents home as kind of like a base where I returned to, occasionally just to stock up, refuel on supplies and that can be out and going about again.

If you're truly looking for freedom, then you need to be getting rid of your stuff.

Getting rid of your contract with your apartment, Your you to lead the bills.

Internet builds all the other stuff that you have to take care of, such that you can just go out and be yourself in the world.

Now I know there's a social stigma attached with this, and all of your friends are going to be laughing at you.

And if I were a weaker men than I would not be able to do this.

I'm in the position where I'm able to define what is cool, what is not cool.

And I'm telling you, as a successful person in their mid thirties, moving back in with your parents is the best thing you can ever do.

If you wanted the entrepreneurial lifestyle, you wanted it.

It frees up your time, your money, your mobility.

By far, your apartment is just ridiculous.

Over here in the Bay Area, I would say standard rent is like $2500 a month.

And if you take a look at that over 12 months, that's like $36,000 a year after tax income.

So in order to pay for something like that, you would need to be generating 50 K annual salary just to break even on this apartment.

You're just working to sustain a lifestyle that you hate and you're not really getting anywhere.

You're just slaving away and being underpaid, By the way.

Now, some of you may be wondering, Well, what happens if your parents are out living in the middle of Idaho and you can just move in with them in order to work your job?

Well, my recommendation would actually be Perhaps your parents should move into the city with you and get rid of their place in either hope.

You go to school, you go through college graduate, then it's time to get a job.

You need to move into a big city to find those opportunities.

The house and the whole family moves into state like San Francisco or something like that, or a little bit out of there.

And then everybody can be living there and saving on costs and is not really so much the cost.

But there's also that time aspect, like you're just able to free up a lot of time so you don't have to do all of your own cooking, cleaning house chores.

Other people can help take care of that for you share in some of that burden.

I mean, your parents probably have nothing better to do, not to mention you get the support network.